MSE Parents Club Part 14

CAFCGirl

SugarSpun wrote: »

Molly's 14 months old, CAFC. Exhaustion lasts as long as it lasts.

Sorry hun, I didnt mean it horribly to those who do suffer with exhaustion. *takes foot out of mouth*

But it was more because I dont really feel that attractive in myself, and I know some would say well DH should make the effort to make me feel like it, but a while ago i told him not to bother because me being a hormonal woman just took it as him trying it on....

CAFCGirl

Krystaltips wrote: »

But CAFC, sometimes you just don't feel like it... On the rare occasions we do hubby always follows it with "remember when we used to do that all the time..." with a wistfull look on his face... I reply with "well... Shouldn't keep knocking me up should you..."

I'll admit I'm a bit scared of that as well.....

SugarSpun

CAFCGirl wrote: »

Sorry hun, I didnt mean it horribly to those who do suffer with exhaustion. *takes foot out of mouth*

Lovely girl, I was thinking of you! I'm not offended at all!

It's hard to feel attractive after having a baby, I think, and all the more so when you're tired and you've not had time to shower and there's baby sick on your shoulder. OHs should either respect that or take the baby for long enough for their partner to get a shower and clean clothes

3onitsway

CAFCGirl wrote: »

Oh i know you're all fluffy and lovely.... its probably because I judge me :rotfl: I mean Dec 09 is a long time to wait.....:eek:

20 months on and i'm still playing the exhaustion card.


I am about to go through OH's new shift pattern to find where he has three days off so I can book the two night break away I won on facebook months ago. I needs to be taken before the end of November.

aless02 wrote: »

Did you guys see this? http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-sussex-11500286

:eek:

:eek::eek: How scarey!

r.mac_2

CAFCGirl wrote: »

DH eventually came back, he seemed really taken with what they do, and the money is good, and he picks his own hours so potential for me to get a job (hmmmmmmmmm) or perhaps go to college or something....

But he's going out again tonight to poker at BIL..... He works hard so I guess I shouldnt be too much of a moany wench.....

But I've been very nice to him today..... especially this morning.... for the first time since..... well I dont really like to say how long its been.... :eek: I had thought about asking for advice on here, but its strangely the one thing I feel uncomfortable sharing for fear of judgement
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CAFCGirl wrote: »

I'll admit I'm a bit scared of that as well.....

Please don't worry. From the little I know about these things - which I admit isn't much - pretty much any scenario is normal IYKWIM

I'm not that interested these days, too tired, too busy and totally and utterly scared about getting pregnant again. :rotfl::o The main thing is that you both respect and understand each other and you can always spend other quality time together. I hear that 3 likes to iron :rotfl: ro you could chose something else like a cinema date

hugs - wanted you to know you aren't alone x

r.mac_2

okay - FB is still 'processing' my video. What does that mean and how many months is that liekly to take?

SugarSpun

That's heartbreaking, Aless.

I am starving, we are having steak tonight, nomnomnom, but it is still in the kitchen and not in my belleh.

Also, if anyone's looking for :money: Christmas table decorations, I bought the rectangular glittery plate for £1 from Halfcost and it's really nice. I also have red candles to go on top of it. Husband is telling me he's not going to take the days off over Christmas because it's on a weekend anyway, so that next year he can take an extended break over Christmas and we can maybe go somewhere.

got-it-spend-it

OMG, I have to share this with you lot as I know you will appreciate my excitement, whereas my RL friends will find me nuts. I went bra shopping and am now wearing a properly fitting, non-feeding bra for the first time in nearly 11 months :T. I honestly felt like a different woman today with nicely shaped, nicely covered bosoms. Very happy days.


Simple things and all that. As you were.

Krystaltips

I always tell D he should work the bit in between christmas and new year... Most of the time they only do half days and there's little work on so it seems a waste to use holiday on them...

How lovely for you GISI... I'm very jealous... I dread to think when I'll have nicely supported bussooms in a none clippy bra...

SugarSpun

I'm fine with Christmas working, although I'd prefer it if there was some sort of cash incentive and I'd also like him to take Christmas Eve off - although since that's the big day here most people will already have booked it.

GISI I am astronomically jealous. After my epic trip to TK Maxx the other night someone asked me how their underwear section was. I had to respond, I have no idea because I am still wearing ragged nursing bras and am too cheap to buy new ones.