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The Giving Up/Cutting Down Alcohol Support Thread - Numero 9!

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  • Hi, Hiney and welcome to the thread. Your sobriety is a lesson for us all. Too many on here, me included, kid ourselves that a few days af is an achievement but for some again, me included, the only real answer is to stop drinking completely. Some here have achieved this, others I think are frightened of the thought of never drinking again.

    It certainly takes guts and courage and I admire you for your achievement.
    Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.
    (Mark Twain)
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    hiney777 wrote: »
    Hello, this is my first time posting on here and thought I'd introduce myself.
    This week I will be 8 years sober. For me cutting down was not a option but was a route I tried once and looking back I think this aided me to carry on drinking rather than help. I called for advice and was sent a pack to write down my drink habits and was advised to try not to drink for 3 months, This I managed and was feeling really great, but as soon as those 3 months were up I picked up where I left off but with one big difference I know thought my problem wasn't that bad as I'd managed not to drink for 3 months. It took another 5 years of increasingly heavier drinking before I finally got help to give up all together.
    Some of you on here will be able to cut down but for some the only option will be to try and give up.
    Good luck to all
    Hiney
    randomname wrote: »
    Hi, Hiney and welcome to the thread. Your sobriety is a lesson for us all. Too many on here, me included, kid ourselves that a few days af is an achievement but for some again, me included, the only real answer is to stop drinking completely. Some here have achieved this, others I think are frightened of the thought of never drinking again.

    It certainly takes guts and courage and I admire you for your achievement.

    Thank you, RN, for saying what I was thinking in a much better way than I could put it!

    And thank you, Hiney, for sharing that :)

    Can actual speak with some degree of normality now, which is a great relief! :rotfl: Still coughing my guts up tho
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
  • mollypolly
    mollypolly Posts: 1,737 Forumite
    randomname wrote: »
    Hi, Hiney and welcome to the thread. Your sobriety is a lesson for us all. Too many on here, me included, kid ourselves that a few days af is an achievement but for some again, me included, the only real answer is to stop drinking completely. Some here have achieved this, others I think are frightened of the thought of never drinking again.

    It certainly takes guts and courage and I admire you for your achievement.

    This thought STILL scares me now......:(
    :happylove :happylove
    I'm back!!!!
    DMP starts 1st July 2015:T
    Dfd March 2021 (hoping to get there sooner )
    DMP mutual support group number 444
    Proud to be dealing with my debts at last :j
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    honeybear wrote: »
    Still coughing my guts up tho

    I'm not sitting next to you tomorrow then :p
    mollypolly wrote: »
    This thought STILL scares me now......:(

    Maybe you should write it all down too MP? Find out why you did it in the first place? Or do you know already?

    I hope your DD is okay? xx

    V excited bout tomorrow :D:D:D
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    CURRY GOERS!!!

    Just popping in quickly to say I hope you all have a fab time at the curry evening. I'm so sorry I'm not able to make it.

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • Lurkio
    Lurkio Posts: 3,155 Forumite
    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    CURRY GOERS!!!

    Just popping in quickly to say I hope you all have a fab time at the curry evening. I'm so sorry I'm not able to make it.

    Miss P
    xx

    So are we, Miss P....... :(

    :DNeigh, neigh, and thrice neigh :D
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Lurkio wrote: »
    So are we, Miss P....... :(

    Don't....i'll blub....:cry:
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • Miss_Piggy_2
    Miss_Piggy_2 Posts: 3,631 Forumite
    Woooo...just had a quick read back. SSG, please don't include me in any more of your rants or I'll be reporting them as abuse.

    Thats another visit over folks....hope you all have a brilliant time tomorrow. Miss you all!

    Miss P
    xx
    **Keep Calm and Carry On!**
  • Hi All:j

    Hope you enjoy the get together tomorrow!! It would be great to see a photo of you all if that was possible?

    I HAVE NOT BOUGHT ANY WINE FOR SATURDAY NIGHT SO I CAN'T DRINK ANY SO THE BELLS CAN JUST GO AND CLANG OFF

    And they certainly are clanging here.
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  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    Thats another visit over folks....hope you all have a brilliant time tomorrow. Miss you all!

    Miss P
    xx

    Please change your mind and come :( please?
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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