MSE Parents Club Part 14

redmel1621

Right off to read a mag for a bit...see what he says to my txt, I have just sent it!!

xx

kindofagilr

yummymummuoftwo wrote:

Hiya all
Its my first post in here so hello and im hopeing you ladies will have some advice for me
I had my 3rd baby 4 weeks ago tomorrow and im still bleeding not much but is this normal? (it was a natural birth) ive forgot how long it happened with my other two , and how long do you have to wait to resume things? obviously wait till bleeding stops

Also ive got my baby on aptimel milk and shes having trouble with wind and shes a bit coliky in the evenings even with infacol so i was going to change her to the aptimel comfort, does anyone use it and does it work?

Sorry for all the questions and thanks in advance

Hey, I bled for 5 weeks, I had a natural birth (forceps though)

E has been on colic milk since he was about 4 weeks old, and he has that and colief drops in it from the drs and he has been smashing on that

I am just about to change him to follow on milk and he is 6 months soon and is being weaned

Thanks for the codes SS

RED - DONT DO IT ((HUGS))) maybe you should change you pill?

jillie1974

Glam - i am so sorry! i had it in my head that J's birthday was the 6th Sept *naughty jillie*

I hope you all had a lovely day

SugarSpun

Goodnight lovelies, I am having an early night. Too many late nights this week, definitely time for an early one, so me and the egg on my head are going off to bed together.

Hugs where needed and wanted xxx

Where is SM today? I missed her and the cuppa

My_Fathers_Daughter

Mel hun, try to take some deep breaths, calm down and set about sorting the problems out. Tell dh that he has peed you off and why and then let it go. Sometimes people are arrises and we all need to accept it and move on.

I am sure that he would take it back if he could but he can't so only you have the power to move the situation forward in a positive way. Xxx

Today we went on a water taxi, out for lunch, walked a mile along the prom and played on swings and a climbing frame on the beach. And Benjamin walked the whole day, clever boy! He was a gorgeous angel for most of the day but was then a horror for dinner! Both boys are shattered though so early nights for both!

Oh and Benjamin had his first paddle in the sea, he hated it LOL!

Krystaltips

I'm not surprised he was tired after all that walking Mfd!!

Caitlyn hated the sea too... But not as much as she hated feeling the sand on her feet lol...

tiamai_d

Mel, have you told him exactly how upset him saying that you don't dress T nicely, has made you? Does he understand fully?

Perhaps you have to tell him that it has taken you a long time to get to a point where you are feeling happy with your bond with T and what he said has really upset you far more than he can fully understand.

Some of the things DH said to me after I had DS2 contributed to my emotional state lets say. We ended up in concilling and talked it all through. The things he said that hit me hard were things he didn't even think about.

Like you I got angry and upset but never found the words to tell him that the things he said, could have such a huge impact at the time. I buried it all down but eventually it all bubbled to the surface and exploded in nasty splittyupness.

fattybooboo

Evening! Ouchy head SS :-( Aww bless benjamin walking the whole day MFD

We took T out on his bike seat this afternoon, he was so sweet he really loved it!! We are gonna get my bike out tomorrow too so that we can all go out together, yay!! It will prob rain now ive said that ha!

jillie1974

off to our first 1st birthday party tomorrow. bouncing castle for the kids and bbq and drinks for adults. hope its a good day

Krystaltips

I've put a couple of new photos on facebook if anyone wants to look