Life after bankruptcy?

miggy

ani_26 wrote: »

I don't have friends who drop by.

But how many people know where you are, or if they know, are in drop by-able distance?

You realise you are inviting an MSE invasion?

kerri_gt

ani_26 wrote: »

Thanks for posting kerri xx

Don't forget to save some beer for the slugs. :beer:

Don't know if I can promise that ani I have some cider though, they can have that as i don't drink cider

kerri_gt

ani_26 wrote: »

That's sad, isn't it? I don't have friends who drop by. I don't have anyone drop by except those who say they have a duty of care. Duty, huh?

I'm not sure if it's sad or not ani, tbh, I don't have any friends who drop by - I can count on one hand the number of friends who have been to my house in the past 2 1/2 years - yet I have friends who are round other folks houses at least once a week.

ani_26

miggy wrote: »

But how many people know where you are, or if they know, are in drop by-able distance?

You realise you are inviting an MSE invasion?

I doubt it.

Do you know. Not one person from work has called me or texted me to ask how i am, in all these months. Dog eat dog at work, huh? The fact i'm not working, means more work for other people, ( in a positive way.)

ani_26

kerri_gt wrote: »

I'm not sure if it's sad or not ani, tbh, I don't have any friends who drop by - I can count on one hand the number of friends who have been to my house in the past 2 1/2 years - yet I have friends who are round other folks houses at least once a week.

Just ignore me. I'm on a right downer. sorry.

miggy

ani_26 wrote: »

Not one person from work has called me or texted me to ask how i am, in all these months.

Do you think the person who thought you were dead has passed the word around?

Sounds to me as though you are better off out of there. I wonder if others are off sick too?

Yes, you are on quite a downer. Anything we can do?

SazM030306

:hello: add me to the FnC meet up please!!
xxx XXX xxx

recoverydust

Been absent enjoying being married and reasonably sane.
It's my birthday too..... Midnight mega shop at Asda... Stocking up on whoopsies.
Sorry you are down Ani, today is another day.... I wish I was pop round able, you would get sick of me popping round... Hang on there, it will sort, you will et stable benefits, it's just a frock up from beginning to end.
Xxxx

ani_26

I have just wriiten a long post and managed to delete it. I can't get my head round today, so i shan't re write it at the present. But today is probably the most life changing day this year, and i can't stop crying. Today is going to be a day spent crying. Maybe it's the release of years of stress.

Money_Fritter

Hi Ani,

Hope you are ok, hang in there.

I know what you mean about friends. Nobody comes around to see me either. People in work tend to live to far away and I just think other people don't have the time as they have families. It would be nice to have people around and have a BBQ, sometimes you do get lonely and isolated.

But we have to be positive.

Hang in there.

P.S. Have you had my green Lentil stew yet, after the hard week you went to finding it; you deserve it.

Also if I knew were you lived I would come around and make you a cuppa tea and have a nice chat.

Money Fritter