Trying for a Baby Part Six

Wonder_Womble

Teenie_D wrote: »

Sorry ladies me again:o just wanting to wish Deborah huge congratulations, I think you joined just before I got my BFP. :j This is fab ladies but there are still a few on here that I will be keeping an eye on until you get your bfp's too. xxx

Hey, not long to go for you Teenie, you must be so excited, and relieved :rotfl:

chucknorris69 wrote: »

Not yet, as a bit scared and still in slight denial!

I posted a couple of times last night, and had a nosey back through a couple of pages, they seem like a nice bunch. See you over there when you're ready, although I will still be lurking on here to

countrybum wrote: »

I know I've read it, but forgotten - how do I get on the top secret FB page? Is it really top secret - don't want any of my FB friends seeing it!!!
SBDTA xx

It really is secret, and no one but those who have been invited can see the page or postings.

QQuaver wrote: »

So it's really 24hrs, I wonder if mine will last as long, since it's nearing its expiry date:p Hope I get to use it before it expires:cool:
I hope you do too

I'm not on it unfortunately, as I like to keep my identity secret:cool:
You could set up a seperate fb account just so you can have a nosey at everyone? Ha ha, that's what I wuld d if I wanted to keep my id secret

phunkles wrote: »

Been on here for 17/18 months (both lurking and posting) and just dont feel like I fit anymore, my life doesnt fit with the rest of your lives, and my circumstances are different, so Im bowing out of mse ttc thread graciously. Ive seen far too many people come and go now and been genuinely happy for each and everyone of them but like I said I dont fit and im not sure I ever have done. So Im going to leave and concentrate my efforts on my life and trying to get my bfp and probably the adoption process. I sincerely hope you all get what your hearts desire.

GG I love the bones of you and shall continue to stalk you and I dont have the words now
WW and Deb - I am so made up for you both

Genuine sticky baby dust to you all...

:(:(:(:( Aaaah Phunkles, hope your ok?

Blue_Monkey wrote: »

And it's only !!!!!!!g come up positive :eek:

I am shaking.

None of this is how I 'planned' it.... What the hell do I do about my new job? I never did start taking folic acid! I've been out drinking tons this past month, I've eaten loads of carp and haven't been exercising, I need to lose about a stone, not put loads on!... I wanted OH to be with me when we got a positive result... I wanted to feel ready....... !!!!!!!!

OH is home from work in 3 hours, so I need to busy myself and perhaps go and buy a Clearview proper test.

Is it natural to feel panic stricken? And though I've been edging towards broodiness, now it could be real I feel like I might like some more time to think about getting properly broody.... Holy ship.

Will try and log back on over the weekend to update.

WOOOOOOHOOOOOOOO!! Blue Monkey!!!! Although maybe it's just a little wooohooo! until you get over the shock I think it's natural to feel panic stricken. When I got my BFP the other day, even though I've wanted a baby for 15 years this month :eek::eek::eek::eek: my 1st though was OMG, the 2nd thru to 9th though was OH !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHAT HAVE I DONE???????

Right now I'm at the stage of worrying about making thrugh the next 8 months ok, then money, then childcare etc etc etc. Hopefully I'll calm down soon. I think someone posted on here to say enjoy everyday that you are pg as it flies by and is gone before you know it.

Hope your OH takes the news well. Did you get a digi, you could wait until he comes in and do the digi together?

WOW!! 3 BFPs in 3 days!!!! Who is volunteering to be number 4 tomorrow??

I did another digi this morning and I'm officially pg, it says 2-3 weeks this time :j:j:j

I'm going to try and catch my boss at work today and tell him, although my tummy flip flops every time I think about it, mainly because he is an @rse

SBDTA xx

tinksy

woop woop go blue monkey!!! is the thread having its own virtual clear out????? It's lovely to see you old hands get the BFP after trying for a while it gives the rest of us hope

Good luck today BB with your exams
x

Derby2

Oh wow. Congratulations blue monkey! What a great month for BFP's so far!

