We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

Debate House Prices


In order to help keep the Forum a useful, safe and friendly place for our users, discussions around non MoneySaving matters are no longer permitted. This includes wider debates about general house prices, the economy and politics. As a result, we have taken the decision to keep this board permanently closed, but it remains viewable for users who may find some useful information in it. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!

Do you like being around children?

2456712

Comments

  • michaels
    michaels Posts: 29,236 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Children - no, they are people - I can only interact with computers why else would I be here?
    I think....
  • PasturesNew
    PasturesNew Posts: 70,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    michaels wrote: »
    Children - no, they are people - I can only interact with computers why else would I be here?
    Spot on.
    Me too.

    The trouble is that a lot of kids are encouraged to be monsters. In my day you were quiet unless spoken to. You behaved (or got a smack). You weren't a nuisance or somebody'd tell your mum - and you'd get a smack.

    Nowadays they're pushing/shoving, noisy, annoying, demanding, with a full 'entitled to' attitude, aggressive when even looked at - threatening when possibly challenged ... and that's just the parents setting them an example.

    It's not the kids' faults, it's bad parenting.

    So many times you go somewhere and parents drag their kids into wherever that is (beach, restaurant, pub, any other public place) and will TELL their kids "go play away from us, your dad/I want some peace and quiet", forcing their loathsome brats into our quiet spaces and expecting us to "look after" them ... but heaven forbid we should say "Oi, brat, stop doing that, you're out of order".
  • Generali
    Generali Posts: 36,411 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Snooze wrote: »
    NO. Horrible creatures. Anyone that has kids should be deported - along with their kids - to some far away remote island to give the rest of us some peace and quiet. :mad:

    Ah well I deported mine to a far off island where adults like children. ;-p
    Cleaver wrote: »
    I wouldn't fall in to the trap of thinking that this forum is a representation of the thoughts, feelings and opinions of the general public of England. I think we've established many times that a lot of the people on here have quite skewed view of a lot of things. Take the following quote from Snooze. It's a view I'm sure you'd find some people share but, for whatever reason, it's a view you could find more more easily on here than you would in the real world.

    I thought that a poll on this forum would be representative of the thoughts of people that post on this forum. No more, no less.

    PS 3-2 to the Tottingham
  • chris_m
    chris_m Posts: 8,250 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Depends on the children and the circumstances.

    Generally, I'll give them the benefit of the doubt before deciding.
  • Masomnia
    Masomnia Posts: 19,506 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    I like children, generally, like you all say I think it depends on the parents. The children of the parents I know are all polite and well behaved. There's something nice about the innocence and unreseveredness (if that's a word) of them, lack of self awareness, quite happy to say what they think sort of thing.
    “I could see that, if not actually disgruntled, he was far from being gruntled.” - P.G. Wodehouse
  • Minxy_Bella
    Minxy_Bella Posts: 1,948 Forumite
    Kids are great! It's adults who don't like kids that I can't stand!
  • jamespir
    jamespir Posts: 21,456 Forumite
    i love my kids but hate everyone elses
    Replies to posts are always welcome, If I have made a mistake in the post, I am human, tell me nicely and it will be corrected. If your reply cannot be nice, has an underlying issue, or you believe that you are God, please post in another forum. Thank you
  • LilacPixie
    LilacPixie Posts: 8,052 Forumite
    Most kids are fine. the occasional one is a little brat that I would cheerfully choke. :D
    MF aim 10th December 2020 :j:eek:
    MFW 2012 no86 OP 0/2000 :D
  • Brallaqueen
    Brallaqueen Posts: 1,355 Forumite
    I can cope with blood related children for a short period, probably because I am a moody and anti-social mare. Non - related peoples of all shapes and sizes I have an even lower tolerance for.
    Emergency savings: 4600
    0% Credit card: 1965.00
  • wymondham
    wymondham Posts: 6,356 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Photogenic Mortgage-free Glee!
    On the whole yes, and the ones I'm not so keen on are the product of their parents - you can't blame the kids...
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 352.2K Banking & Borrowing
  • 253.6K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 454.3K Spending & Discounts
  • 245.2K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 600.9K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 177.5K Life & Family
  • 259K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.