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Trying for a Baby Part Six

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  • Icey77
    Icey77 Posts: 1,247 Forumite
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    Ohhh Emsbet, I'm so sorry about your news :(
    There I was hoping that we'd get married within a week of each other and get a BFP within a month of each other too. Sadly not to be this time.

    I do hope you and Mr Emsbet are looking after youselves and that you'll be lucky next time!

    Hugs
    Icey xx
    Whether you think you can or you can’t, you’re probably right ~ Henry Ford
  • Sammie_03
    Sammie_03 Posts: 2,026 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    Thank you.

    If you don't mind me asking was the clot brown or red? It could be old blood or it could be the start of a chemical pregnancy maybe or something else entirely? I think the best way to find out would be to test but if you don't want to pay anymore money for a test you could always get it done for free at the doctors or your local family planning clinic.

    ETA: A lot of ladies who have got their BFPs didn't "feel" pregnant :o

    xx


    Thanks for your reply xx
    The clot was dark red I think.
    I have had a chemical before but didn't know until it came out in the bath (sorry tmi) i suppose im more scared of doing a test in case it's
    negative.

    I just hate the waiting game!!! Xx
    :)DS1 10yrs :)DS2 7yrs :)DS3 born March 2012
    "Mothers of little boys work from son up until son down"
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  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Icey77 wrote: »
    Ohhh Emsbet, I'm so sorry about your news :(
    There I was hoping that we'd get married within a week of each other and get a BFP within a month of each other too. Sadly not to be this time.

    I do hope you and Mr Emsbet are looking after youselves and that you'll be lucky next time!

    Hugs
    Icey xx

    Thanks Icey. How's things going with your TTC? I see your having fun trying to remember temping :p

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    Sammie_03 wrote: »
    Thanks for your reply xx
    The clot was dark red I think.
    I have had a chemical before but didn't know until it came out in the bath (sorry tmi) i suppose im more scared of doing a test in case it's
    negative.

    I just hate the waiting game!!! Xx

    I know what you mean I'm always shaking when I'm waiting for those three minutes!
    Maybe give it a few more days, see how you go and if you get anymore spotting/clots then think about testing. Sorry I can't be of much help.

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • lisa26_2
    lisa26_2 Posts: 2,100 Forumite
    Emsbet, just wanted to add my hugs to the other xxx
  • emsbet
    emsbet Posts: 5,237 Forumite
    lisa26 wrote: »
    Emsbet, just wanted to add my hugs to the other xxx

    Thanks Lisa.

    I'm feeling a bit better this afternoon -except for my b00bs still driving me crazy - if anything they feel worse! :cool: Does anyone know how long they should take to get back to normal? I thought they would go before the bleeding but typically my body has decided to be different! :cool:

    xx
    :A 09.06.11:A 07.10.11:A
    Gorgeous baby boy born 16.09.12 :happylove

    :kisses2:The world moves for love. It kneels before it in awe :kisses2:

    Patience is a virtue I lack! :p
  • bigzippy
    bigzippy Posts: 4,034 Forumite
    emsbet wrote: »
    QQ - Can you please remove me from the graduate list. My spotting turned into red blood and clots late yesterday. It's pretty much in full flow today :(

    I just want it to be over now so we can start to try again.
    So sorry to hear this emsbet :( Will the doc want to do a scan to confirm or anything or is it taken as read, sort of thing? I'm not a very huggy soul, but here...have some of this instead...:EasterBun :o
    I think it was bigzippy who was talking about a gallbladder op? I had mine removed 2 years ago. I didn't even know I had gallstones until I started with Biliary Colic (sp?) - It was the most terrible pain ever and then I became all lovely and jaundiced :) Have they given you any advice about dietary changes to help the pains?
    Yes it was me :) Have they heck! This is the NHS we're talking about:rotfl: I have been avoiding really processed and fatty foods, but I'm just nauseous all the time really so I just end up eating what I'm actually fancying, or just some ginger biscuits to take my meds with :o How long were you on the waiting list for, if you don't mind me asking?

    Speaking of my gallbladder, I've managed to get the scan and surgeon appts brought forward a week each, so I should know where I stand by the end of this month - for that at least. :)
    I'm thinking of getting an OPK from babyzoom - has anybody else tried these?
    Not sure what babyzoom is, or which OPKs you're on about I'm afraid...?
    emsbet wrote: »
    Thanks Lisa.

    I'm feeling a bit better this afternoon -except for my b00bs still driving me crazy - if anything they feel worse! :cool: Does anyone know how long they should take to get back to normal? I thought they would go before the bleeding but typically my body has decided to be different! :cool:

    xx
    Can't really help you there either, but I think it's related to how long/much of the elevated hormone levels were in your system? Could be making that up though I spose :o

    Praline good to see you.
    euro I've been wondering the same about smash and others, but a) forget who I'm wondering about specifically (I remember the look sigs more than names, like colours or giz's(?) :dance:) and b) don't want to stir up another "you remembered them but not me" type situation :o.
    Can we take it as read that if you've gone missing, that you've been missed and wondered about and we'd like you to reappear...?:)


    Had a look at last cycle's chart with a friend last night and wondered whether my body tried to ov around CD30ish but couldn't (cos of illness/antibiotics?) so did so around CD40ish instead...I think I get a spotty outbreak around ov too, which sort of ties in (I've just had breakout and EWCM at the same time, but I'd actually be surprised if I've ov'd this "early" in my cycle, but I can hope!)...but that would still leave something like a 17day LP... Anyone know what's the normal range supposed to be? :huh:
    "I am indelibly stained by hope and longing" - Nuts in May
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Testing list

