A Payment A Day - Part 10!

sashybo

Hi all, just £1 today.

Off to work later.

psychopathbabble

Thanks everyone...hopefully it'll be somewhere I stay for a bit... move in on Feb 7th! I know, prices down here are insane but we have no choice and got a pretty good deal on the rent in the end.

Hugs to everyone that needs them (Angelic, really hope you are ok and don't do anything you don't want to)

MrsW hope you have a lovely night out!

L-M

Hello lovely padders, hope you're all well, Angelic I hope the little ones are better soon and you don't get the lurgy!

A PAD of £10 to vanquis today from me (though I might try and do another one later depending on how much I spend on the food shop:))

Twinkles08

Hi everyone,hope your all having a grand day.
Sounds like your having a bit of a rough time at the mo angelicmary,I hope whatever you decide,that you end up happy and contented.It's so hard when the head says a different thing to the heart.I hope you stay sickness free and the little 'uns get better soon.Grumpy,whingey,poorly,snot-ridden kids are not fun-I have 2 right here!:rotfl:I think the goverment should get me to do sex ed classes,I'd soon put everyone off having kids and get them using precautions!Only joking I love my monkeys really.:D
Anyway my PAD today is 30p please.Will tuesday ever come??! x x

saorsie

Afternoon Team

Pad of £5 today please Flyin' to 'What If?' fund.

(((((Hugs))))) Scary <of the non~dodgy kind > only advice I would presume to give would be not to do anything hasty, there's never any rush when dealing with these 'delicate matters' x

-s-

never_too_old

£20 for me please.
This is going to go towards the house debt.


thanks

Allie_Ballie_Bee

£1.40 for me today F F.

Thinking of you angelicmary. Dilemma!

Paulgonnabedebtfree

angelicmary85 wrote: »

I'm not doing too badly...

Twinkles you won't know this but my OH left when I was about 11weeks pregnant. Since then, I've been fighting endless battles with him over silly things...anyway, the day before yesterday, he told me he thought he'd made a mistake and would like to try again so I entered into 'crisis talks' (as it were) with him.

Since then, he's a bit undecided about what he what he wants and I guess that's fair enough, he doesn't know where his head is at but it's not doing me any favours. I know it's silly after the things he's done but it's been really hard to let go and I'd be willing to take things very slowly

Aside from that, DD has been ill since Monday night and now DS has picked it up but not as bad...yet!

So although I'm sitting here at half 11 at night, I'm actually falling asleep but I'm too scared to go up to bed incase I wake either of them - I've nothing but whinging and crying for days, I just want a rest :cool: :rotfl:

No PAD from me as minimum payments only far a while yet. Last year I overpaid sometimes and found I had to re-borrow much of it for my tax bill. I should have that covered this time.

Angelic.
It can be easy trying again once the cause of breaking up has been temporarily forgotten. Indeed, the thing(s) that seem to cause the break-up are often only symptoms of other stuff that is more hidden.
Would it pay you both to go see a Relate counsellor ? It doesn't have to cost much at all as they are OK with negotiating vastly reduced rates if people are pretty skint. It can help greatly in getting to the real issues (often not the ones that you argue over).

angelicmary85

Paulgonnabedebtfree wrote: »

Would it pay you both to go see a Relate counsellor ?

We're going to have to consider something...drastic!! :cool: :rotfl:

Who knows what will happen but there's only one way to find out!

angelicmary85

Evening All!

Quick pad of £10.00 please Flyin'!

Hope you've all had a fab day! x