The Ultimate Incentive to get debt free… again. Dinah & NIM go head to head!

clearmydebts

N.I.M wrote: »

Erm...yes she does:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Whoops - sorry NIM I forgot you read, lurk and post!!!

I take it no kids isn't an option for you then? Or adoption is out?

clearmydebts

Tete_en_l'Air wrote: »

Haha, sorry but the wording there brought to mind Joey on Friends and his pervy tailor!

Oh god Cinny those two looked like a pair of dogs dinners, they always do! It's not their fault they look exactly like their dad but as my Granny said, that hat was like a pair of antlers!

It's true they are the image of Andrew but Eugenie is the better looking one I think!

I think Kate was/is too skinny but still looked amazing on her day.

Dinah93

Cinny91 wrote: »

Dinah - I think the feeling for the crimson wave says a lot. Ooh, I said that classily!

clearmydebts wrote: »

It sounds like a bit of a phobia now.

Remember - you don't have to have babies. It isn't for everyone and there is always the option of adoption too.

As I say I don't think it's a phobia, I think I'm focussing on the worst parts to keep from getting too broody until my logical head thinks we're ready.

clearmydebts

Dinah93 wrote: »

As I say I don't think it's a phobia, I think I'm focussing on the worst parts to keep from getting too broody until my logical head thinks we're ready.

Aw sorry - I misread the post! I had a friend who was like that with relationships. She really wanted one but said all relationships were 'love in a bucket' and then when she met her future husband she was the worst sap ever.

So maybe you will turn into earth mother extraordinaire Dinah!!!

Birdie85

Tete_en_l'Air wrote: »

Haha, sorry but the wording there brought to mind Joey on Friends and his pervy tailor!

LOL! The first shop I went into was a little like that, remember me being totally traumatised from the lady who stripped me off, had a good look and left me for ages?! :eek: The shop I went to after that was much better, she got me to do the feeling and she just looked and adjusted once I was covered!

I wonder, should the possibility ever magically arise, how many men would carry babies to save their womenfolk the pain? Would you step up to the mark NIM?!

clearmydebts

Birdie85 wrote: »

I wonder, should the possibility ever magically arise, how many men would carry babies to save their womenfolk the pain? Would you step up to the mark NIM?!

:rotfl:

I think my OH would like to think he would be in reality he would be a pain in the rear end!!!

Dinah93

Lol I doubt that - I'm scared of what I'll say to a child - I'm really rubbish at small talk! I'm also no good at icky stuff like if its sick, but it's one of those things that if you have to deal with it you just get on with it, so I'm sure it'll be fine.

Really not liking being back at work, my time could be put to much better use! Also it is far too far from breakfast to lunchtime.

clearmydebts

Dinah93 wrote: »

Lol I doubt that - I'm scared of what I'll say to a child - I'm really rubbish at small talk! I'm also no good at icky stuff like if its sick, but it's one of those things that if you have to deal with it you just get on with it, so I'm sure it'll be fine.

Really not liking being back at work, my time could be put to much better use! Also it is far too far from breakfast to lunchtime.

It's totally different when it is your own baby. You are the one that knows that baby best, how to settle them etc. Let NIM deal with the vomit!!!

I hate dirty nappies, its OH that does most of them, but I deal with snots!!!

Birdie85

I'm scared about looking after a sick child too. Luckily my Dad's business is selling a product he made which soaks up spills and turns it into a solid... including vomit! So you just sprinkle it on, leave it 20 seconds, brush it into a dustpan and throw out. It even covers up the smell! I'm going to have masses of his spill kits at home and in the car just in case!

clearmydebts

Birdie85 wrote: »

I'm scared about looking after a sick child too. Luckily my Dad's business is selling a product he made which soaks up spills and turns it into a solid... including vomit! So you just sprinkle it on, leave it 20 seconds, brush it into a dustpan and throw out. It even covers up the smell! I'm going to have masses of his spill kits at home and in the car just in case!

Can I get the link for that Birdie. I have seen that stuff before and it is amazing! Luckily we haven't had to deal with child vomit yet, just baby one that doesn't smell!