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Life after bankruptcy?

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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,813 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
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  • schoolrunmum
    schoolrunmum Posts: 2,689 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker Debt-free and Proud!
    I'll join Beanie in offering you a T's voucher , if it'll help xx
    Debt-free...and staying that way...
  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    I really don't know what to say without offending anyone, because everything i say seems to offend someone.

    I truly appreciate your offers of help, you are so generous and thoughtful. Maybe i've offended people because i have'nt accepted offers of help. I just don't know what to say, other than its got to change soon. I don't know how to reply, i'm sorry


    But beanie, one day maybe i will hold you to that fish and chips x
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  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    Its been a beautiful day and i've been out in the the sunshine and blue skies all day. But its been a struggle, as i realise i'm on a really short fuse, with things i usually let ride over me. I'm tired and drained and worried about tomorrow. Such a sense of deja vu, today. I know it had all happened before, and i knew exactly what they were going to say before they said it. They'd said it all before, exactly the same person, in exactly the same place, and at that point, i withdrew and i know they could'nt make out why. Its a struggle to write anything tonight, i can't concentrate.


    Uuurgh, i've offended people again. I must stop logging in as nh
    Debt free - Is it a state of mind? a state of the Universe? or a state of the bank account?
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  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    Just aread a few pages...hope you are feeling a little better Ani.......couldn't see what car you had though??? My first car was an MGB,drove it till it died.......



    I've never driven an MGB or a midget, hmm, i'm drifting off now, imagining what it would be like.

    That is entirely my intention with my current car. To drive it until one of us dies. I suupose you could say, therefore, i'm entirely happy with the car i drive. I would'nt change it for any other, and i don't aspire to buy a shiny new ( or used ) car, ever. How many people can say that? Once its gone, i doubt i'd get another car.
    Debt free - Is it a state of mind? a state of the Universe? or a state of the bank account?
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  • ani_26
    ani_26 Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    I can't concentrate, i'm off. Maybe what i was trying to say, is the simple words and hugs, make a huge difference in a persons life.
    Debt free - Is it a state of mind? a state of the Universe? or a state of the bank account?
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  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,813 Ambassador
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • miggy
    miggy Posts: 4,328 Forumite
    I've finally caught up...

    Am sending you a whole bunch of hugs, how can people put off paying you like this? Have they no conscience?

    That money is yours by right, I do hope at least some of it materialises soon.

    And I'm glad you still have the car. :)
    Miggy

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  • schoolrunmum
    schoolrunmum Posts: 2,689 Forumite
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    Ani-don't be so hard on yourself, you certainly haven't offended me..
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  • MatyMoo
    MatyMoo Posts: 3,176 Forumite
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    I'm not offended either :D

    Frustrated, as i hate to see you struggling so much when I know I could help in a small way, but not offended at all. I can understand pride getting in the way or you not wanting to feel like a charity case as I find it really difficult to accept help from others too. Silly, as I love to help others and it makes me feel good. What strange people we are.

    Anyway, can you explain the difference between a classic car and a vintage car to me please. Or are the margins blurred? I would have thought the early MG's could have been both!
    :j Proud Member of Mike's Mob :j
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