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Weekly Flylady Thread 13th September 2010

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  • Valli
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    Hellyboo (((hugs)))

    I breastfed but I would not DREAM of telling others that's what they should do.

    I got a 'slagging' from a MW when I requested an elective c-section for DD having been through a horrendous time attempting, and failing, to deliver DS. But another MW (scanning me) said if that's what you want you ask for it - so I asked again and got it.

    If you feel up to it, write and complain. They should be supporting all mums without prejudice.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli
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    Help?

    Should Ds (and I) be looking at UNIs NOW? He is in y12...
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Valli wrote: »
    Help?

    Should Ds (and I) be looking at UNIs NOW? He is in y12...

    Possibly - we started about Easter of 1st year 6th form :)
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • hex2
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    Evening :beer: DD and I had a fab time at Loughborough, and she screen-printed a t-shirt :D Great art department, but as we live in a tiny place she's worried it may not be exciting enough for her :o Think she's going to apply and see what happens :T

    Has she looked at the male to female ratio :p? I lived there for six months of my course, having spent the first couple of years commuting from Leicester. It is a great place to live and has a very high concentration of students, but you do end up going to Nottingham for shopping, etc.

    Litter tray emptied, kitchen table cleared, our bedding now in TD. Mountains to do, glad I am off tomorrow.
    'If you have a garden and a library, you have everything you need' Marcus Tullius Cicero
  • Valli
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    edited 16 September 2010 at 5:34PM
    DS is thinking of Loughborough. He wants to do sport (or law). Looks like we'll be starting 'really' looking at Easter.

    I have FINALLY got round to shredding my Form E (which was about 2cm THICK :eek:) - it will be picked up by the recycling tomorrow:D
    Have also put a couple of garments aside for a charity shop. As they are M&S I think I JUST might pop them to Oxfam. Separately of course:p
    I seem to have a 'declutter and be organised' head on atm!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Helly awh angel thats not right - dont let her away with that - you are doing right by your kiddies or you wouldnt be getting upset - as you said she knows nothing about you or the circumstances so she has no right to making comments like that - I hope you got on ok at the docs - if the HV is connected to the GP surgery then write to the manager of the surgery. Mums need support not stupid criticism based on her personal opinion - and just you tell me where she is and the flylady bus will be paying her a visit - ALL ABOARD!!!!!!!!

    love and huge hugs
    try not to dwell on it
    toots xx
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  • Valli
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    edited 16 September 2010 at 6:01PM
    Mums need support not stupid criticism based on her personal opinion - and just you tell me where she is and the flylady bus will be paying her a visit - ALL ABOARD!!!!!!!!
    Wise words from our precious Toots there.

    Hope all goes well with YOU hun!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
    :heart:Janice 1964-2016:heart:

    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining area
    Level One ~ done :)
    Level Two
    Wipe fronts of appliances and units
    Descale the kettle!
    [STRIKE]Wipe table and replace cloth if needed
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe window sills
    [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Clean out the oven thoroughly.. [/STRIKE]Quick s&s of the fridge

    Extras
    1. Wipe skirtings
    2. wash windows
    3. Thoroughly clean out 1 cupboard
    Tuesday - Master bedroom & landing
    Level One
    Strip and wash sheets
    Vacuum and turn mattress before replacing clean sheets
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]15 minutes floordrobe clearance[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Change duvet for winter one if you need to.[/STRIKE]Vacuum floors
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Sort stuff from the top of the wardrobe.. don't hurt yourself just if you can!!
    [/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Sort that present cupboard.. incorporate what you can to birthday/christmas list
    [/STRIKE]
    Sort through a box of junk fom the landing

    Extras
    1. [STRIKE]Tidy floor of the wardrobe!
    2. [/STRIKE]Binbag dance
    3. [STRIKE]Sort under bed!
    4. [/STRIKE][STRIKE]Collect all the dirty laundry from upstairs! [/STRIKE]
    Wednesday ~ Living/family areas.
    Level One ~ done :)
    Level Two
    Dust and deweb.. shine any glass/mirrors/electricals
    [STRIKE]Hang winter curtains and stock up on coal/oil etc for stoves if needed[/STRIKE][STRIKE]
    Binbag dance[/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Vacuum under furniture you can move safely
    Check windows and doors for draughts and sort them before winter bites your bum!
    Sort out ALL the paperwork strewn about.. put it all in a heap and work through it!

    Extras
    1. Sort out one drawer/cupboard
    2. Sort a pile of stuff you have been ignoring for an age!
    3. Tidy a bookcase
    Thursday - Bathroom and Study/Pc Area
    Level One
    Clean floors in these rooms
    fling open the windows
    Level Two ~ done :)
    [STRIKE]Clean baths/shower, toilets, don't forget under the rim! and sinks
    Clear any clutter from desk
    Dust PC and desk and wipe off those cup rings!!
    Wipe keyboard, house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc[/STRIKE]

    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wash your bathroom mats, nets, clean blind/curtains etc whatever needs cleaning.
    Wipe down tiles in bathroom
    [/STRIKE]
    .. and delete 10 dead/unused links from your favourites!
    [STRIKE]Clean shower screen/curtain if you have one/if required
    Collect any stray laundry from upstairs. [/STRIKE]


    Extras
    • Wipe the paintwork in these rooms
    • Clean the radiators in these rooms
    • Wash the windows in these rooms.. and shine the mirrors
    • HHI... a bit more gone!
    • Do any toothbrushes/sponges etc need replacing?
    Friday- those frightening kids rooms and spare rooms
    Level One
    Clear away anything that isn't in it's place, clothes, toys, books etc
    Spend at least half an hour doing something for yourself!!!!! paint your nails, make an appointment to have your hair done, a lovely soak in the bath.. whatever you feel like!! I'm having my nails done this morning as usual
    Level Two
    Vacuum the floor
    Dusting.. all those shelves and flat fluffy surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade and curtain pole!!!
    [STRIKE]Strip beds, turn and vacuum mattresses!! and replace with fresh linen .. check if duvets need freshening up too!!
    [/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Clean 2 windows
    Sort through a cupboard/chest of drawers and get the clothes out which are no longer wearable, too small or out of season!
    Wipe any sticky marks off walls and doors

    Extras
    1. Wash a set of curtains, nets, duvet or throw
    2. Wipe the radiators, skirtings and window & door frames!
    3. Sort through one box or toys.. if you have no children find a box of junk.. is there anything that needs to go?
    4. End of week fling!! grab a binbag and fill it with stuff to leave the house.. rubbish or charity shop or to donate to a friend!
    :rudolf: Sheep, pigs, hens and bees on our Teesdale smallholding :rudolf:
  • kazwookie
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    evening

    Dinner cooked and eaten, just got to wash up in a mo.
    Went to London today to visit a customer.

    Hugs to all

    xxx
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  • Mahooosive hugs for Toots :A You are very special to this thread, so please take care of yourself and cross off 75% of your list :p
    ^^^^^^^
    Wot she said
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