Trying for a Baby Part Six

deborahmcgeachy

QQuaver wrote: »

Do I look purple to you?

:rotfl:

Hang in there:o

Fantastic QQ, you look just how I imagined! Haha!!!

Welcome newbies and hugs to all AF got or feels like she will get!!

Catw0man

Just popped in to add some massive ((((hugs)))) to Pawpurs - terrible news, really feel for you, take car of yourself xxx

pawpurrs

Thanks ladies for all your heartwarming messages, youve made me cry again, but in a good way, relaxing with a drink at the moment, wierdly even though my hormones were three times higher than a normal pregnancy, I was more chilled than I have ever been, those hormones were great, if you take away the sickness, and the constipation, and the sore boobs and all that jazz! Have been waiting for the midwife at the hospital to ring, and tell me about the tests to check whether we are carriers of the chromosone disorder, which I hope not, as I would like to try again, I think. Funilly enough although it took me 17 years to persuade dh to have a bambino, now we have lost lickle willow, he really wants one now, you start to get so excited and start to plan so many things, and then its taken away. A mc would have been easier than the decision I had to make, and the morning before I was screaming, that I couldnt do it, but it was the right decision, the prognosis was so bad, and seeing my sister losing her child all be it to cancer is just devastating. I am on holiday at the moment but wondering whether to go back next week or not, I dont get sick pay and need the money, the car had just cost a grand this week! eeek!
Am scared to try again, but I also know I want to be a mummy.

pawpurrs

moneysavingfamilycomp wrote: »

hi was wondering if you could add me to the list
moneysavingfamilycomp (36) TTC#2 since may 2010 (DS 17)(mc 9/11/10 5.5wks)
i just wanted to say to pawpurs i was really sorry to hear your news you and OH must feel dreadfull take each day as it comes and give yourself time to recover. and make sure you have a thick skin as some people can unintentionally say stupid things (hopefully i havent). i remember tlking to you last year when we were both selling our houses so hopefully when you are ready we can both be successful on this thread too. take care of yourself sending lots of hugs your way.

How lovely to see you again, hows the new house?

Wonder_Womble

Greener_Grass wrote: »

Well CD30 for me, FF has put me at 3dpo :shocked: although my temps are only a tiny bit higher so i guess only time will tell, It's given me a conception score of high so heres hoping, In the end we only managed 6 times in 4 days I think thats us for the rest of the month :rotfl:OH is exhausted :rotfl:

You're not my cycle buddy anymore

Well MOT didn't go well yesterday, was going to cost £300 to fix it :shocked: when it only cost us £700, so we made a decision just to buy a new car :j Spent the afternoon scouring the internet, I had my heart set on a renault scenic for all that space and after seeing a couple we got one, I'm so pleased with it, its enormous, Plenty of room for 2 more kids :jWe got a good bargain with it too and even part exchanged our old banger, So excited to play with it today :rotfl:on another note a "friend" has posted on facebook that she finds it reallly funny when people copy her every move as she has the same car! Made me quite mad but not rising to the bait, must remember next time when buying a car to check which makes and models of cars all my friends have and never buy the same one some people!! :mad:
Really, some people are so far up themselves :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:
That has so totally tickled me!

calamityclare wrote: »

Wonderwomble & Portsmouthali - ok so im not old lol thank you

pinkpig08 wrote: »

On another note - just been to Tesco and they've got a promotion on home baking, buy 2 get 3rd free. BUT - last week their bread flour was 60p a bag - now it's shot up to £1.29!!! How disgusting is that??!! I'll be buying mine from Sainsburys/Lidl until the promotions finished

Hey pinkpig, have you got a bread maker, and if so what kind?

moneysavingfamilycomp wrote: »

hi was wondering if you could add me to the list
moneysavingfamilycomp (36) TTC#2 since may 2010 (DS 17)(mc 9/11/10 5.5wks)

Sorry for your mc MCFC (((Hugs))) to you and OH

Clarieloo wrote: »

Agghh terrible morning. Some object just flew into my windscreen as I was driving and it now has a huge crack in it. The windscreen people can't come till Tuesday!!!!!!!!!!!! But they said it will be OK to drive till then.
I don't think a windscreen is safe with a huge crack in it. You may get stopped by the police if they spot it!

