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  • winebox
    winebox Posts: 1,129 Forumite
    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    I think we all know Swindon wouldn't really be described as "lovely" :o:rotfl:

    It wouldn't??? oh
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    winebox wrote: »
    It wouldn't??? oh

    You obviously go to different bits than me!:D
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • EssexHebridean
    EssexHebridean Posts: 24,424 Forumite
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    barshamhillbilly wrote: »
    http://www.americanfooduk.co.uk/product.php?prid=213920&pn=Stubbs-Liquid-Smoke---Mesquite

    :D:D

    Ta! Now I know! :D

    Jo - I'm keeping those hugs coming hun. Assuming that you feel that the text arguments aren't really achieving anything, why not just text back to him once if he starts again that you are not prepared to enter into argument and debate by text, however if he wants to talk things through face to face - not to have another argument - so you can decide what should be done to move things on from here, then you would be happy to do that.


    Lunch here has been a dull couple of slices of toast with XO Marmite (eaten before I saw the earlier post mentioning it!) and some cheese. I am also decluttering a packet of smokey bacon crisps as we speak. :o Tea will be pasta & pesto :)
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  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Toasted cheese muffins for lunch.....gonna be Maccy D's for tea with little boy :)

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Have to ask....whats XO marmite?????
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    EssexHebridean wrote: »
    Assuming that you feel that the text arguments aren't really achieving anything, why not just text back to him once if he starts again that you are not prepared to enter into argument and debate by text, however if he wants to talk things through face to face - not to have another argument - so you can decide what should be done to move things on from here, then you would be happy to do that.

    Text arguments stopped. He is no longer talking to me. Got home yesterday and he had told DD1 that me and him are over. He's been off sick for 3 weeks and was due to go back to work today but went to docs and got signed off for another week, feigning chest infection, he's got prescriptions that will never be filled. Got back from docs and promptly went out for the evening with his mate.

    He has insisted that I put him on the tenancy but haven't had a chance to talk to him yet.

    He definitely knows it's over, just a matter of getting him to move out now :undecided
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  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    EssexHebridean wrote: »
    Jo - I'm keeping those hugs coming hun. Assuming that you feel that the text arguments aren't really achieving anything, why not just text back to him once if he starts again that you are not prepared to enter into argument and debate by text

    or switch it off or just not reply :D

    Leftover lentil and bacon soup for lunch - fish fingers cous cous and salad for tea -- cupboards bare:eek:

    WOT NO SPUDS MRS BHB ?? :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek: I might wither away :o:rotfl:

    This may be the last time that I have the energy to type ............ .... . .. ....:rotfl:
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    OOOPs crossed your post there Jo
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • barshamhillbilly
    barshamhillbilly Posts: 2,127 Forumite
    jo1972 wrote: »
    He has insisted that I put him on the tenancy

    Why should you ?

    Tell him it would be best for the children for him to move out and if he thought anything of them at all he would. Otherwise he could end up losing them as well !

    BHB
    x
    :) Embrace your inner Hillbilly :)
  • maman
    maman Posts: 29,725 Forumite
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    barshamhillbilly wrote: »
    Why should you ?

    Tell him it would be best for the children for him to move out and if he thought anything of them at all he would. Otherwise he could end up losing them as well !

    BHB
    x

    Absolutely right Andy, why would you want to do that jo? I can't see that he has anything but totally selfish reasons for asking. Take care jo.

    P.S. Chicken Casserole here with potatoes!! Yum!
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