Would this message get you a little narked?

greenoo000

Lillythepink, I think your situation was different, if the seller didn't want to send you the item because they didn't get the price they wanted, or it was out of stock, then I think it's fine to leave a neutral if you want, because it was the seller at fault. But if an item gets lost in the post and you are refunded promptly then I think it is unfair to leave a neutral or negative, it is not the sellers fault - I think you should either leave no feedback, or a positive saying the item was lost, but refund recieved without a problem, or similar.

soolin

greenoo000 wrote: »

Lillythepink, I think your situation was different, if the seller didn't want to send you the item because they didn't get the price they wanted, or it was out of stock, then I think it's fine to leave a neutral if you want, because it was the seller at fault. But if an item gets lost in the post and you are refunded promptly then I think it is unfair to leave a neutral or negative, it is not the sellers fault - I think you should either leave no feedback, or a positive saying the item was lost, but refund recieved without a problem, or similar.

OP hasn't mentioned any feedback though, only the seller mentioned neutral or negative.

OP does not have to leave feedback at all.

Personally I think any seller doing any messaging mentioning feedback is asking for problems. If you get feedback you get it, if not, and you happen to be worried about a non positive, just consider no feedback a bonus.

lindseykim13

soolin wrote: »

OP hasn't mentioned any feedback though, only the seller mentioned neutral or negative.

OP does not have to leave feedback at all.

Personally I think any seller doing any messaging mentioning feedback is asking for problems. If you get feedback you get it, if not, and you happen to be worried about a non positive, just consider no feedback a bonus.

Thankyou that was all i was trying to say but perhaps not so well worded.

I got a message from my seller and thought i would ask others opinions on it, purely to see if i was reading it wrong. I wasn't expecting to be slated for not leaving the seller fb.

satan666wayne

lindseykim13 wrote: »

I've not had one apology from this seller.

So what does the first line on the seller email say?

lindseykim13 wrote: »

i am very sorry it has not arrived

lindseykim13

satan666wayne wrote: »

So what does the first line on the seller email say?

I meant before that message out of the blue, anyway why drag up a thread from the weekend i'm over it now, thanks for your concern though.

babymoo

lindseykim13 wrote: »

I don't leave fb for anyone full stop! And nor do i appreciate being nagged for it. I don't blame them at all but i do blame them for going out of their way to tell me not to leave a neg or neutral fb. I'll leave what i like when i like and don't appreciate their tone.

Well arent you a little ray of sunshine!

Can I have your ebay ID so I can block you and make sure that I never have to do business with you. Cheers!