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MSE Parents Club Part 14

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  • elle_gee
    elle_gee Posts: 8,584 Forumite
    If you fancy claiming it (and do feel free!), you can always think of Rhys as being two days short of eleven months (corrected ;)) :p
  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    edited 4 September 2010 at 8:07PM
    This is crap

    I am sat upstairs again, for the second night in a row, because we have been arguing:( I know it is 'mostly' me too, I just can't help myself. I am sure it is going back on the pill that has done it because I am having such mood swings, I can go from happy to nearly killing everyone in a split second:( I also can't back down...but then again I have always had a stubborn streak;) I just hate this nasty/angry feeling that seems to have appeared lately:(

    Earlier I threw all T's clothes down the stairs and told him he is now in charge of buying her clothes and dressing her too:cry: I hate myself, although what I said the other night about loving my daughter still stands...I do with all my heart:) I has been so hard to get to this point only for him to imply I still don't like her or something or at least, am crap at dressing her/choosing her clothes and I am making her look ugly:(

    OMG I am so sorry to come on and moan on like this...Sorry. I am like a schizo or something aren't I:(

    Edit - I am also about to send him a long nasty txt, I know I shouldn't as it will only prolong the argument...or even make it worse but I can't stop myself!!!
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
  • Tigsteroonie
    Tigsteroonie Posts: 24,954 Forumite
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    :heartpuls Mrs Marleyboy :heartpuls

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    :) Proud Parents to an Aut-some son :)
  • SusanC_2
    SusanC_2 Posts: 5,344 Forumite
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    redmel1621 wrote: »
    Earlier I threw all T's clothes down the stairs and told him he is now in charge of buying her clothes and dressing her too:cry: I hate myself, although what I said the other night about loving my daughter still stands...I do with all my heart:) I has been so hard to get to this point only for him to imply I still don't like her or something or at least, am crap at dressing her/choosing her clothes and I am making her look ugly:(
    :grouphug: I'm sure T looks lovely in what you dress her in - I remember you linking to some outfits you were planning to get for her a while ago and they certainly didn't look like anything that would make her look ugly.
    Any question, comment or opinion is not intended to be criticism of anyone else.
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  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Big hugs Mel - I think you could wrap T in tea towels and she'd still look gorgeous.
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  • redmel1621
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    Becles wrote: »
    Josh is 13 and I let him travel into Durham by bus to meet some friends from school. He was in the bus station and saw a number 21 bus and hopped on it. Then when the bus terminated, he realised he was in Bishop Auckland which is miles away! Luckily the driver was sympathetic and said he could stay on the bus and he didn't charge him any extra to bring him back.

    I am glad he got back safely. Good on the bus driver too, the ones round here wouldn't have done that, I once got refused because I was 10p short...I was only short because I dropped the stupid 10p when I was getting the money out of my pocket!!
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
  • Krystaltips
    Krystaltips Posts: 9,220 Forumite
    I have never seen ugly baby clothes (apart from what my Nana bought back from abroad once, but she's in a league of her own that woman...)
    A very proud Mummy to 3 beautiful girls... I do pity my husband though, he's the one to suffer the hormones...
    Krystal is so smart and funny and wonderful I am struck dumb in awe in her presence.

  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    I think she looks pretty...he thinks that I want to put my insecurities onto her...fgs she's 10wks old! And just because I am too fat to wear skirts/dresses there is no way I won't put her in them...it's just as all she is doing is lying/slouching around atm, they just keep riding up and her legs are getting cold, so I have bought her a few pairs of jeans/leggins/joggers BUT they are all pretty pink and sparkly and girly ones!! I don't know what his problem is:(

    It's a shame because it is our wedding anniversary in 2 days and i can't see this (among other things) being resolved and we are going to have a rubbish anniversary:(
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
  • SugarSpun
    SugarSpun Posts: 8,559 Forumite
    Waaaaaaaaaaaah :( I was cleaning earlier and whacked my head off the corner of the changing table. Now I have a big egg on my head and it really hurts.

    Mel, what if you put skirts over leggings?
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  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    SugarSpun wrote: »
    Waaaaaaaaaaaah :( I was cleaning earlier and whacked my head off the corner of the changing table. Now I have a big egg on my head and it really hurts.

    Mel, what if you put skirts over leggings?


    Ouchy for your head:(

    Yes I could do that, I suppose:)

    xx
    Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot,
    Nothing is going to get better. It's not.
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