Thank you for my cycle answers. It seems I missed this month completely. I was away for the weekend when I had EWCM, so missed the boat it seems. Still, hopefully it means my LP is ok then.

I didn't realise I could have another surge. Curse my unreliable body...

Still haven't come on as yet, but it will be any minute now.

Thanks for your help guys.

ddebski_us

Wonder_Womble wrote: »

Quickly jumping on while I am at work, and I'm in with a shout of winning the bfp prediction competition. Did a clearblue digi this morn and it says:

:j:j:jPREGNANT 1-2 weeks!!!!! :j:j:j

I was crying my eyes out in Asda carpark (I had taken my pot of pee with me). Haven't told DH yet as I want to see his face when I do. I'll be back later to give more info. Thanks to GG for all the support this morning :A




Thanks for the list QQ!

deborahmcgeachy wrote: »

Omg bfp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Blue_Monkey wrote: »

Hi, I've been lurking / MIA for a while as have had lots going on... I logged in the other day and noticed I'd got close to the top of the testing list..........

Well - we've been "not trying, not preventing" for a little while now, and actually had kind of decided to not go for it for a couple of reasons - 1) to make the most of it just being us for a while and be selfish and have lots of fun together and 2) because I'm waiting for an offer on a shiny new amazing fabulous job.

Anyway, today is CD38 and I was saying to OH that I was getting fed up with these slightly irregular cycles (between 27 and 42 days, averaging 33 days) and he said perhaps I should do a test at the weekend...

I've got some internet cheapy tests, and I know with them you aren't supposed to drink a lot of water beforehand, so I'm sitting here working from home thinking "ooh I'm thirsty, I've not had a drink today" and then "perhaps my wee will be strong enough for a IC".

So I did it. And it's only !!!!!!!g come up positive :eek:

I am shaking.

None of this is how I 'planned' it.... What the hell do I do about my new job? I never did start taking folic acid! I've been out drinking tons this past month, I've eaten loads of carp and haven't been exercising, I need to lose about a stone, not put loads on!... I wanted OH to be with me when we got a positive result... I wanted to feel ready....... !!!!!!!!

OH is home from work in 3 hours, so I need to busy myself and perhaps go and buy a Clearview proper test.

Is it natural to feel panic stricken? And though I've been edging towards broodiness, now it could be real I feel like I might like some more time to think about getting properly broody.... Holy ship.

Will try and log back on over the weekend to update.

OMG girls - I am so so so pleased for you all!! Massive congratulations to you all. Hoping so much that all goes smoothly for you.:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

Yey - made my Friday that has!!

:j:j:j:j:j:j:j

xDx

must_try_harder_2

phunkles wrote: »

Can also pm me for the secret fb group.

Which coincidentally will be the only place Ill be posting on from now on. Been on here for 17/18 months (both lurking and posting) and just dont feel like I fit anymore, my life doesnt fit with the rest of your lives, and my circumstances are different, so Im bowing out of mse ttc thread graciously. Ive seen far too many people come and go now and been genuinely happy for each and everyone of them but like I said I dont fit and im not sure I ever have done. So Im going to leave and concentrate my efforts on my life and trying to get my bfp and probably the adoption process. I sincerely hope you all get what your hearts desire.

GG I love the bones of you and shall continue to stalk you and I dont have the words now
WW and Deb - I am so made up for you both

Genuine sticky baby dust to you all...

Awww phunkles, I’m sorry you’re leaving here. Everyone’s situation is different really and that’s good.
I was convinced this might be our month as well. But CD1 here. Looks like I didn’t need to worry about not being able to drink this weekend

smash7

Morning girls

bigzippy - well done on the weight loss!! :T
phunkles - sorry you're leaving hun I'll see you on the 'other side' of course
BlueMonkey - :jWooohooo!! BFP!!! Congrats!! Hope you have a happy and healthy 8 months!
musttryharder - ((hugs)) sorry the witch got you xx

CD3 here and I think the witch has left although I've got a headache this morning and feel a bit yuck but that should go as soon as the meds kick in!

