Trying for a Baby Part Six

Greener_Grass

Morning everyone,

Hugs QQ, i'm so sorry AF came, was really hoping this was your month

Huge hugs to WW :grouphug: Your post reallly struck a cord in my heart, I feel like you do and we have only been trying for 5 cycles now so it makes me realise i'm being rediculous. I don't really have any wise words but just wanted to let you know the way you feel is perfectly normal, last month i felt like i'd die if i didn't get pregnant so have no idea how you've coped all this time, TTC is a huge stress. I really hope you OH does his sample so you can move forward on getting some answers, My pm box is always open anytime you'd like to rant xxx

Well CD17 for me and still lows on CBFM but I have a weird question, this morning it started flashing m!! :wall: why on earth would it do this? I don't usually ov till around cd28 and my cycle lasts anything up to 43 days so whyyyyy does it think my period is just around the corner? its really confused me with this one

Has anyone ever had a psychic fertilty reading? I had 3 different ones last month :whistle:as i was soo obsessed about TTC and couldn't resist and they all gave varied answers, One said i was going to get pg this month so i'm really hoping. I don't actually believe in pyschic powers and all that but they said a few other things about me which were scarily accurate

QQuaver

mrsvicx wrote: »

Morning all, welcome spongebabs... I'm slowly losing the will to live!!! CD41 today. Left b o o b is starting to feel a little tender, but nothing near normal and nothing in the right...I just want to know whats happening now..

(((Hugs))).
Are you BDing just in case you are oving now? My b o o bs gets tender when I ov...

Wonder_Womble wrote: »

I know we've only been ttc for 6 cycles this time, but this is my 3rd round of ttc over the past 14 years, and it just doesn't seem to get any easier. I tried for 4 and half years with ex, before we split up. Then about 4 and half years ago OH and I decided to ttc, it didn't work so we left it to nature to take it's course. Despite using no contraception for the past 4 and half years it has never happened, and now we've been actively ttc again for the past 6 months and still nothing.

Sorry if I'm bringing anyone down Does anyone else feel like this?

Sorry you missed your ov window:o
I feel like that every time when AF arrives.

A friend who ttc'd for 16 years (without fertility treatments) and no luck is pushing me to go for IVF:p What I don't understand is why she doesn't go for IVF? She hates the smear test, so that may be it:o

TMI alert: AF was light yesterday, but today at CD2, I'm drowning in it:shocked: Have cramps too. I think it must be the fertility drugs I've taken that's doing it. Also my LP was only 12 days which is very rare for me. Usually it's 14 days (+/- 1 day).

QQuaver

Greener_Grass wrote: »

Hugs QQ, i'm so sorry AF came, was really hoping this was your month

Thanks.

Well CD17 for me and still lows on CBFM but I have a weird question, this morning it started flashing m!! :wall: why on earth would it do this?

M at CD17? Wow that's early:shocked:
What CBFM should do, if they are going to update the software, is to flash Test symbol at around 14dpo. It must be easy to implement, it knows when we peaked, add 14 days:cool:

Has anyone ever had a psychic fertilty reading? I had 3 different ones last month :whistle:as i was soo obsessed about TTC and couldn't resist and they all gave varied answers, One said i was going to get pg this month so i'm really hoping. I don't actually believe in pyschic powers and all that but they said a few other things about me which were scarily accurate

Hope they are right:cool:

Doglover

I totally agree with you too WW. I never thought it'd be so hard to get preg!

QQ perhaps your friend regrets not having done ivf before and doesn't want you regretting it too? Sorry that AF is being so awful.

GG I don't know about cbfm so I can't help I'm afraid.

I can't believe I've gotta dtd for another two days! That'll end up being every day for a week! I better get my bfp soon! I must say I'm relieved to have got positive opks at last. One before sleeps and another this morn both give positive too

x

Greener_Grass

Do you think its still capable of showing me any peaks etc then? Why does it flash m? Does it recognise something in your wee that makes it think AF is coming?:huh: i'm so confused

QQ you take Vit B 50 right? is your wee bright yellow? lol, i have been taking B100 for almost a week now i think and its flourescent!!!:rotfl:

QQuaver

Doglover wrote: »

QQ perhaps your friend regrets not having done ivf before and doesn't want you regretting it too?

