MSE Parents Club Part 15

beckyandjack

:wave: everyone

i finally got lo settled at about 3.30 last night (this morning). Do you think she's too little to start having a proper routine yet, and possibly giving her 5-10 mins to scream to see if she'll settle herself? she's 10 weeks tomorrow...

hugs to gisi, i'm terrible at talking to oh when I'm mad at him and normally end up crying as I'm mad rather than upset

good luck for your meeting mdw hope you get the outcome that suits you

hugs to all as required

cazscoob

thats the one thank you!!!! there were a few little things i spotted mainly the swords and shields as my boys and Tias boys had great fun with the swords at the meet xx

SugarSpun

Good luck MDW, I hope it goes the way you want.

GISI, I don't know what to say except :grouphug: and that r.mac is right. He obviously needs it spelled out to him how important this is to you. I hope it was just a stupid thing, oh hey I have a few hours free I can spend it doing fun stuff, and not, oh hey I am a cheaty cheating barstool.

Edit: Thanks r.mac, we're looking to fly to the UK in January/February so will have a nosey xxx

aless02

GISI, Rmac's advice is very very good. Even if it is innocent, it sounds he literally needs things spelled out in black and white and you tell him absolutely everything you feel/know/think. I know sometimes it can be hard, especially when we want to put on a brave face and be a yummy perfect mummy with no troubles, you know? But it's okay to feel vulnerable and sad and he just may be the sort of bloke that needs that spelled out to him.

Swagbucks is not cooperating today, grr.

MDW, good luck for your meeting tomorrow. Your church party sounds way more interesting than mine's Caribbean theme, hehe. We're not going as I think Finn's is a little too young to appreciate the festivities anyway .

Rmac, lovely FB photos! Are they CFR cookies? If so, how about posting 1 on CFR's FB wall?

got-it-spend-it

Thank you folks. I took Rmac's advice (and very wise advice it was) and spelled it out to him and he swears there is nothing going on, but agrees that if he was in my shoes he would have felt very angry and upset too.

It turns out he had fallen out during the morning with the colleague who gave him a lift there (and who told me he was at female colleagues house). He got a lift back to work with female colleague, via her house to pick up her little girl and a toy for H that she had grown out of. He then spent a couple of hours at work and his phone was in his locker (which it often is at work).

I feel better, and better still that he agreed if he was me he would have felt the same way.

Glad I didn't stab him in the face, although I may still pee on his tooth brush to teach him a lesson. I told him I had to come on here now to tell you a he isn't a cheating barstool.

aless02

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

Thank you folks. I took Rmac's advice (and very wise advice it was) and spelled it out to him and he swears there is nothing going on, but agrees that if he was in my shoes he would have felt very angry and upset too.

It turns out he had fallen out during the morning with the colleague who gave him a lift there (and who told me he was at female colleagues house). He got a lift back to work with female colleague, via her house to pick up her little girl and a toy for H that she had grown out of. He then spent a couple of hours at work and his phone was in his locker (which it often is at work).

I feel better, and better still that he agreed if he was me he would have felt the same way.

Glad I didn't stab him in the face, although I may still pee on his tooth brush to teach him a lesson. I told him I had to come on here now to tell you a he isn't a cheating barstool.

:grouphug: Hopefully maybe now that the air's been cleared a bit, this can be the end of his bad decision-making and any further suspicions. Well done you, that must taken a lot of nerve to talk to him like that :grouphug:. (hopes this doesn't sound patronising, as not at all what I mean?!)

Pink_Princess_1

Evansangel wrote: »

GISI, ((hugs))
If it was me i'd kill DH, but im a bit crazy :rotfl:

Me too - well maybe not kill him but I would certainly plot the most horrific revenge I could;)

got-it-spend-it wrote: »

I can't think of an innocent explanation for why he has gone to her house, the other side of the city, he doesn't have the car so wasn't giving her a lift or anything and has been there 2.5 hours.....and now he won't even answer my calls or texts.

I didn't name her, I just told him I thought there was someone else.

Gah, I just want to walk out right now but I have nowhere to go.

GISI does he know that you read those texts etc? Im just wondering if he realises you have actual proof to be concerned or he thinks its just in your mind? anyway sending hugs your way I'm sure you will sort it out x

Evansangel wrote: »

Whats everyone doing for Halloween?

LO is going to a fancy dress birthday party but its toy story theme so she is wearing the buzz costume I got cheap with the tesco glitch a couple of weeks ago

cazscoob

pee on his toothbrush made me LOL!

SugarSpun

I'm glad it turned out ok in the end GISI :grouphug:

It's good that he sees how you feel and can relate to it.


Still have this nasty sick headache, I actually had to sleep during the afternoon I was so sickly-feeling And Husband has weird double vision so we're a horrible mess trying to take care of Miss M :rotfl: And I was so quick to use the ASOS code that I accidentally sent my lovely bracelet to a friend. Still, she deserves a present and it was only £2.

tiamai_d

OMG! I've just got around to having a look on that wooden toy site and I think I've spent about £30 in my head so far!