It's another beautiful day here and I'm looking forward to the weekend, if it stays like this. Anyone having some money on the Grand National?!? (Quite the opposite of Money Saving, I know!)

Smash xx

cleomolly

I'm sorry you feel that way phunkles :grouphug: Whatever decision you make is the right one for you and although I'm sad that you feel you don't 'belong' I wish you all the luck in the world for what you do in life and hope your new approach gets you your BFP. You know where we are :kisses3:

Congratulations to you Bluemonkey, Don't worry the fears you are feeling are all perfectly normal, I think no matter how long you have been TTC when you get that BFP, you feel different emotions and worries and everyone feels these :grouphug:

The truth is you WILL be fine, don't let this amazing time pass you by by worrying too much, enjoy every single moment, it does go far too quickly and you WILL be holding your baby with all the love in the world for this little mite and you'll not know where its come from, but it WILL. Is a new job really all that? Let us know what your oh says ? and congratulations

Huge temp jump for me this morning, fingers crossed it means something, anything I don't mind, just something! lol Happy Friday to all xxx

cleomolly

Patiently waiting for QQ to update her temp for today :shhh:

(not really patient at all..............where are you QQ)

bigzippy

QQuaver wrote: »

:j:j:jCongratulations Bigzippy:j:j:j
for
Losing 3/4 stone!

Thank you!

QQuaver wrote: »

Deborah was the last person to get this losing ? stone post, it may be your turn to be pg Bigzippy!:j

I'll take that!!
I reckon there's a few more of you long-timers ahead of the list first though

phunkles wrote: »

Can also pm me for the secret fb group.

Which coincidentally will be the only place Ill be posting on from now on. Been on here for 17/18 months (both lurking and posting) and just dont feel like I fit anymore, my life doesnt fit with the rest of your lives, and my circumstances are different, so Im bowing out of mse ttc thread graciously. Ive seen far too many people come and go now and been genuinely happy for each and everyone of them but like I said I dont fit and im not sure I ever have done. So Im going to leave and concentrate my efforts on my life and trying to get my bfp and probably the adoption process. I sincerely hope you all get what your hearts desire.

GG I love the bones of you and shall continue to stalk you and I dont have the words now
WW and Deb - I am so made up for you both

Genuine sticky baby dust to you all...

Phunkles, that sucks
I don't want to try and sway you - and I doubt I could tbh, not least cos I've not been on this thread long - but I hpe you'll find the support you want/need either on fb secret group or elsewhere. Good luck with your search for your BFP/baby though.

P.s. Can I ask why you don't feel you fit? :huh:

bigzippy

Blue_Monkey wrote: »

Hi, I've been lurking / MIA for a while as have had lots going on... I logged in the other day and noticed I'd got close to the top of the testing list..........

So I did it. And it's only !!!!!!!g come up positive :eek:

Eeeeeeeee!! Congratulations! I know you're freaking out, but you'll come round, and you'll love it! So, congratulations for when you stop freaking out quite so much!

Blue_Monkey wrote: »

PS. Can ICs be wrong?
PPS. I was planning to do a 14km run in August, can I still?
PPPS. My hair needs dying drastically, can I still (I use Majirel dyes by L'Oreal)

I positive is a positive my lovely.
The run will, afaik, depend on how you feel about it and how your body responds to pregnancy
The hair dying is a personal choice, but general consensus seems to be that it's fine but preggo hair can react somewhat differently so doing a discreet test piece might be a good idea

Blue_Monkey wrote: »

I'd hope my post doesn't come across as flippant or disrespectful or ungrateful for this happening... ...
I'm waffling now, will go before I make it worse - hopefully you'll know what I mean and I'll come back when it's a bit straighter in my head.

I know what you mean. You just sound shocked to me. We want that BFP, but I can guarantee we'll both be complete freaked-out stressheads if/when it happens!

Remember, some people fall preg completely out of the blue, while they're on birth control etc etc and end up being the happiest ever - you'd already decided you did want kids in the first place, so once you've both got over the shock I'm sure you'll love every minute