Trying for a Baby Part Six

phunkles

Epic long post coming up


Cant believe how much Ive missed in just over a week of lovedupness with the oh

Thank you all for the kind words following my weird neighbour post last week… was very much appreciated.


Trinity-enigma – my oh and I aren’t ttc we are simply not preventing *ahem* because in the cold light of dawn the idea of us starting a family right now just isn’t the best idea……
-[FONT=&quot] [/FONT]we aren’t married/ not even engaged
-[FONT=&quot] [/FONT]we currently aren’t living together full time (roughly 25% of the time)
-[FONT=&quot] [/FONT]He works ridiculously long work hours
-[FONT=&quot] [/FONT]I don’t have an exactly stable job and cant find a way to rectify it
But all those things can be rectified and sorted should we conceive…. And like I said we aren’t TTC more a leaving it to fate and destiny

RebekahR - :grouphug:
QQ – I don’t actually know how the Hoover broke but if you plugged it in and turned it on – nothing happened…
Smash – last week there was plenty of bding going on ahem I have come to the conclusion that men in general are rubbish at tidying and cleaning oh looked really impressed with himself for doing small things like washing the dishes. My big bug bear at the moment though is he has a 1st floor flat with no outside and no tumble dryer so it all gets dried on those airer things except he never puts the clothes on nice and neatly and well it annoys me
Thanks for missing me Smash J was enjoying my ohs company a fair bit and not online very much bar checking emails quickly

Ilovecushions – I dreamt about the weird sausage baby last month and then last few nights I keep dreaming about very cute blonde curly haired babies
Can I also join the going to start exercising and eating slightly healthier club please?!

FF – I wont be joining FF because Im bad enough as it is without a chart
Mrsvicx – Ill join you in the not testing or SSing area
Jen151 – I also found engagement ring websites in ohs internet history and we may have had a nose in a couple of shops last week to pick out a metal and a style etc (wont be any time soon but its still lovely and exciting isn’t it )


Re : Maternity leave and stuff – currently the job Im doing I think Id be entitled to nothing but hopefully after jiggling round ohs credit cards and debts it could maybe be viable for me to be a sahm or work 2 days a week… But its doubtful oh would get paternity leave from his job



BB – I don’t drink anymore haven’t for a while now the odd glass of Wine and Lemo gets me very drunk
QQ – Next scheduled oh trip is April

GreenerGrass – AF vibes for you
Congrats Manda/Gilby/anyone I missed




I think from using the opks I oved sometime around Tuesday/Wednesday (had faint lines) and the Thursday had stronger line then? But I didn’t mark it down and couldn’t really check for ewcm so I guess well wait and see.. Not holding out much hope, think im having pre af symptoms truthfully

Last week with the oh we started operation getting rid of all the ugly poop out the flat and making it a nice place J Ikea shop was eventful as was the trip to B&Q and sainsburys hehehe we spent an absolute fortune…
We also ended up wandering down Oxford Street and Regent Street and bobbing in and out of Shops to avoid rain….and looking in a couple of shop windows ahem

Do I go on the test list this month or not hmmmm

Back to work in the morning and have the pre work dread…. No idea what Im going to be walking into and truthfully im not feeling as inspired there as I was a few
months ago but think that’s across the board with everyone there with job cuts etc


Fellpony – Just seen that you’re off to London – The Lion King is AMAZING!!!
There is also a website if you google 2for1 London I cant remember the link exactly but you can get London Eye Tickets BOGOF as long as you have a valid train ticket
(I’m very lucky as OH is London based so quite often get to go for a wander and be a tourist)

QQ GOOD LUCK TODAY!!!!

Did I want to make my epic post any longer… Ill leave it for now although I do have slightly strange stomach ache again but Im sure I got it last month around this time and its just preAF


Sorry for the epicness of this post

QQuaver

tinksy wrote: »

As we dtd on CD8, 10, 11, 12 and will hopefully manage 14 and 15 I really don't think that dtd on cd13 will make a blind bit of difference apart from to kill me off!!!!

Good luck!:j

Greener_Grass wrote: »

QQ good luck for tomorrow have my fingers firmly crossed for you, Hope to see you moving over to the <12 weeks thread shortly and I plan to be following you in around a month:cool:

Good plan!:beer:

Wonder_Womble wrote: »

I really really hope I am pg this month so that we don't have to see the fertility specialist on the 7th. However, I have bad bad pmt, I'm a right grouch. My finger nails are splitting and snapping, although they usually wait until a couple of days before AF. I've got bad chocolate cravings. Also I can't bear anyone touching me or crowding me which is another of my pre AF signs

Remember, pre AF symptoms and pre pg symptoms are extremely similar:o

mrs_dave wrote: »

I'm in the 2ww and it's doing my head in big time :rotfl:How does everyone else cope with the wait, I want to be testing NOW and not have to bear another week

I try to arrange little things so to keep my mind away from testing.
Like cinema, or shopping trips:cool:

BB1984 wrote: »

After about 20 secs, the control line came up. Then nothing else happened, except a faint purple smudge/line around the spot where the plastic flap folds back.

