Immoral_angel's Debt Diary

Mrs_Optimist

Phew, just read the whole thread over the last 3 nights.... WELL DONE IA - you should be really proud of yourself, juggling a house and two little un's (and a husband!) as well as sorting out your finances - big RESPECT coming your way. I am lucky (I suppose) that Mr O and I don't have any debts, just a mortgage (!) so I cannot really identify with your original circumstances. However you should be so proud of yourself for getting on with it and sorting your life out. Agree with some other posts about the PND thing - keep on at your HV and GP that is what they are there for.

Your girls are very lucky to have such a fab role model for a mummy.

I will keep reading with interest and am sure that you are an inspiration to a lot of other people in debt on this site - good for you girl! x

Lillibet_2

Hi Sarah

I've just been trying to track down your wedding dress on ebay but can't find it? Have you pulled the auction or is it not in the wedding dress catagory for some obscure reason? I wanted to send the link to a friend!;)

immoral_angeluk

you have a pm lillibet

Thank you Mrs Optimist.

sammy115

Not sure where ZTD gets his wisdom from (him being a person an all that ), but they are completely right.

The paranoia (sp!) is all part of being a mum. I remember it well. Standing outside the school gates (you are not there just yet), thinking everyone was looking at me and judging me for what I was wearing and what the kids were wearing, my accent (think Adam from the apprentice and thats me) a great northern twang in a bunch of posh twits. I was also a little different from most people. As you are I suspect!

I got over it. It took a while and a couple of years Anti D's, a bit of psychiatric care and a lot of love and support from OH. My kids are fine, (well apart from the cigarette stealing son!) they love me to bits and that is more than enough reward for me.

YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION - IF PEOPLE ARE LOOKING AT YOU ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE GORGEOUS AND THEY ARE ENVIOUS OF YOU!

earwig

hi ia

i have a little more time now so i will go into a little more detail of why you should go back to your gp sorry if my spelling isnt right had more important things to learn at school:p

first when you stop taking anti deppresants you can get quite bad reactions to them for instance you could come delusional have sucidle thought thoughts of harming your self and others this is why when you are ready to come of them you have to be weened of them dont get me wrong im not saying it allways happens but it has be known and nobody knows how they will react untill they have stop taking the pills rember these are mind altering drugs so you have to be carefull missing one or two shouldnt have much effect woudnt i really wouldnt go any longer than that

secondly the paraniod thought you are getting could be a side effect from the antideppersant you are taking you can get all sorts of side effects from anti depersants your gp will be able to tell you if this is the case it may be that it is not in which case you need to see your gp anyway to get the dose changed as it not doing it job at the moment my mum has this illness and at one point she didnt leave the house for 4 years my school called in ss and my mum had to go into a mental health unit to have new drugs giving to her it took a bit of time but she now leaves the house reguarly

dont be hard on yourself there are people out there who can help you no one is judging you its just the negative thoughts trying to trick you each time you have a negative thought think of a more positive thought and focus on that instead as for your debts i do think you put your self under unnesicary strees to clear them you are doing really well but be carefull that its not turning into ocd (where you think some thing bad will happen if you dont compleate the task you have set your self)as this can often be presant with deppersion

i hope i havent offended you with this post

earwigxx
p.s have you checked out kerrangs magizine this week they are reviewing the cradle of filth gig

System

sammy115 wrote: »

Not sure where ZTD gets his wisdom from (him being a bloke an all that ), but he is completely right.

The paranoia (sp!) is all part of being a mum. I remember it well. Standing outside the school gates (you are not there just yet), thinking everyone was looking at me and judging me for what I was wearing and what the kids were wearing, my accent (think Adam from the apprentice and thats me) a great northern twang in a bunch of posh twits. I was also a little different from most people. As you are I suspect!

I got over it. It took a while and a couple of years Anti D's, a bit of psychiatric care and a lot of love and support from OH. My kids are fine, (well apart from the cigarette stealing son!) they love me to bits and that is more than enough reward for me.

YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION - IF PEOPLE ARE LOOKING AT YOU ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE GORGEOUS AND THEY ARE ENVIOUS OF YOU!

I thought ZTD was a bird? ANyway I-A :grouphug: you have such an iron clad character, attitude, courage and zeal, an inspiration to us all - sounds corny but its true. You have given so much advice and guidance to so many of us and for a girl so young, it is testament to the strongly resolved young woman that you are. The dark times will brighten soon enough and the sunshine that you emit will shine brightly once more, spurring you on once again. I love you I-A (as well as Bunny, Snaggles, Weller, GIS.....and any other female of the species going to Blackpool:cool: ). Keep the faith, hang on in there baby AND never give up on a good thing - because that's what you are. Love Lenny xxx

sammy115

oh no, have i got it wrong again. Can we not have bloody gender buttons so I don't put me feet in it all the time!

sammy115

AND i know what you and bunny are up to!

tumbleweed261

also IA, bear in mind if people are giving you funny looks you have an army of dfw's with bricks in their handbags (especially lenny) to defend you and they don't

System

sammy115 wrote: »

AND i know what you and bunny are up to!

Who, I-A and Bunny?:j :j