Trying for a Baby Part Six

x_Charlie_x

lisa26 wrote: »

Hi all, sorry to quote myself but I seem to have got lost among your much more exciting posts! Can't wait to be able to join in properly!!! I'm just really nervous and worried that it'll take ages!

Hi Lisa

I'm sure someone who knows more will be along soon, but as far as i'm aware you HAVE to temp as soon as you wake, so before moving really at all

and

normal lube like KY can kill sperm (or stops is living or something) so I think the only two you can use are conceive plus and pressed. Not really sure if there is any difference between them!

I learnt all this from these wise ladies

EDIT- Must have been typing while QQ was. She much cleverer (yes,i made it up!) than me!

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x_Charlie_x

QQuaver wrote: »

Relax...:o You need to be relaxed to conceive:p

I really stress about everything, even things I know aren't important?!?!

Anyone have any ideas they do to keep relaxed and worrying about things?

I've heard writing things down to get them off your mind is a good one, I should probably try this

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Fellpony_2

Charlie, try writing a blog, you can start them dead easy (and free) you don't need to have it on paper for some one to find (some of my worries would worry anyone who read them!!) just type it out, doesn't need to make much sense and once its out it feels soooo much better.

x_Charlie_x

Fellpony wrote: »

Charlie, try writing a blog, you can start them dead easy (and free) you don't need to have it on paper for some one to find (some of my worries would worry anyone who read them!!) just type it out, doesn't need to make much sense and once its out it feels soooo much better.

That's a great idea. Yeah, i think one of my worries would be someone finding it and reading it :rotfl:

I think i'll start and do it before I go to bed at night so I don't have to lay there thinking of things.

Work is really stressing me out at the min. I was debating whether or not to bring it up with them, but writing it all down in a blog might help me chill and is less likely to get me sacked if I go to far,hehe

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tinksy

ugh I am shattered!!! there is no baby making happening in this house tonight, everything hurts my legs my hips the lot!!! i just want a hot bath and my pjs!

QQuaver

x_Charlie_x wrote: »

I really stress about everything, even things I know aren't important?!?!

Anyone have any ideas they do to keep relaxed and worrying about things?

I've heard writing things down to get them off your mind is a good one, I should probably try this

Me too, I find reading other people's problem on forums helps to keep my mind off reality:p

I'm more of an ostrich with my head in the sand person.
I can switch off and forget about it which amazes my family and DH:cool: (It doesn't make the problem disappear though, so must get a move on...).

tinksy wrote: »

ugh I am shattered!!! there is no baby making happening in this house tonight, everything hurts my legs my hips the lot!!! i just want a hot bath and my pjs!

Take a break:D I think you are oving today:cool:

chucknorris69

Advice please…

Unfortunately my tests from Amazon arrived this morning, two first response and two clear blue digital. I am d25 of 30-32 cycle. I need to make a decision regarding work by Friday and depending on the result of the test will affect my decision so when and with what test do you think I should test? Cheers in advance.

pebblespop

what do you think to this:

i am on cd39, i have had loads of ewcm today. i also had ewcm on cd23 as well.

i have been having unprotected bd since cd 26 as i was avoiding getting pg this month so i thought as af was due it should be ok.

what could be going on?? this is my second cycle since mc.

was thinking i might have caught a late ov by bd'ing on cd26 but this new ewcm has puzzled me.

QQuaver

chucknorris69 wrote: »

Advice please…

Unfortunately my tests from Amazon arrived this morning, two first response and two clear blue digital. I am d25 of 30-32 cycle. I need to make a decision regarding work by Friday and depending on the result of the test will affect my decision so when and with what test do you think I should test? Cheers in advance.

Ideally you should test with first response on CD32.
But since you are in a hurry, first resposne with FMU on Friday will have to do:o If there was a faintest of lines, then you could try a digi, but digi is less sensitive, so may not give you + just yet at CD27.

Good luck:)

chucknorris69

Good luck tomorrow QQ.

Mimi Arc en ciel – I admire your restraint I would be testing!

Kellyg – I hope things are getting back to normal and fingers crossed for this month.

X-Charlie-X – I know the feeling, it’s very hard to switch off isn’t it. I would suggest chilling by listening to some good music and as QQ says its good to read the forum as there are so many of us in the same boat.

Tinksy - hot bath and pj’s sounds great, don’t forget the bubble bath and candles!

Lisa26 – Good luck and most important (in my opinion) – relax as stressing about it doesn’t help.