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A Payment A Day - Part 10!

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  • It's sooo not gonna go well!

    O.k I'm in a bit of a situation...

    I don't want Mr S...I want someone else :eek:

    Well maybe it's better to have no-one for a while until you've sorted out what/who you do/don't want.
    I've found that I function a lot better when not in a relationship. I'm sure there must be plenty like me too.
    Not that I rule it out forever of course.

    Maybe try the Hulk rather than Shrek. At least they've both got green skin :D

  • Maybe try the Hulk rather than Shrek. At least they've both got green skin :D

    Shrek was in place of the Hulk...but I can't get Hulk off my mind :o
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  • euronorris
    euronorris Posts: 12,247 Forumite
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    Did what you say really warrant this response?

    Is he being shy, embarassed or upset/angry?
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  • Mary - if it were me I'd apologise and try to set things right with The Hulk...but some time alone also sounds like a great idea? :)
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  • 50p for me!
    2019 will be my year!!
  • vasseur
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    O.k - Well, I've known him for a couple of years now and the more I think about him the more I want a piece :D

    I got the impression he felt the same way but then I said something really stupid a few weeks ago (didn't seem stupid at the time! :( and no, I didn't declare my un-dying love for him :p) and he's not spoken to me since (avoided eye contact and stuff)

    Now I don't know what to do!!

    Hmmm.....men seem to like the chase - maybe you wrong footed him by opening up about how you felt? He's probably just thinking things over.

    86p to Virgin CC as always.....
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
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  • Well...there's a fair plethora of gossip in here today! I hope all the ops have gone/will go well, and I hope that you lovelorn chickadees get your happy ever afters ;)

    PaD today of £10.08 for me please.

    I'm also quite proud to say that i've lost 6.25lbs since i started my new eating regime last Wednesday :j I know this rapid loss won't continue for long, but it's given me the boost I need to continue into the second week, and perhaps even try some exercise :o

    Hope you are all warm and fandabbidozy.

    *meep*
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  • euronorris wrote: »
    Did what you say really warrant this response?

    Is he being shy, embarassed or upset/angry?

    He was telling me some things one night and I asked him to stop because although I was flattered, I was also kinda embaressed :o

    I then told him that I didn't think it was wise to talk to him anymore about certain things and left the conversation as it was. I thought about it though and realised what a huge mistake I'd made.

    I tried to speak to him again when I seen him in the street but I didn't get very far.
    polesalot wrote: »
    Hmmm.....men seem to like the chase - maybe you wrong footed him by opening up about how you felt? He's probably just thinking things over.

    I didn't tell him!
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  • vasseur
    vasseur Posts: 3,090 Forumite
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    I didn't tell him!

    Then I reckon you're just imagining that he's ignoring you, avoiding eye contact etc because you are now so 'aware' of him. I know because that's what I do - I read too much into everything :o
    It's not how far you fall - it's how high you bounce back.... :j
    Happiness is not a destination - it's a journey :)
  • Yep, I read too much into everything too....

    I can't really give advice as I'm so rubbish myself but maybe you just need to confront it head on? I tend to stew over things and build them up into huge things in my head.

    Go for it xx
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