KP - Fantastically Fervent MoneySaving Super Fan? Must try harder :mad:

taxi73

Sounds like you are settling to your new routine and getting organised which is fantastic xx

beanielou

Dont get why you couldent ever be added back on?
Hope your ex OH keeps up payments.
Had a bad experience on that one.
Happy flat warming

Keeping_Positive

Yes he could turn nasty but I have the bank payment to prove it. TBH he could get me for child support if he wanted and that would really screw me. He has changed on the money front so I do trust him at the moment.

Its a law thing apparently only one change per assured tenancy the only good news if it came to it which it shouldnt he cant add any one else on.

Im hoping to think about buying next year, would only be a 50% owned flat but its a start. Need to get that blasted perm postion and keep debts under control.

Did argue with him today. I think he should give up the large bedroom for the girls as they are squished and there is less stuff in his since mine has gone. I also tried to help by booking dentist appintments but got that wrong too . Patched it up this evening but it has showed me I do need to move away from him a bit more just hard with the kids.

Booked an xmas pressie for the girls - going to see xfactor in feb through work.

Finally some surprisong news - for the first time in years I didnt need any dental treatment :j apparently my symptons are stress related. Need to get my eye persciption up to date to rule out eye strain as well.

taxi73

good news on the dentist x

Keeping_Positive

Hello :wave:

Will try to keep this brief:

I am now the mother of a teen :eek:!!

Flat warming short but sweet we all had fun even though my darling children knocked over the hamster cage!

Being super proud mummy today watching the kids play junior monopoly. They are getting so big now.

DD1 happy with her birthday money but cant decide if she wants to spend most on a phone or not. Am looking to open a bank account for her.

Going to cook a roast for her today with food in serving bowls which they seem to love but I rarely do due to washing up.

In_Search_Of_Me

~Enjoy lunch! Nice to have a bit of posh occasionally but know what you mean about that washing up!!

Keeping_Positive

Out of the blue I finally got the promotion so very happy. No change to job just much better pay so hope I can really start eating into those debts although OH isnt helping.

Tough weekend as I was out last week with work and even though I dont live with him as we are still trying to be together he threw s jealous fit. Didnt help that he had toothache with infection so had to bite my tougue or I would have walked out.

beanielou

Aww great news on promotion hun>
Not sure what to say about you & OH so will say nothing!

Keeping_Positive

Thanks Beanie

How about Im an idiot for still listening to him and TBH still staying with him?! Im too much a softie just like my Mum.

beanielou

At the end of the day its all about what works for you & whats best for you.Its your life