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Weekly Flylady Thread 18th October 2010

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  • Valli
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    aww Pigpen

    poor Sally...

    (was wondering how she'd gone on)
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
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  • lil_me
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    Crayon non scratch scouring pad, heat can help (iron through a damp cloth) but might cause damage
    Felt tip hair spray as suggested

    ((hugs)) for Sally x
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
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    Slinkies target 2018 - another 70lb off (half way to what the NHS says) so far 25lb
  • pigpen
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    Valli wrote: »
    aww Pigpen

    poor Sally...

    (was wondering how she'd gone on)

    I didn't ask her I just let her tell me when she ready.. she looked pretty gutted.

    rachelet.. AnWsmum is correct they cannot say a child cannot go to nursery if they are not cmpletely trained. DD3 was 7 before she was reliably dry in the day and ds3 was 6
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  • rachelet
    rachelet Posts: 264 Forumite
    AnW'sMum wrote: »
    Look into this as I am sure they can't discriminate against those who are not toilet trained, bet lil_me or piggers will be able to confirm. Miss A was clean when she went but W wasn't (he'd been there months before he was dry, used to send him in a nappy). You can't force a child to be dry, a lot of it is down to physical development and if our experience is anything to go by, boys take longer than girls.

    Unfortunately, nurseries are a bit different here in France where I am. They like the child to be toilet trained apart from nap time. Although DD2 started at 2 and was in pull ups for 6 months before I got her completely trained. Am hoping DS is at least part way trained before next September.

    Thanks for tips on getting rid of crayon and feltip, will try suggestions after I have decluttered lunch.
    DD1 born May 2002, DD2 born Dec 2005, DS born Dec 2008. Baby due May 2010! TEAM PINK!!

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  • Dippypud
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    edited 22 October 2010 at 12:21PM
    Hi All.

    Happy birthday Macpep, :beer:

    with the toilet training Helly,
    my boys, (the're 21 and 22 now), used to aim at a ping-pong ball floating in the pan. It stayed clean :eek: and didn't flush away. But it sure does improve their aim, which small boys are terrible at.;)
    C.R.A.P.R.O.L.L.Z # 40 spanner supervisor.
    No problem can withstand the assault of sustained thought.
    Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only then will you realize that money cannot be eaten.
    "l! ilyë yantë ranya nar vanwë"
  • lil_me
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    Rachlet - You'll probably find somewhere legally they can't however to be honest - lie - say he was fine at home, he will probably follow the other kids to go and just have occasional accidents like the rest! I get so in trouble from my friend who runs nurseries but she agrees I am right, in most cases they just follow the leader

    Good luck all who are toilet training, don't envy you at all
    One day I might be more organised...........:confused:
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  • Dippypud
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    edited 22 October 2010 at 12:19PM
    Hi Mollina,

    Try this:

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/MoneyTaxAndBenefits/BenefitsTaxCreditsAndOtherSupport/On_a_low_income/DG_10018661


    Regards, Pud. (P.S There is a rumour that the scheme will close in 2012/13, so if you going for it be quick).
    C.R.A.P.R.O.L.L.Z # 40 spanner supervisor.
    No problem can withstand the assault of sustained thought.
    Only after the last tree has been cut down. Only after the last fish has been caught. Only after the last river has been poisoned. Only then will you realize that money cannot be eaten.
    "l! ilyë yantë ranya nar vanwë"
  • hex2
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    Morning everyone,

    Happy Birthday macpep - the hotel break sounds lovely.
    Valli - You always seemed to enjoy the river thing - hope LSB (what does that stand for btw?) understands. Impressed with the apron sale.

    I gave in and deep cleaned the playroom the other day. All they have to do is keep it clean, but 48 hours on they can't even manage that. They are 6 and 7 - surely it isn't too much to expect that they keep the room vaguely tidy? I am binning anything left on the floor at night, soon there will be nothing left. Very bored of having to be mean mummy.