A spot at the flap is not the test line. Wait few more days:o

tinksy wrote: »

im ov'ing around now and I feel like crap, like i'm getting my period - anyone else find this???

I don't usually, but I do with the medication I'm getting:o

calamityclare wrote: »

hi all

Since we stopped ttc i have noticed ewcm two months running.....typical!!

Typical:o

I have my final meeting on friday morning and have been advised that if im not successful i will be dismissed straight away after the meeting. Least i will know soon enough, seems to have dragged on a bit since we were first told of redundancy.

Good luck Friday!

Penny1981 wrote: »

I used my thermometer first time this morning and plotted on FF, i have one blue dot ha ha!
Penny

It'll look better with 2 dots or more:p

Penny1981 wrote: »

QQ i had a negative test this morning, i havent told hubby, and i dont feel as bad about it as i thought i would. Not feeling it this month (although i dont know what its going to feel like...)

How long is your usual cycle? CD25 seems early?
Do you know when you ov'd?

Greener_Grass wrote: »

THe update on the parsley tea if anyone was wondering is its actually not that bad!! I hate tea but with some honey (which i also hate! LOL) and some lemon juice it actually tastes ok! Have now had 2000mg of vit C and 1 cup of parsley tea, next cup is brewing as we speak. Please oh please let my stupid period come soon

AF vibes sent your way:o

Jen151 wrote: »

CD8(30) nothing much to report except OH was well horny tonight so hopefully he won't be so scared about injuring me when he gets pounced! 11/11 baby could still be a possibility!

Horny sounds good:p
11/11/11 baby also sounds good:cool:

phunkles wrote: »

we aren’t TTC more a leaving it to fate and destiny

Best way to ttc I'd say:o

QQ – I don’t actually know how the Hoover broke but if you plugged it in and turned it on – nothing happened…

Fuse?:D

– I dreamt about the weird sausage baby last month and then last few nights I keep dreaming about very cute blonde curly haired babies

I had a dream last night of having a very cute boy, but with 4 legs:shocked:

Can I also join the going to start exercising and eating slightly healthier club please?!

Join away!:j

Jen151 – I also found engagement ring websites in ohs internet history and we may have had a nose in a couple of shops last week to pick out a metal and a style etc (wont be any time soon but its still lovely and exciting isn’t it )

Exciting!:j

QQ – Next scheduled oh trip is April

(((hugs))).

I think from using the opks I oved sometime around Tuesday/Wednesday (had faint lines) and the Thursday had stronger line then? But I didn’t mark it down and couldn’t really check for ewcm so I guess well wait and see.. Not holding out much hope, think im having pre af symptoms truthfully

Fingers crossed:)

Do I go on the test list this month or not hmmmm

Oh go on!

QQ GOOD LUCK TODAY!!!!

Thanks!:j

I think mine is even longer than Phunkles' post:p

tinksy

good luck QQ!!!!!!!! doing a dance for you!!!!

and doing the AF dance for GG

I had a decent nights sleep am wide awake and ready to gooooo! x

Wonder_Womble

Fingers crossed for you today QQ

mrsvicx

Good luck today Qq!! xx

BB1984

All the best for today QQ.

Tested again this morning and BFN.

Have severe crampy twinges low down in my tummy, near my hip on the right hand side...any ideas? Really bad, makes me wince. Don't remember ever having these before.

BB

QQuaver

Done my IUI, let the 2ww begin...

GG, how are you?
Here's an AF dance for you!

BB1984 wrote: »

Have severe crampy twinges low down in my tummy, near my hip on the right hand side...any ideas? Really bad, makes me wince. Don't remember ever having these before.

Could be an ovarian cyst rupturing? I don't know. Appendix?
Take care (((hugs)))

smash7

YAY QQ!!!!
I have read through but can't stop and reply this morning.
I went to bed at 9:15pm and I am still shattered today.... Really, really shattered. Surge in hormones, perhaps?!? :whistle:
Smash xx

QQuaver

smash7 wrote: »

I went to bed at 9:15pm and I am still shattered today.... Really, really shattered. Surge in hormones, perhaps?!? :whistle:
Smash xx

Slept at 9:15pm? Sounds like... ?:D

must_try_harder_2

Fingers crossed for you QQ.

Today I had a high on my CBFM, which I wasn't expecting. Told OH we were definitely BDing as soon as he got home from work, he just tutted and said "how romantic?"

I am doing my temps, OPKs and CBFM and putting it all on Fertility friend. If anyone wants to be nosey or add me I hope this linky works
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/3098b3

BB1984 wrote: »

Have severe crampy twinges low down in my tummy, near my hip on the right hand side...any ideas? Really bad, makes me wince. Don't remember ever having these before.

BB

I have these every month and it doesn't coincide with OV or AF but sometimes happens on the left and sometimes on the right. Maybe I should have mentioned it to the Dr but I just assumed it was normal. Oops.