I'm still none the wiser whether my spotting yesterday and Weds eve was just a light AF or not (I think it was in my heart of hearts as its been super light the last 2 months). However, the only way I think I'm going to know for sure is to test so I may as well be left on the testing list for Sunday but not expecting good news. However, I am feeling much better than I was yesterday (despite the windscreen) and am prepared for the worst.
Fingers crossed for Sunday!

Can't promise I'll be sp upbeat with the pg SIL coming round tomorrow but I know I need to just paint a smile on and I can cry all I like when she's gone home.
Brave face and all that, you know where we are

phunkles wrote: »

his response .... was to smile like a loon (he still is for that matter) but then said it didnt count 'cause Id told him his earlier effort in the week didnt count....

soooo no further with that one :P it will happen one day weve talked about it loads and stuff

Aaaaaaaw! He's definately got a proposal plan ......:j:j:j

phunkles wrote: »

PinkPig – Its not over til the witch appears? :grouphug: anyway
Portsmouthali – Im sorry :grouphug:
Doglover – Its not over til the witch appears? :grouphug: anyway
Maire1 - :grouphug: pma is always good

phunkles wrote: »

QQ :grouphug: just cause I can

Phunkles me finks you're enjoying those dodgy smilies just a tad too much :rotfl:

pawpurrs wrote: »

Thanks ladies for all your heartwarming messages, youve made me cry again, but in a good way, relaxing with a drink at the moment, wierdly even though my hormones were three times higher than a normal pregnancy, I was more chilled than I have ever been, those hormones were great, if you take away the sickness, and the constipation, and the sore boobs and all that jazz! Have been waiting for the midwife at the hospital to ring, and tell me about the tests to check whether we are carriers of the chromosone disorder, which I hope not, as I would like to try again, I think. Funilly enough although it took me 17 years to persuade dh to have a bambino, now we have lost lickle willow, he really wants one now, you start to get so excited and start to plan so many things, and then its taken away. A mc would have been easier than the decision I had to make, and the morning before I was screaming, that I couldnt do it, but it was the right decision, the prognosis was so bad, and seeing my sister losing her child all be it to cancer is just devastating. I am on holiday at the moment but wondering whether to go back next week or not, I dont get sick pay and need the money, the car had just cost a grand this week! eeek!
Am scared to try again, but I also know I want to be a mummy.

I really feel for you Pawpurrs, it took me ages to get to sleep last night thinking about what you and OH must have been through recently, and you were the first thing on my mind this morning. Be good to yourself and your OH. Any news yet from the midwife about whether you and OH are carriers?


Well ............ CD1 for me.

Lemon_Tree

sending you hugs Paws, hope the blood tests come back clear

pawpurrs

not had the tests yet, waiting to hear on that, she was supposed to ring today but didnt, grrrr x

pinkpig08

(((hugs))) to you pawpurrs, I cannot imagine what you and your DH have been through. Keep strong.

WW I have the breadmaker in Argos I think it's about £37, it's black and silver.

Well the witch has finally got me We bd'd at the right times too. Well it looks like I'm back to my 28 day cycle anyway. The witch got me about 15 mins ago - do I press 'm' on the monitor tomorrow morning?

Oh, and ((hugs)) WW, just saw the bottom of your post

Lauralou

*Just popping in*

pawpurrs just wanted to send you BIG HUGS. Please take care off yourself. Im sure you can tell that you will have a lot of support from everyone here. They never ring when they say they will. Hope she will ring you on Monday.

*pops back out*

SusanC_2

pawpurrs wrote: »

Am scared to try again, but I also know I want to be a mummy.

:grouphug: I haven't been through anything near as bad as what you have and at times I've felt like giving up TTC just to avoid the potential emotional trauma of another loss. I can't imagine what it must be like and I hope you are feeling better soon.