Maybe...

I can't believe I've gotta dtd for another two days! That'll end up being every day for a week! I better get my bfp soon!

Good luck!:j

Greener_Grass wrote: »

Do you think its still capable of showing me any peaks etc then? Why does it flash m? Does it recognise something in your wee that makes it think AF is coming?:huh: i'm so confused

No, it doesn't see anything in your wee, it just starts flashing based on your previous cycles I think. Totally useless
Anyone who ttc knows that what they dread most is getting AF. To start flashing at the end of every cycle is just stupid.

QQ you take Vit B 50 right? is your wee bright yellow? lol, i have been taking B100 for almost a week now i think and its flourescent!!!:rotfl:

Yes:rotfl:

I used to take Pregnacare in the morning, and B50 in the night, but I'm now taking them all in the morning, because taking B50 in the night made the FMU too yellow for me to see the opk lines clearly:D

Greener_Grass

hmm i've been taking it at night and my fmu is so bright! Think i will change to the morning too.

Do you think i should keep using cbfm this month then or just give up and use opks?

Doglover

Right ladies, I'm off to spend the day with DH so will prob not get in till later. I hope you all have a good day.

X

Lemon_Tree

WW have you seen the doctor? i'd think given the fact that you've tried before that you shouldn't have to wait the 12 months they normally say to wait. sorry if that's being too nosey.

Wonder_Womble

Greener_Grass wrote: »

Huge hugs to WW :grouphug: Your post reallly struck a cord in my heart, I feel like you do and we have only been trying for 5 cycles now so it makes me realise i'm being rediculous. I don't really have any wise words but just wanted to let you know the way you feel is perfectly normal, last month i felt like i'd die if i didn't get pregnant so have no idea how you've coped all this time, TTC is a huge stress. I really hope you OH does his sample so you can move forward on getting some answers, My pm box is always open anytime you'd like to rant xxx

Well CD17 for me and still lows on CBFM but I have a weird question, this morning it started flashing m!! :wall: why on earth would it do this? I don't usually ov till around cd28 and my cycle lasts anything up to 43 days so whyyyyy does it think my period is just around the corner? its really confused me with this one

Has anyone ever had a psychic fertilty reading? I had 3 different ones last month :whistle:as i was soo obsessed about TTC and couldn't resist and they all gave varied answers, One said i was going to get pg this month so i'm really hoping. I don't actually believe in pyschic powers and all that but they said a few other things about me which were scarily accurate

Hey cycle buddy!! That sounds really odd with your CBFM, I bet you're going insane trying to figure it out. I don't know anything about them, but could it be going into melt down because it needs new batteries maybe?

QQuaver wrote: »

Sorry you missed your ov window:o
I feel like that every time when AF arrives.

A friend who ttc'd for 16 years (without fertility treatments) and no luck is pushing me to go for IVF:p What I don't understand is why she doesn't go for IVF? She hates the smear test, so that may be it:o

TMI alert: AF was light yesterday, but today at CD2, I'm drowning in it:shocked: Have cramps too. I think it must be the fertility drugs I've taken that's doing it. Also my LP was only 12 days which is very rare for me. Usually it's 14 days (+/- 1 day).

I'm glad I'm not the only one who feels like this. I agree with DL that maybe your friend doesn't want you to make the same mistake she made. I think IVF is an incredibly big step to take and that it can be quite gruelling and tough on your relationship. You need to be sure in your own head, and it's easy for others to say what they think you should do.

Sorry to hear your AF is bad. Did you find that AF got bad when you started taking Clomid. I took it about 8 or 9 years ag and my periods have been really heavy since then

Doglover wrote: »

I totally agree with you too WW. I never thought it'd be so hard to get preg!

QQ perhaps your friend regrets not having done ivf before and doesn't want you regretting it too? Sorry that AF is being so awful.

GG I don't know about cbfm so I can't help I'm afraid.

I can't believe I've gotta dtd for another two days! That'll end up being every day for a week! I better get my bfp soon! I must say I'm relieved to have got positive opks at last. One before sleeps and another this morn both give positive too

x

Good luck with the BD'ing DL :rotfl:

I can't multi quote more than 3 at a time and have to go and help OH do car mechanics now, be back soon to reply to everyone else!