Weekly Flylady Thread 7th February 2011

toottifrootti

thats lovely MOAM xxx

piggers cant you phone or text him and get them home asap?

toots xx

AnW'sMum

Bagsy I go for 8.30, what odds do I get?

helen_jelly

8.26 is my guess

{and this problem you are having Pigpen is why I take mine and collect them - I have the control not him, although it is a huge pain having to do it]

pigpen

toottifrootti wrote: »

thats lovely MOAM xxx

piggers cant you phone or text him and get them home asap?

toots xx

Nah.. if I phone and nag he will be even later than he would be oherwise..

8:30 is about the 'usual' time.. despite us agreeing 6:30-7pm.. I don't think he can tell the time!

DS1's hair minced, he doesn't have fleas even though Jacob was hopping.. and he swept up so I didn't have the bend down as I am feeling woolly despite having eaten.
DD1 stuffing her face
Baby fed, boobed, medicined and changed.. just needs her pj's on and she is about ready for bed!

I have more laundry to fold and must get the baby stuff in to wash before she runs out of bibs again! not only is she dribbling but she is snotting and spewing too so it is just not nice in here.

Helen.. i would but I feel grotty and Freja isn't well and he wouldn't hand thmem over to OH because he is a KH

Craftyscholar

toottifrootti wrote: »

what happenened to the greenbee we knew - are you going to let Ex-oh drag you down because thats what it looks like to me - he's making you miserable - do you want to stay just friends then you are going to have to get tough again and stop wondering about what he is doing or what might have been - if you are just colleagues then keep him in his place and he will soon get the message - it is quite possible to still to work together but if you are still drawn to him then it wont work - I am sorry if I am sounding harse but i think you need to have a good talk with yourself and decide what you want with or without him and go for it. As for the exercise and eating problems this is what happens when you dont look after yourself - you have been all over the world and your body clock has taken a battering - you need to be a bit more careful about catching up when you get back from trips - as always you were trying to fit in tooooooooo much - take this blip as a warning to sort out your routines and finding time for relaxation and I dont mean at 6am!!!! Even if you are working from home you should be getting up and getting properly dressed - if you are smart and tidy you will achieve that much more as you will be more motivated - you know all that already but just need reminding - forgive me for being brutal but we are all worried about you but probably too scared to tell you. Now if you havent already (I'm just catching up) get yourself dressed and go for a SHORT walk - 5-10 mins is enough for now- then you will be eating at 7pm so get your act together - AND you will be going to bed at a reasonable time - I dont know what your week is like but you need to re-introduce definite routines into your day - eat at proper times and get enough sleep for starters - and I expect to see posts saying you have been working when you should not lying reading or being lazy - come my girl you can do this and I wont take 'no' for an answer. (((hugs)))
tootsxx

hex2 wrote: »

Toots - you aren't wrong, but where Greenbee is atm is superb for her career and she has to stay for a while. Greenbee, you know, without my unsolicited opinion (for which I apologise) that you both have to rise above it. If he can't then he needs to leave and take the damage, not you. He persued the situation, not you. He chose to mess it up, not you. He should pay the price, not you. Do not let him win. You are clever, and throoughly competent. You never, ever lose.

^^^^^^^^
Wise words seconded.

craftdaft

Just updating. Have managed all level 1 tasks (with exception of master bedroom) and about half the level 2 tasks - the best I've ever managed :T:T I'm now too tired to score things off the list then post and am keen to look at next week's lists.

Happy flying and see you on the new thread.

igaveupnowimback

oh, didn't realise new thread!!