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Ddraig

Oh Kec. At least you will not be with the cheating pig for the rest of your life. You know you can come here and cry out loud and chat. You do have friends, you have us.

Don't be amicable. You have no need to leave. You have as much right to stay there if your name is on the house. Don't jump before you are pushed and take that time to scout for a flat some where.

You must be in a lot of pain right now. I hope you can get through it with us lot. xx ****big virtual hug******

Giggles_Fairy

Elysia - Thank you only just seen this but Stuart has mesaged me asking for my email today as I had already commented on the status update I think. Glad we questioned it now as looks like it has been an oversight.

Esmer - WOW! You should be so proud of yourself you have created a beautiful home for you and your daughter. Im very jealous hahaha

Kec09 - in NO way apologise for telling us about it. You are definately NOT 'dumping' it on us. Take a big deep breath and I think rufus is right, get as much sleep as you can tonight. I know this must seem like the end of the world but your are strong and can deal with this, and you have us lot to help you! What is it with men? Theres abit of trouble and the brain stops functioning and another part does the thinking instead! You need to have a sit down this weekend and decide what to do. I think writing some things down will definately help. Do you even know if you would still want the relationship to continue? Can you forgive the affair (worry about his feelings later)? As what you do next will be very different depending on you decision with this. IS there really no one you know that you can turn to? If not then why dont you have a think about approaching some organisations in terms of emotional help as well as help on your situation financially/living etc

If you want to PM me you are more than welcome. I think we are about the same age and you have always been so helpful to me in the past.

Giggles_Fairy

Oh also meant to add...

I didnt get the job I was really disappointed when I read the email, I think the word to describe my mood was 'deflated'. I really thought I was going to get it Aparently I was a great candidate but someone else had more relevent experience. I think thats abit of a cop out excuse but if its true then there is nothing I can do about someone elses experience. Soooooo its back to the job hunt! Applied to 7 jobs this afternoon when I got the rejection email.

Oh and for any ebays out there its free listing this weekend

mum2one

Savvybunny2009 wrote: »

Hi everyone :wave:

Well done on getting paid for your shopping reviews, mine have been paid too as well as all my viva payments, it's all shaping up nicely and should go someway towards offixce 2010 and a new laptop. My amazon account is looking pretty healthy too. I had some of my love to shop voouchers arrive yesterday from loony too :j

Well done for getting on the scanning panel Elysia, I have been accepted onto a second scanning panel which should be hilarious when we get to scanning the shopping.

I must admit I have been a little MIA recently, ou studying takes up a fair bit of time, I am squeezing in family life, my hobbies, moneymaking and housework and trying to find the right balance.

I have my first tutuorial at a local college all day tomorrow so hopefully will be much more organised once I know how all my studies fit together and tma's etc.

Well done everyone on your money making, crafting and growing. I will try to have a look at all your blogs and see how you are all getting along. My blog has sadly been neglected for a while, yet there is plenty to go on there.

I hope to catch up later today with you all, once I read back several pages lol

Good luck with the tutorial, I find them brilliant, without sounding daft, they make the course more real. My sports course that was online tutorials, couldn't get the hang of them, so gave up. Prefer the face to face.
Got sports assisgnment to do over weekend (now extend into Tuesday,) hoping could get away with a substitue, but the curse won't let anyone do that, so came to a comprisime that just answer 1/3rd of the assisgnemnt, after checking home page and predcited outcome even if this was 0, passed the course work side, just end of course assisgnment, by 7th June. Never want to see a sports course again! xx

mum2one

esmer wrote: »

Hello All........

Im all moved in and settled. Very happy with it all going very well. Not been on much been doing house and garden, but its all worth it.

I hope you are all well. x

Congratulations on the move as well xx

mum2one

Kec,

I'm so sorry, I know its hard, but try and get some sleep, and rest,even if the cat gets a belly tickle for an hr. Don't make any rash decisions, you need to look after yourself, we're all here for you. I know when I had probs before with ex and his family, the support and friendship that I got from the threads, (our threads), it was unbelievable, and I can never thank anyone enough for that.
If theres anything at all I can do just pm me. xx

stepmum

sparkleychel wrote: »

ive had an email for piney to send to friends if there's anyone not joined yet ?

Yes please, tbh can't remember if I'm a member or not but it's not on my list.


Esmer - the house looks great, you have been working hard.

Scattymam1 - welcome back and congrats on your new house.

bunbun - sorry to hear that ds1 also has the condition too, hoping that they can get all the tests done for you quickly.

kec - sending you huge dodgy hugs hunny. :grouphug:
Feel free to "dump" whenever as surely that is part of what we are here for. I agree about making no rash desisions. Give yourself time to let everything sink in, before having to sort out the practical side of things. Here whenever you need to chat.

Take care all
Jayne xxx

esmer

Thanks guys! I feel like I have lived here for years.

Giggles - sorry you didn't get the job.

Kec - all I can say is it gets better. My ex cheated, I decided to leave, I did loose my house as my ex stopped paying all the bills. looking back it was the best decision for me. I have a great life now and now realise I was miserable! All I can say is take your time and think about it all. And we are here to listen x

elysia2003

kec - we are all here for you. Don't worry about posting your troubles on here. We're one big family and we love to help in any way we can.

I second Rufus' suggestion. Make a big list of that he did that irritated you - put everything on there, in minute detail. Then write that letter.

Most important of all, is keep taking those tablets, they will help you get through it all. You don't need to rush into anything yet. Don't do what I did. I walked out and never came back. I've learnt my lesson - Keep the lines of communication open - it will make the split (if you do decide to) easier!

As it's been said before, you can pm me, and you can have my phone number if you want a chat. Sending you big hugs and emergency chocolate - that always helps I find

kec09

Thank you guys I am in pieces, I have cried all night and all morning, just when I think I can't possibly have any tears left more keep coming.
I gave up everything for him, I really don't have anyone no friends and my family never wanted me anyway. I don't think I can go on I don't wnt to be here anymore. My last partner did this to me as well so it must be me, what is the point in this life?
I have got the worst migraine feels like me head will explode can barely see what I am writing so sorry if none of this makes sense you guys really are lovely x