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Worse off living with partner?

I am currently claiming Job Seekers Allowance and Housing/Tax benefits.

My partner and I are really desperate to move in together, we can't really get a place elsewhere (can't afford to rent, and not in dire enough need to get a place via council) so looks like he may have to move into my council flat with me short-term. But not sure if that's even possible financially speaking while I don't work.

He works full-time earning about £16k, I think. Right now as I'm living off £42 p/w and he's practically here all the time anyway he helps me out, but he also has debts to pay and pays rent/bills to his parents too. It would be better for us if we lived together, but I heard I'd get no benefits in that situation...so it'd be a case of 6 and two 3's.

Don't much fancy trying to ask the job centre about this because...well...their useless, and currently giving me a hard time for being disabled so I don't much want to have to talk to them about anything, let alone ask for advice/help.

Anyway, can anyone shed some light on this for me?

What benefits would I loose if living with a partner?
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  • He works full-time earning about £16k, I think. Right now as I'm living off £42 p/w and he's practically here all the time anyway he helps me out, but he also has debts to pay and pays rent/bills to his parents too. It would be better for us if we lived together, but I heard I'd get no benefits in that situation...so it'd be a case of 6 and two 3's.

    I'd hurry up and let the JCP know about the situation before you're prosecuted for benefit fraud; you're obviously living as a couple already.
  • I am currently claiming Job Seekers Allowance and Housing/Tax benefits.

    My partner and I are really desperate to move in together, we can't really get a place elsewhere (can't afford to rent, and not in dire enough need to get a place via council) so looks like he may have to move into my council flat with me short-term. But not sure if that's even possible financially speaking while I don't work.

    He works full-time earning about £16k, I think. Right now as I'm living off £42 p/w and he's practically here all the time anyway he helps me out, but he also has debts to pay and pays rent/bills to his parents too. It would be better for us if we lived together, but I heard I'd get no benefits in that situation...so it'd be a case of 6 and two 3's.

    Don't much fancy trying to ask the job centre about this because...well...their useless, and currently giving me a hard time for being disabled so I don't much want to have to talk to them about anything, let alone ask for advice/help.

    Anyway, can anyone shed some light on this for me?

    What benefits would I loose if living with a partner?

    Many people live together and chose that option over benefits.
    Having one lot of bills are a lot cheaper than paying for two lots of bills.

    Are you not able to work to improve your financial situation?
    Be happy, it's the greatest wealth :)
  • he's practically here all the time anyway he helps me out,


    You need to cut this right down, you are going to get in trouble, :eek:
    Blackpool_Saver is female, and does not live in Blackpool

  • Caz3121
    Caz3121 Posts: 15,917 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    what disibility benefits do you receive as these may be unaffected, Housing/Council Tax Benefits will be based on your total household income. Might be also looking at working tax credits
  • Caz3121 wrote: »
    what disibility benefits do you receive as these may be unaffected, Housing/Council Tax Benefits will be based on your total household income. Might be also looking at working tax credits

    The OP receives JSA,
  • viktory
    viktory Posts: 7,635 Forumite
    The OP receives JSA,

    Which begs the question, in which way is she disabled and why is she not in receipt of the relevant benefits?
  • krisskross
    krisskross Posts: 7,677 Forumite

    My partner and I are really desperate to move in together, we can't really get a place elsewhere (can't afford to rent, and not in dire enough need to get a place via council) so looks like he may have to move into my council flat with me short-term. But not sure if that's even possible financially speaking while I don't work.

    This makes no sense at all as you already live in a property from the council.
  • Aint Andy posting again is it?
    Be happy, it's the greatest wealth :)
  • Aint Andy posting again is it?


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    Those members seek him everywhere
    Is he up or down below
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  • viktory wrote: »
    Which begs the question, in which way is she disabled and why is she not in receipt of the relevant benefits?

    I have Asperger's - there's no benefits for that, I am capable of working so cannot get ESA, but my disability limits what work I can do and most employers simply won't employ someone who is disabled.
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