Friday 1st Daily Chat, new month new start.

beanielou

Gemmzie~Me thinks that you are the only person in your family with any money sense.

Ames

Is it really sad that I'm desperatley trying to think of something I need to go out for just so I can drive my new car?!

scaredy_cat

hmmmmmm..... i think you need to go and get a car air fresherner thingy, Ames!! To hang from the mirror!!

clairewop

Ok I've run out of beads again still got 8 pairs of earrings to do

bookseller1980

You could always take it out to test the wipers Ames!
When can yoy get some more beads Claire? Have you promised them by a certain date?
I'm going to go soak in the bath - it feels like winter here. Plus I need to shave my legs and it's easier than in a shower. :)Hotel tomorrow has a pool and saunas.

clairewop

Just ordered them Bookie should be here tuesday ordered extra again

SuzySu

Hi all

Got a stinking cold today so will feed it with Thai Curry ....

....and a glass or two of vino

tenmah

Hi

Thank you all for your comments regarding Reiki. My friend has been seeing this lady for a while and she had been so perceptive about my friend's life and also talking about her Mum that had passed, that I wanted to give it a go.

To be fair to her, she did ask if I wanted to be told things and really that was what I went for - the Reiki was secondary because if I think I am going to 'hear' from my Mum then I will go anywhere. I haven't got over my Mum's death and look anywhere I can for reassurance over certain things or for signs from her.

So I guess it was my fault for wanting so much. I couldn't relax as much as I should have because I am a very shy, private person and found it weird to be lying there with my eyes shut and having a stranger look at me. I think that was why hypnosis didn't really work for me because the hypnotist was looking at me (I know that sounds strange!)

I think I had worked myself up so much before the Reiki session that I was likely to burst into tears whatever happened. She touched on my daughter's pain and other things about my daughter that hit a nerve (my daughter had also been to see her that afternoon) that I found it all too emotional and probably wouldn't go again.

SuzySu

tenmah....those sorts of experiences are extremely draining so don't be hard on yourself.

It's not "your fault" for wanting reassurance and signs from your Mum.

I know exactly what you mean about feeling awkward with the hypnotherapist looking at you.....when I had it, I giggled throughout the whole hour. I felt SO embarrassed and really rude but it was my uncomfortability rather than anything funny. Luckily she understood and said that a lot of clients did that on their first session. I was just worried she would think I wasn't taking it seriously.

Hope you find some inner peace soon. x

clairewop

Aww Tenmah hugs, hope your feeling brighter today