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Wordsmith

savingwannabe wrote: »

you are such a bright light on this site.

And so are you SW!

savingwannabe

Bless you, you have no idea how much being here helps me. You guys are my family and keep me going. When it is horrible at work or i am upset i remember funny things that you have all posted and i replace my own miserable thoughts with happy memories from good friends on here. SA is such a tonic. She should be on the NHS, sickleave would stop overnight.

savingwannabe

It is beautiful outside. I am hoping you are out with Mr T admiring the ducks and planning another project. There is a wonderful world out there I am so glad i am finding the time to enjoy it now. Do have a good day my dear friend and be happy.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SzJY96m3lkg Sam Cooke, Wonderful World.

savingwannabe

Mr Dojo can you dance to Kung Fu Fighting in the style of John Travolta in Saturday Night Fever? It will make SA laugh and she will come back, everyone join in!!!! I am eating lots of crisps in this party on my own.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jhUkGIsKvn0

CopperJar and Wordsmith, stop hiding under the table. Join in. Angel get out from under the table honey and tap your feet.

3Dogs

Such stirring words SW, as always, you know the right things to say to help others :A

SA - I have not even peeped at that diary for a couple of months now, since I said my piece and said I would not post again - they seem to wallow in self-pity instead of getting on with things like you do - I do admire you for what you have done with your life

We all offer advice in one way or another to people we see need it, but when it is not being heeded, or in fact thrown back in our faces, then it is time to stop, turn away and don't look back - and get on with our lives, enjoying the 'company' of those we call friends

And, as you say, the friendship and comaraderie of this forum is such a great help in seeing us through the bad days and sharing the good days, that it is not worth missing out on that for the sake of one person

You NEED to be here, we NEED you to be here - look forward to reading your new posts to see what you have been up to. I hope that you are making the most of the good weather and Mr T & you are getting lots of exercise, as walking is a great stress-beater

All the best hun

3Dogs

Oh, and by the way SW, I don't think I can manage the Kung-Fu Fighting as John Travolta, so I will just sit on one of the comfy chairs and sing along, OK?

savingwannabe

oh 3dogs, i fear houseprices have dropped in my street. I have been boogying away to it for a good while now bet Mr T would love to join in. Still love the song!

Wordsmith

I can't join in, I'm afraid. I am rather rhythmically challenged.:p

So_Sad_Angel

startagain wrote: »

I once stupidly attempted something that ended with a 10 day stay in hospital and when I witnessed the effect that it had on my friends and family I realised just how selfish an act it had been and I sought and continued to seek help to this day. People often comment on my positivity - I have grasped opportunites with both hands even if it is a minimum wage job, for which I am hugely overqualified, if it means ending a spell of unemployment. Slowly and surely I have now reached a place where I am relatively happy.

I may have a couple of days away from the board, without posting, but I will be thinking of you all.

SA

Hiya Hun...I have that T-Shirt too:(:o:o. A couple of years ago now but still as clear as if it was yesterday...life is so short & now even if the highlight of the day is simply seeing a single ray of sunlight then that makes life worth living.

I was in a dark place too & can identify with the desperate pointlessness of life. Its been said already but `life is what you make it`...& ultimately no-one else can change it for us...that has to come from within. I feel I am unable to offer support on that thread which is a shame but it is too raw for me to add anything that hasn`t already been said.

Please don`t go anywhere Sweetheart...& I hope that you are reading this even though you aren`t logging on.

Angiexx

savingwannabe wrote: »

CopperJar and Wordsmith, stop hiding under the table. Join in. Angel get out from under the table honey and tap your feet.

LOL SW.....theres no hiding from you is there Sweetie...I`m dancing...honestly I am

3Dogs wrote: »

You NEED to be here, we NEED you to be here - look forward to reading your new posts to see what you have been up to. I hope that you are making the most of the good weather and Mr T & you are getting lots of exercise, as walking is a great stress-beater

All the best hun

Totally agree with you 3Dogs...I`m off for a walk now too.

Have a fab afternoon everyone.

xx

savingwannabe

Aren't they wonderful? I have been there too. That's why i walked away too many memories. We love you SA and are all thinking of you. And Mr T and hopefully one day a Mrs T... and maybe some little T's. right i must shut up now.

I wonder when i die if the Good Lord will allow me to come back as a Cupid?