    Wed 11th May - svjenni
    Tue 7th June - Bezzyk
    Mon 20th June - 2ab3c
    Thu 30th June - Tinkwings
    Mon 12th Never - Lemon Tree


    June graduates - Winner of May BFP predictions (11) :TEuronorris :T

    twigpig (30) TTC#1 since03/10, CBFM from 08/10 BFP 02/06/11:j
    MrsExcited (28) TTC#1 since 01/11 (1 mc 05/11) BFP 03/06/11:j
    keza (25) TTC#1 03/11 BFP 06/06/11:j
    northern78 TTC#1 since 01/10 BFP 07/06/11:j


    June
    BFP predictions

    Gopppers - 6
    Tinkwings - 7 (hopefully incl self)
    QQuaver - 8
    x_charlie_x - 8
    Bigzippy - 8
    Sexymouse - 9 (hopefully incl self)
    countrybum - 9 (incl self)
    GemmaE - 9
    Bezzyk - 10
    Maire - 10
    TwigPig - 10 (incl self:T)
    Mishkanorman - 11
    Kaemi - 12
    Euronorris - 15
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    edited 9 June 2011 at 5:36PM
    Team Sticky!

    CD? Sammie 03 - 15DPO:cool:
    CD24 mrs_dave - 12DPO:cool:
    CD27 Bezzyk - 12DPO:cool:
    CD? redfrog - 10DPO:cool:
    CD23 2ba3c - 4DPO:cool:
    CD67 littleme - 2DPO:cool:
    CD37 kellyg - 2DPO:cool:
    CD43 Fellpony - Awaiting ov:o
    CD43 vesper - Awaiting ov:o
    CD40 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov:o
    CD29 Jen151* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD27 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD27 fannyanna - Awaiting ov:o
    CD22 emmylou - Awaiting ov:o
    CD21 PurplePink - Awaiting ov:o
    CD20 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov:o
    CD19 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov:o
    CD18 sexymouse - Awaiting ov:o
    CD16 BB1984 - Awaiting ov:o
    CD15 i_love_holidays - Awaiting ov:o
    CD15 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD14 Kaemi - Awaiting ov:o
    CD14 Maire - Awaiting ov:o
    CD14 newyearnewstart - Awaiting ov:o
    CD13 NoraBatty - Awaiting ov:o
    CD12 countrybum - Awaiting ov:o
    CD11 praline - Awaiting ov:o
    CD11 Darkphaery - Awaiting ov:o
    CD10 Icey77* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD10 GemmaE - Awaiting ov:o
    CD9 lisa26* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD8 Tinkwings* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD8 RebekahR - Awaiting ov:o
    CD8 Cleomolly - Awaiting ov:o
    CD8 Northern Girlie - Awaiting ov:o
    CD7 Smash7 - Awaiting ov:o
    CD7 Euronorris - Awaiting ov:o
    CD7 Must try harder* - Awaiting ov:o
    CD6 x_charlie_x - Awaiting ov:o
    CD3 Gopppers* - Awating ov:o
    CD2 lazarou_true - Awaiting ov:o


    CD? ilovecushions* - ?
    CD? svjenni - ?
    CD? Katenut - ?
    CD? Derby - ?
    CD? Loopylaura - ?

    Those with * uses Preseed/Conceive Plus on occasions:)
  • QQuaver
    QQuaver Posts: 8,444 Forumite
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    Hello everyone:wave:
    bigzippy wrote: »
    QQ...I really hope you (and others) laugh at this...

    I saw this and I thought of us lot on here, and then remembered your DH is away...
    :rotfl::o
    ETA: this one is funny too! :rotfl: ...but maybe just to me... :o
    Amazing to think every one of us was the fastest sperm at one time:p
    emsbet wrote: »
    My spotting turned into red blood and clots late yesterday. It's pretty much in full flow today :(
    I'm so sorry emsbet (((hugs))). Take care:(
    praline wrote: »
    1. It's hard to write in abstract when you have to REALLY consider what people will think/their feelings etc. And I don't like being overly censored. I haven't time to be reading and re-reading my post before I do so.
    I know:o
    p.s - I'm CD11 I think. Mr Praline is now taking full responsibility for our master plan... Or at least tracking my dates anyway.
    Hope you'll stick around, I missed you:o
    I sometimes think it would be nice if we could have such an open posting style here - where anyone could post without fear of upset !
    I agree:o
    In other news, I took QQ's advice yesterday and tested. It was a bfn. Again. :mad:
    It's not over 'till the witch shows:o
    I'm thinking of getting an OPK from babyzoom - has anybody else tried these?
    No, but let us know how it was if you buy it:money:
    Sammie_03 wrote: »
    Basically I'm 15dpo and last Friday (9dpo) I had light pink blood on tissue when I wiped and only one time, yesterday I had it again which Is why I thought I was starting my period but this time it had a tiny clot the size of half my little finger nail in it. So far today nothing. I don't think it's implantation bleeding as I know you don't get clots with that but I'm so confused and don't want my periods to become irregular again. I don't know why I had it 9dpo and again at 14dpo? :o
    I'm hoping it's a bean, but I know about wasting money by being POAS addict:p Why not get a cheap IC hpts?
    You'll probably end up using them after you are pg as well, to see the lines darkening anyway:cool:
    emsbet wrote: »
    I'm feeling a bit better this afternoon -except for my b00bs still driving me crazy - if anything they feel worse! :cool: Does anyone know how long they should take to get back to normal? I thought they would go before the bleeding but typically my body has decided to be different! :cool:
    You could try a hpt to see if you still have the hcg hormones remaining? Mine didn't disappear until after 2 AFs, but I was further along. (((Hugs))) Mr & Mrs Emsbet:(
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