    I need to ring the skip man to say it is ready to be collected. Hopefully he won't come before Monday and I can squeeze some last bits in.
    'If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need' Marcus Tullius Cicero
  • vanilla
    vanilla Posts: 3,277 Forumite
    Boys room rightly done, just need to hoover and get one of them under the bunk bed to pull the toys and rubbish out.

    WM now on fourth load i think. Long way to go yet.:rotfl:

    Hugs for Sally.
    Sometimes it seems that the going is just too rough.
    And things go wrong no matter what I do.
    Now and then it seems that life is just too much.
    But you've got the love I need to see me through.
    :j :j
  • hollyh
    hollyh Posts: 5,474 Forumite
    Hi,

    In the last hr or so Ds1 and I have

    Tidied utility
    S & S
    Swept & mopped
    Td for 10 mins
    Put washing on airer
    Set up wm for am
    Unloaded dw
    Damp dusted fireplace

    Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Area
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe work surfaces
    Sweep and mop floor
    [/STRIKE]Level Two

    [STRIKE]Empty and clean out fridge.. use up those almost past their best things and fling anything furry or icky!!
    Wipe units and appliances
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wipe hob and make oven shelves shiny again!
    Empty and wash out bins
    [/STRIKE]
    Run appliances through a clean cycle and make sure filters and detergent drawers are clean
    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]
    2. Wash windows
    3. [/STRIKE]HHI
    4. Throw away/rehome/sell 10 things from each room in the house!! Dining room done
    Tuesday ~ Living room, Hall and Stairs
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Declutter the floors
    Vacuum said decluttered floors!
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]declutter and dust the mantle putting back only what should be there
    Wipe the sofas if needed
    dust and deweb
    Declutter and wipe coffee table/magazine rack if you have one!
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wash any soft furnishings that are in need.. hang winter curtains/linings
    Clear and wipe window sills, and any electricals and picture frames etc
    [/STRIKE]
    Empty and clear out a cupboard..

    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. [STRIKE]
    3. binbag dance
    4. Wipe the paintwork and bannisters
    5. Wash any windows that have been neglected
    6. [/STRIKE]
    Wednesday ~ Master Bedroom
    Level One
    Declutter the floors
    get it washed dried and the bed remade! Vacuum and turn mattress if it hasn't been done in a while!
    Level Two
    vacuum the floors
    Straighten a cupboard of clothing
    Empty all the bins upstairs
    Level Three
    Tidy a box of 'stuff'
    Tidy up the floordrobe, inc. shoes bags and toiletries.
    dust and deweb

    Thursday ~ Childrens pits, spare or neglected rooms!
    Level One

    replace bedding
    Declutter and vacuum the floor
    Level Two
    Sort through a cupboard.. any cupboard, could even be a kitchen one!
    Drag out and sort all the gibble from under the bed!
    Straighten the toy boxes and shelves
    Level Three
    Wash any soft furnishings that need it.. or the duvet!
    Dust and deweb
    Wipe sticky grotmarks from the walls, doors and paintwork
    Extras
    1. Binbag dance
    2. HHI
    3. List 1 item to sell
    4. sort the shoes, coats and bags!
    Thank Crunchie it's Friday ~ Study and Bathroom
    Level One
    Spend half an hour doing something for yourself! Coffee with a friend, hair appointment... whatever
    [STRIKE]Declutter the floors!
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]vacuum/mop floors
    wash the bathmats/shower curtains or anything else that needs it
    scrub the fixtures! polish the mirrors and taps
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clean and sort a cupboard or shelf and recycle all those empties
    [/STRIKE]
    dust and defrag the pc and declutter 50 unwanted emails and 5 links from your favourites.
    Wipe over the desk and any chairs that are in these rooms 1 done
    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]
    2. empty and wash out bins
    3. [/STRIKE]
    We're stopping for lunch and then we'll do the bedrooms.
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