MSE Parents Club Part 15

gymfiend

A Leeds meet? Please fill me in

redmel1621

Caz good news on the car:)

SM What is this weight dilemma you have hon x

searching_me

redmel1621 wrote: »

SM What is this weight dilemma you have hon x

well .. it sounds silly but its really conflicting me ...

when i was 9 and a half stone i was really slim and loved it but my boobs were deflated, flat and felt very small ... im now 10st 4-5lbs (not happy believe me) ... but i have now got much fuller boobs (honestly its amazing the difference) but ive now got a podge and some clothes are tight and i feel fat ... very silly i know .. very very silly but its really bugging me *shrug* x

redstararnie76

Sending hugs SM - men really have it easy, don't they - they don't have any of these issues!

searching_me

cheers red ... honestly im stuck between being the weight i want to be but feel sort of like a boy or being unhappy with my weight but have boobs and feel more like a woman .. its silly and vain i know and can al look shameful at me but i cant help it x

redstararnie76

SM - I'm just jealous . But seriously, how did you feel part-way at 9stone 12-ish? Might that be a good compromise for you?

SugarSpun

Hypothetically, if a person was PPR, could they still log in and PM?

searching_me

redstararnie76 wrote: »

SM - I'm just jealous . But seriously, how did you feel part-way at 9stone 12-ish? Might that be a good compromise for you?

i know but 9 and half stone was my goal weight ... didnt expect that side effect as it didnt happen last time after zoe ... toning might make me feel better .. dont know though just mixed on it .. and i bet you've got no reason to be jealous as well x

redstararnie76

wanna bet? I'm stuck at 11 stone 3 and fantasising about 10 stone 3!!! .
Sorry, I do sympathise, but I have the opposite problem normally. When (and it's been a long time!) I do successfully lose weight, I lose a little weight from my boobs, but not much - I tend to end up looking a bit Jessica Rabbit-y, and makes most things look obscene on me . I desperately want to go down to a C cup, but don't think there's much hope, short of surgery. But at the moment I'll settle for fitting into a size 12 (please God, soon!!!).
Anyway, sorry for the sidetrack. Might some of the problem be down to the type of excercising that you've been doing? Aren't some things meant to be better than others? I know that running can lead to a leaner shape all over. Hopefully someone might know more, but I'm sure that there are certain types of excercise that are better than others - for example, swimming might be a good way to tone up without losing inches there.

searching_me

red i would KILL to look like jessica rabbit .. she has got the ultimate curves i dream of .. honestly when i was young teenager i would dream of looking like her (very sad i know but i was 13 stone at 13) ... but you're right some exercises are better swimming would be great we had planned as a family to do swimming once every 1-2 weeks but lack of money or time stopped that .. im gonna get that your shape as we sold the wii fit (i could only get to a certain point with it before the board got in the way or would hurt me some how) see if that helps as well ...

im also trying to find a dress for xmas but constantly think of my stomach x