Memorygirls - The Matrix Reloaded

fantasia322

I have to apologise ladies, for the negative stuff (personal) that I've posting over the weekend. Not very Matrix like at all. My only excuse (reason) is that I've been feeling negative over this job situation and redundancy. That however is no reason for me to project my negatives in here. So I'm sorry (insert red-faced smiley):o.

The four hour working week stuff was soooooo negative, and the thing is, if I was in an up-beat frame of mind, I would probably have tried to embrace it and sort of adapt its principles etc.

Feel free to tell me straight if I get like that again .
You have all been a strength of support and positivity to me and again I apologise.x

Memory_Girl

I think the deal is as long as we all have our wobbles at different times then everything is fine.

How can you stay negative when you have a Great Dane to luuurrrrvvvveeee???

Up to three bin bags now - including a bx of stuff I had in Berlin 18 years ago!!!!!

Off to take DS2 to the park and buy him an ice-cream - he keeps looking for his big bruv - so some time out playing should cheer him up.

MG

MrsMoo2U

Memory_Girl wrote: »

I think the deal is as long as we all have our wobbles at different times then everything is fine.

How can you stay negative when you have a Great Dane to luuurrrrvvvveeee???

Up to three bin bags now - including a bx of stuff I had in Berlin 18 years ago!!!!!

Off to take DS2 to the park and buy him an ice-cream - he keeps looking for his big bruv - so some time out playing should cheer him up.

MG

Fantasia what MG said we all have our moments. I dont think you were particularly negative just questioning and we all have to question things sometimes.

Now for those of you that need a little perspective I just got this in my personal inbox. On lunch so that is allowed

http://www.coolestone.com/media/1931/Its-A-Beautiful-Day.../

fantasia322

Wow, Cheri, how true was that? Powerful stuff when you see it like that. Ouch. x

Firewalker

cherisong wrote: »

Fantasia what MG said we all have our moments. I dont think you were particularly negative just questioning and we all have to question things sometimes.

Now for those of you that need a little perspective I just got this in my personal inbox. On lunch so that is allowed

http://www.coolestone.com/media/1931/Its-A-Beautiful-Day.../

Thanks for sharing the link Cheri - so much to the point.

Firewalker

Firewalker

fantasia322 wrote: »

I have to apologise ladies, for the negative stuff (personal) that I've posting over the weekend. Not very Matrix like at all. My only excuse (reason) is that I've been feeling negative over this job situation and redundancy. .

The four hour working week stuff was soooooo negative, and the thing is, if I was in an up-beat frame of mind, I would probably have tried to embrace it and sort of adapt its principles etc.

Fantasia, please do not apologise for feeling down - positive thinking does not mean that one should feel postive all the time (or as I say 'you don't have to be chirpy as a canary all the time; this is actually annoying). But...

Once we have got the 'bad' out we have to start seeing life for what it is; and sometime it is 'bad' sometimes 'good' but it always gives us puzzles to solve. And feeling bad for a long time about the puzzles only wastes us precious time.

I would suggest that Matrix members have a meeting tonight on the other side - between 8.30pm and 10.00 pm - so that we can kick around some ideas with you. Keep an open mind, search, ask and all shall be well at the end. So I'll be there...

Firewalker

crickett1234

I'd love to join a meeting on the Matrix, but i can't... I will be singing at choir rehearsal (and snoring softly when possible!! )

clairewop

Firewalker wrote: »

Fantasia, please do not apologise for feeling down - positive thinking does not mean that one should feel postive all the time (or as I say 'you don't have to be chirpy as a canary all the time; this is actually annoying). But...

Once we have got the 'bad' out we have to start seeing life for what it is; and sometime it is 'bad' sometimes 'good' but it always gives us puzzles to solve. And feeling bad for a long time about the puzzles only wastes us precious time.

I would suggest that Matrix members have a meeting tonight on the other side - between 8.30pm and 10.00 pm - so that we can kick around some ideas with you. Keep an open mind, search, ask and all shall be well at the end. So I'll be there...

Firewalker

As long as no-one needs the laptop, I'll see you ojn the other side too

Firewalker

crickett1234 wrote: »

I'd love to join a meeting on the Matrix, but i can't... I will be singing at choir rehearsal (and snoring softly when possible!! )

You can contribute when possible. The meeting is only to say that most of us will convene in this time interval. One for all and all for one! And if we can come up with a viable and acceptable plan within two hours - what a great thing this will be.

Firewalker

fantasia322

Firewalker wrote: »

Fantasia, please do not apologise for feeling down - positive thinking does not mean that one should feel postive all the time (or as I say 'you don't have to be chirpy as a canary all the time; this is actually annoying). But...

Once we have got the 'bad' out we have to start seeing life for what it is; and sometime it is 'bad' sometimes 'good' but it always gives us puzzles to solve. And feeling bad for a long time about the puzzles only wastes us precious time.

I would suggest that Matrix members have a meeting tonight on the other side - between 8.30pm and 10.00 pm - so that we can kick around some ideas with you. Keep an open mind, search, ask and all shall be well at the end. So I'll be there...

Firewalker

Will be there,
ETA, I'm being contacted shortly about a job interview yay, things are looking up already woohoo