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buyer refusing to pay by paypal

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  • GregtheHammer
    GregtheHammer Posts: 1,036 Forumite
    MyUserNamesTaken wrote: »
    Start a non paying bidder thing with Ebay. Then the feedback will be removed.

    I do not think you can do that as the op has already done a Mutual Withdrawal.
  • Mimi_Arc_en_ciel
    Mimi_Arc_en_ciel Posts: 4,851 Forumite
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    wont let me open a NPB
  • soolin
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    mommyme wrote: »
    wont let me open a NPB

    You only get one stab at a non payer and unfortunately you have used yours in doing the mutual. I also can't see anything in the feedback that would warrant its removal.
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  • Smart_But_Casual
    Smart_But_Casual Posts: 806 Forumite
    Prehaps the OP should have listened to the advice given regarding opening a dispute and they now wouldn't find themselves fretting about the neg'.
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  • theonlywayisup
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    OP, had you have filed a NPB, any feedback he left would be removed. Now, you have entered into a mutual he is able to leave his feedback.

    Lesson learned hopefully.
  • Mimi_Arc_en_ciel
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    Smart_But_Casual wrote: »
    Prehaps the OP should have listened to the advice given regarding opening a dispute and they now wouldn't find themselves fretting about the neg'.

    I was also told that if i had opened a npb he would still be able to leave a neg anyway if he paid - i didnt think he could leave one if it was mutually withdrawn

    Oh well - not my account lol
  • soolin
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    mommyme wrote: »
    I was also told that if i had opened a npb he would still be able to leave a neg anyway if he paid - i didnt think he could leave one if it was mutually withdrawn

    Oh well - not my account lol

    Yes but if he'd paid you would at least have had the sale you wanted.
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  • theonlywayisup
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    mommyme wrote: »
    I was also told that if i had opened a npb he would still be able to leave a neg anyway if he paid - i didnt think he could leave one if it was mutually withdrawn

    Oh well - not my account lol

    He could if he had paid. But he didn't.

    As for a mutual, that means MUTUAL, so therefore he can still give his side of the story.
  • Smart_But_Casual
    Smart_But_Casual Posts: 806 Forumite
    mommyme wrote: »
    I was also told that if i had opened a npb he would still be able to leave a neg anyway if he paid - i didnt think he could leave one if it was mutually withdrawn

    Oh well - not my account lol

    Because none of us, not one, said that a NPB dispute would mean no feedback. Nope, not one, not within minutes of you asking.
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  • mynameisdave
    mynameisdave Posts: 1,284 Forumite
    I would be reluctant to see it to him by Paypal after threatening behaviour like that. I can see a papypal dispute being opened/fake claims of empty pakages and god knows what else. Sounds unhinged to be so problematic over a computer game.
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