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Is it the end, or just the beginning.....?

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  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    I'd noticed the quietness. Its very, very hard, but I do think you're making the right choice.

    Dignified .... as long as its of benefit to *you*, and doing *you* a favour.


    :grouphug:
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Karmacat wrote: »
    Morning Hypno, morning all. Sorry the 'stuff' is so active for you - like Z said, there's no pressure, you know - this is *support*, not the other thing!

    This does, of course, lead to the question: What is the other thing?

    I suppose if it's not "support" it must be "lift and separate"...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    I do wish, sometimes, I could post about some of the crap that is going on, but it wouldn't do anyone any favours, so I won't.

    Depends on whether it would be doing your emotional well-being a favour by being able to rail against the injustices.
    hypno06 wrote: »
    This "being dignified" thing, can be pretty hard work though sometimes!!

    It is.:grouphug:

    Don't let it become a cross to bear, weigh-down and ultimately crush.

    I hope you are receiving the appropriate support offline.

    :grouphug:
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."     OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • taxi73
    taxi73 Posts: 20,815 Forumite
    hypno06 wrote: »
    I do wish, sometimes, I could post about some of the crap that is going on, but it wouldn't do anyone any favours, so I won't.

    This "being dignified" thing, can be pretty hard work though sometimes!!

    I feel for you I really do as you don't deserve any of the crap in the background.Hopefully it will be all over for you soon so that you can put it behind you.
  • chevalier
    chevalier Posts: 7,937 Forumite
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    sorry to hear 'stuff' is so stressful. is there a long time left till the end now?
    I want a job that is less than an hour driving away from my house! Are you listening universe?
  • hypno06
    hypno06 Posts: 32,296 Forumite
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    chevalier wrote: »
    sorry to hear 'stuff' is so stressful. is there a long time left till the end now?

    I think we have some way to go yet.

    Right, must get on with some work.....catch up later!
    Successful women can still have their feet on the ground. They just wear better shoes. (Maud Van de Venne)
    Life begins at the end of your comfort zone (Neale Donald Walsch)
  • rtandon27
    rtandon27 Posts: 5,621 Forumite
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    Happy New Diary Hypno!!!:j

    You continue to be an inspiration!
    (When I grow up I want to be just like you :D)

    Lots of hugs:grouphug: to help get you through the 'stuff'!!!

    XOX
    RT
    4 YEARS 10 MONTHS DEBT FREE!!! (24 OCT 2016)
    (With heartfelt thanks to those who have gone before us & their indubitable generosity.)
    ...and now I have a mortgage! (23 AUG 2021)
    New projection - 14 YEARS 10 MONTHS LEFT OF 20 YEARS (reduced by 15 mths)
    Psst...I may have started a diary!
  • InaPickle
    InaPickle Posts: 5,968 Forumite
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    Karmacat wrote: »
    Pickle - what are you doing up at that time? :) see, *thats* pressure :)

    Being an idiot! :mad: :o Random websurfing at stupid hours means getting up later and therefore an unproductive day. If you see me posting at that hour again, wag your finger and tell me off! :o

    Sorry to hear about 'stuff', Hypno: I hope it is all over soon. x
    Please call me 'Pickle'
    No More Buying Books: ???
    No More Buying DVDs: ???
    NMB Toiletries ??? and I've gone back for my Masters at the University of Use Ups!
    P    roud to be dealing with her debts 1198~
  • doodledo_2
    doodledo_2 Posts: 4,676 Forumite
    Hi Hypno, I don't know why but for some reason today I had a feeling that I needed to get back on MSE. I think it was a discussion with a chap in the office about heating bills lol.

    Was nice to see a new diary from you and the final chapter towards being debt free, it's been a long journey but you will get there. I am one of your many followers and one who was inspired to get on the MSE wagon from reading one of your original diaries.

    I am going through so many things like you are so if you ever wanna moan or vent feel free to pop me a PM.

    Right on that note time for a new plan and a new doodledo diary me thinks :T
    Proud to be dealing with my debts - DFW No: 712

    03/09/09 - DEBT FREE AT LAST :D
    Racing Hypno to Save - £10/£5000
  • Karmacat
    Karmacat Posts: 39,460 Forumite
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    ZTD wrote: »
    This does, of course, lead to the question: What is the other thing?

    I suppose if it's not "support" it must be "lift and separate"...

    :eek::rotfl: wasn't that kind of early for all that Z? "The other thing" was **pressure** :rotfl:
    InaPickle wrote: »
    Being an idiot! :mad: :o Random websurfing at stupid hours means getting up later and therefore an unproductive day. If you see me posting at that hour again, wag your finger and tell me off! :o

    Okey dokey :p

    Seriously, hope you're okay today.

    Sorry to hear about 'stuff', Hypno: I hope it is all over soon. x

    And I hope *you're* okay today, Hypno, sometimes work can take your mind off it, sometimes not.
    2023: the year I get to buy a car
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