Trying for a Baby Part Six

lazarou_true

Just a quick update (I was a newbie to this a few pages back).

I've been spotting now for about a week, thought it might be AF early / implantation, now still as mixed up as ever....

Went to see Take That last night (not really my cup of tea but they were amazing) and was convinced that I'd be taking the Witch along for the ride. That didn't happen but was so bloated I looked Pg, so annoyed with my stupid body.

AF still not here properly, but not thinking anything good is happening and definately not testing at any point soon.

Thank you for all the welcomes.

Congratulations to all the BFP's.

2ba3c

fannyanna wrote: »

I know this is a bit of an odd question and a bit out of the blue but....

Is anyone else trying to have their first baby with a husband/partner who already has a child or children from a previous relationship?

Yup............me!! We have a 3 year old at home with us!

fannyanna

i_love_holidays wrote: »

Me - my OH has a child from a previous relationship altho she is now in her teens

I know it's silly and irrational and to be honest I don't even really know how to put my thoughts into words but.....

Sometimes I feel a bit upset at the thought of Hubby and I having trouble having kids when he has two from two previous relationships and neither of them were planned. We've done everything the right way (getting married which I know isn't for everyone and I'm not for one minute suggesting you need to be married to have children) and I know I'm getting ahead of myself but I sometimes feel a bit eugh thinking we might not be successful.

Sorry that was a complete waffle.

Gopppers

lazarou_true wrote: »

Just a quick update (I was a newbie to this a few pages back).

I've been spotting now for about a week, thought it might be AF early / implantation, now still as mixed up as ever....

Went to see Take That last night (not really my cup of tea but they were amazing) and was convinced that I'd be taking the Witch along for the ride. That didn't happen but was so bloated I looked Pg, so annoyed with my stupid body.

AF still not here properly, but not thinking anything good is happening and definately not testing at any point soon.

Thank you for all the welcomes.

Congratulations to all the BFP's.

OOOOOOOOhh lazarou_true!! I went to see them yesterday as well... might have been stood/sat right next to you!! :cool:

mozzyc

QQuaver wrote: »

Good morning:wave:
Kind of depressed after seeing ewcm yesterday (no DH until mid July)

Hugs QQ!! Hope you feeling better

i_love_holidays_2

fannyanna wrote: »

I know it's silly and irrational and to be honest I don't even really know how to put my thoughts into words but.....

Sometimes I feel a bit upset at the thought of Hubby and I having trouble having kids when he has two from two previous relationships and neither of them were planned. We've done everything the right way (getting married which I know isn't for everyone and I'm not for one minute suggesting you need to be married to have children) and I know I'm getting ahead of myself but I sometimes feel a bit eugh thinking we might not be successful.

Sorry that was a complete waffle.

i understand you completely - me and OH have been together 12 years his child wasnt planned either and it has been difficult over the years - OH was stopped for 5 years seeing his daughter and that has mentally scarred him and thats why we have waited so long for our own.....we're not married but i dont think that makes a difference to us now maybe we will one day but thats a different thread. i keep blaming myself

i do find it difficult being the 'step' parent when i havent got my own children

QQuaver

Testing list

Wed 11th May - svjenni
Tue 7th June - Bezzyk
Thu 30th June - Tinkwings
Mon 12th Never - Lemon Tree


June graduates - Winner of May BFP predictions (11) :TEuronorris :T

twigpig (30) TTC#1 since03/10, CBFM from 08/10 BFP 02/06/11:j
MrsExcited (28) TTC#1 since 01/11 (1 mc 05/11) BFP 03/06/11:j
emsbet (30) TTC#1 since 04/11 BFP 04/06/11:j
keza (25) TTC#1 03/11 BFP 06/06/11:j


June BFP predictions
Gopppers - 6
Tinkwings - 7 (hopefully incl self)
QQuaver - 8
x_charlie_x - 8
Bigzippy - 8
Sexymouse - 9 (hopefully incl self)
countrybum - 9 (incl self)
GemmaE - 9
Bezzyk - 10
Maire - 10
TwigPig - 10 (incl self:T)
Mishkanorman - 11
Kaemi - 12

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD64 littleme - ?DPO:cool:
CD58 Katenut - ?DPO:cool:
CD41 Loopylaura - ?DPO:cool:
CD34 Derby - 20/21DPO:cool:
CD33 Euronorris - 19DPO:cool:
CD29 Gopppers* - 15DPO:cool:
CD53 keza - 10DPO:cool:
CD21 mrs_dave - 9DPO:cool:
CD24 Bezzyk - 9DPO:cool:
CD? redfrog - 7DPO:cool:
CD20 2ba3c - 0DPO:cool:
CD40 Fellpony - Awaiting ov:o
CD40 vesper - Awaiting ov:o
CD37 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov:o
CD36 praline - Awaiting ov:o
CD34 kellyg - Awaiting ov:o
CD30 Must try harder* - Awaiting ov:o
CD26 Jen151* - Awaiting ov:o
CD24 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov:o
CD24 fannyanna - Awaiting ov:o
CD19 emmylou - Awaiting ov:o
CD18 PurplePink - Awaiting ov:o
CD17 mishkanorman - Awaiting ov:o
CD16 Bigzippy - Awaiting ov:o
CD15 sexymouse - Awaiting ov:o
CD13 BB1984 - Awaiting ov:o
CD12 i_love_holidays - Awaiting ov:o
CD12 Gizmogiz* - Awaiting ov:o
CD11 Kaemi - Awaiting ov:o
CD11 Maire - Awaiting ov:o
CD11 newyearnewstart - Awaiting ov:o
CD9 countrybum - Awaiting ov:o
CD8 Darkphaery - Awaiting ov:o
CD7 Icey77* - Awaiting ov:o
CD7 GG* - Awaiting ov:o
CD7 GemmaE - Awaiting ov:o
CD6 lisa26* - Awaiting ov:o
CD5 Tinkwings* - Awaiting ov:o
CD5 RebekahR - Awaiting ov:o
CD5 Cleomolly - Awaiting ov:o
CD5 Northern Girlie - Awaiting ov:o
CD4 Smash7 - Awaiting ov:o
CD3 x_charlie_x - Awaiting ov:o


CD? ilovecushions* - ?
CD? svjenni - ?

Those with * uses Preseed/Conceive Plus on occasions:)

QQuaver

:j:j:jCongratulations Keza!:j:j:j
BFP BFP BFP BFP BFP!

fannyanna

i_love_holidays wrote: »

i understand you completely - me and OH have been together 12 years his child wasnt planned either and it has been difficult over the years - OH was stopped for 5 years seeing his daughter and that has mentally scarred him and thats why we have waited so long for our own.....we're not married but i dont think that makes a difference to us now maybe we will one day but thats a different thread. i keep blaming myself

i do find it difficult being the 'step' parent when i havent got my own children

Yay - I'm not the only one :j