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I STILL want to be mortgage free - 2011!
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Would you be offended by this: I can't decide if I am.
One of the women in my department asked one of the guys if they were going for promotion and he said "yes, I am going to apply for any job that comes up. I tried the PDL one but that was always going to you know who, and hopefully for this one HOD will base it on who deserves it the most”.
I also applied for the PDL one and just think the guy that got it probably just sold himself better - although I was miffed initially I can see their point that I didn't sell myself enough. However, I'm effectively doing the job now...or have at least started to do the job that this promotion is for (essentially I stated we have all this data and nothing to do with it - so I've started doing something with it), and I just find it slightly offensive that he said that whilst our HOD was in the room. To me it sounds like he was implying I don't deserve it!
Am I just being over sensitive?? Don't get me wrong I don't care, he wants the job I get that - it's not personal...but I still think. Whooa hold on a second.
No that's not a dig at you. From what you've said, it sounds like an inability to accept that he's not perfect. "I ought to be promoted so I'll keep trying for it. If I don't get any job I apply for, it must be because it wasn't fair, because I'm obviously the most amazing person ever."
Hope you get the job!Starting again 13/4/19Home loan 1: £21,102.50 Home loan 2: £7,698.99Total owed: £28,801.49
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Thanks guys. I've just got blocked from both my remaining questions. :rotfl: Nevermind, I'll call my team leader in a few minutes and get it sorted hopefully. DH has just risen from the dead so I'll wait for him to come down first. Then I can nip to the loo before calling her.
I've had a very slow start this morning. Really struggling to get going.Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
% of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
MFiT-T7 #21
MFW 2025 #2
MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 370 -
Team leader has been out this whole time so no marking done.
I have however written my job letter. Hope it's ok. I know I'll get interviewed...I just want the job though, thats the issue. Ha haReduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
% of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
MFiT-T7 #21
MFW 2025 #2
MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 370 -
Well done, I have a good feeling about this one.Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x0
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gratefulforhelp wrote: »Well done, I have a good feeling about this one.
Hope so, my letter is much stronger this time!Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
% of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
MFiT-T7 #21
MFW 2025 #2
MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 370 -
I'm at 26% of the first question! It's an awful 2 parter that only counts as one question (it's a way to pay us less if you ask me). If you split it into 2 questions - I'm at 52% of one of them...that sounds more accomplished!
I'm hating this one though...not to mention I don't feel too brill for some reason.Bit of a dodgy tummy.
Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
% of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
MFiT-T7 #21
MFW 2025 #2
MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 370 -
Ok so I got blocked out of that question. Not even at 50% of it. My team leader is out as well so there is nothing I can do about it. Boo. Will eat and then might make a start on the second one. There again, I might not and just get an early night. OOOh I can watch stuff on Iplayer.
That said, just checked my account and I have a lovely £474.49 waiting to clear in my account for part of the marking I've done! NICE!Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
% of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
MFiT-T7 #21
MFW 2025 #2
MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 370 -
will keep everything crossed for you on the job front xxknow thyselfNid wy'n gofyn bywyd moethus...0
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Cheers ears!
Anyone watching Camelot on C4. It's well dark and earthy. I can't decide if it's amazing or terrible and shocking. :rotfl:Reduction in daily mortgage interest since October 23 (new mortgage) - £2.36 July 25
% of house owned/% of mortgage paid off. July 25 - 38.82%/31.66%
MFiT-T7 #21
MFW 2025 #2
MF Date: Oct 37 Feb 370 -
I gave it the swerve as thought would be carp. Bother!Please do not confuse me with other gratefulsforhelp. x0
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