○•○•○ Weekend Chatty Thing 9/10th October ○•○•○

sallyx

everything Sammy...Last night was horrendous b was sobbing her heart out saying she wanted to see ex and it just broke my heart. As stupid as it sounds there are parts of me that misses him, I know im looking at this through rose tinted glasses because when we were together he did !!!! all..they bickered all the time and I could have murdered him several times.

Buffythedebtslayer

Hello folks xxx

I am better, the house looks like a hobo lives here but I will tackle that tomorrow, today I went to the dentist, did my shopping, came home put a Buffy DVD on and fell asleep! I am out tonight! best start getting ready, friend coming over at 6.30

Am half watching Mannequin. sighs,


Hugs Sal, I can see what you are saying, it must be so horribly painful to watch B when she is sad. Breakups however (much) needed are never ever easy

xxx

scaredy_cat

Glad you are feeling better Buffy, enjoy yourself tonight!

sammy115

sallyx wrote: »

everything Sammy...Last night was horrendous b was sobbing her heart out saying she wanted to see ex and it just broke my heart. As stupid as it sounds there are parts of me that misses him, I know im looking at this through rose tinted glasses because when we were together he did !!!! all..they bickered all the time and I could have murdered him several times.

My divorce was the hardest thing I have ever ever done.....and is certainly never to be repeated.

It will get better....for you and for B. It is still early days for her and she has had a lot of change.

And lets face it...you did love ex Oh once....you are bound to be sad. You would be a heartless !!!!! if you didn't have some regrets. Its who you are..... :grouphug:

Pooky

Oh Sally - hugs to you and B. When's ex due to see B next? Is he keeping in regular contact?

Buffy - Glad to hear you're feeling better....the house work will still be there tomorrow so don't worry...have a nice night.

Lizzie - Welcome back from your hols - did you go anywhere nice or just a stay at home jobbie?

Well I've done most of the things on my list - will finish it off tomorrow.

Have made a satay sauce for dinner, just need to go shove the chicken on the griddle and do some rice but I've run out of energy.

DD2 is really full of snot now and looks like a little ghost, have helped her have a bath and hair wash and got her into clean jimjams and snuggled up in bed....roll on tomorrow. She asked for some vicks for her chest last night.....it went out of date in 2006 - oooops

beanielou

SAlly~I can only echo what Sammy says.

lizzie_b

We went to Benidorm for a week Pooky, it was lovely and very much needed. We dont go back to work until Thursday so still have some time yet before the dreaded holiday blues will kick in
Still dont really want to go back to work, looking for something else still but it doesnt feel right looking when I've only been there 8 weeks. But its just so boring and so not me, and I hate hate hate the sales side of it Looking into selling my sisters cards as a sideline, but not quite sure where to start, and I'd love to do events planning freelance, but again, I just dont know where to start
Hope your daughter feels better soon Pooky.
Sal- dont beat yourself up, you made the decisions you did for very valid reasons, you're bound to feel sad sometimes but in the long run it was the right decision for you and for B
xxxxx

Buffythedebtslayer

am really running late now, but the end Mannequin made me sad- it was a film my friends and I used to watch at sleepovers. sighs.

any how see you all soon

btw this feb thing is def happening right and Scaredy - hadn't we better sort out France?(sounds good!)

love you all

xxx

LouiseJ

Sorry in advance, rant alert!

The NHS are doing sweet FA to help my MIL and things are at crisis point....

She is now convinced that OH is back living at home with her and she is cooking meals for him when he is not there.

She is telling the neighbours that we are not speaking to her and she has offered us money to take her to the bingo but we wouldnt (thank god her neighbours are understanding) also we are locking her in the house so she cant get out (she hides her keys from the people who she thinks are living with her)

She locked herself in the bathroom and couldnt get out so neighbours had to break the front door open.........

I could go on but surely they cannot just leave someone to have continuous hallucinations and delusions.

She is being tested yet again for a water infection !!!!!! she must have had one for 2 effing years then.

We are at our witts end and something really bad is going to happen, I just know it.

scaredy_cat

Buffythedebtslayer wrote: »

am really running late now, but the end Mannequin made me sad- it was a film my friends and I used to watch at sleepovers. sighs.

any how see you all soon

btw this feb thing is def happening right and Scaredy - hadn't we better sort out France?(sounds good!)

love you all

xxx

yep!! i've been looking at trains... i'll pm you!