Trying for a Baby Part Six

RebekahR

Morning ladies. Feeling better today. Back to trying to leave it be. Nowt I can do bout it so no point worrying.

Praline you don't know how true you are about him being controlling. In an abusing way I would say. It is not a you will not do that but a you can do that and I will punish you for it ... to the extent that if she showed little man to mum he would kick her out. And yet he says to us she has her own mind and doesn't want mum to see him either. Knowing sis and how she doesnt like mum she would still let her see little man. Even if it was just once in a while for 20 mins or something. She knows everyone disagrees with this but I think he just likes causing problems. He only mum a handful of times before her decided he "didn't want someone like that" in his kids life. Now he has cut hubby off I have decided I don't need him like that in my life lol. Hence why I haven't made up with him over it all. He hasn't forgiven hubby and won't as he loves grudges and I don't want to be the go between. I will always stick by hubby. He needs to learn and I just need to be there for sis when/if it all goes boobs up. He already said he only got with her to have a baby as it was his last chance. Waaaaaaaaah you started me off again lol.

praline

Rebekah - that is a sign of domestic violence (not necessarily physical of course), but you cannot break someone down without isolating them from their strength (family, confidence etc). I have dealt with many people who have been victims of mental and emotional abuse – it takes a while for them to recognise it. Especially when they are desperate to have a 'perfect family life'. Luckily the children are usually worshipped until they stop becoming ‘cute’. So they generally do not suffer.


My advice to you would still be as above. Maybe send an email/text every now and again to say hi (even if you see her otherwise) so that covert communication lines are kept open.

No point in forcing the issue as your sister will most likely side with him and he would have got what he wanted.

It never ceases to amaze me as to what people put up with, e.g being in a relationship where moodiness exists as a control feature (I'd better not go out tonight or s/he will be mardy tomorrow).

QQ - You are so right. Makes me think that we are all here for a purpose as it was so challenging for it to happen. *wonders if she is fulfilling her destiny wholesomely*

Pralines.x

Icey77

Afternoon Everyone,

Sorry to have been on the missing list for the last few days, had a mare of a weekend

Little sis came off her motorbike so many hours were spent in the local hospital and then there was the palaver of getting her, her DH and their bikes back to their home. Thankfully she was wearing the full kit so has walked away from the accident with a broken thumb, twisted ankle and lots of bruising.

My DH was a star as usual, keeping me calm and helping me run about sorting things out.

On the PG front, well. I think I am due to ovulate this week, DH is on late shifts so is "booked" for BD tonight, tomorrow and Friday. He had earmarked last night but we were still so shattered from Sunday and the accident to get up to anything.

We've also booked our wedding present from my company - a night away at a swish hotel for the Saturday of the bank holiday weekend. Just realised though, that AF would be due then so his swimmers have even more responsibility this week

QQ, Glad to hear your Papa is on the mend, but sorry to hear the IVF did not work this time around. I hope it does next time!

Hope everyone else on here is well and working hard on their homework

SBD and hugs!
Icey xx

cleomolly

:hello: everyone. sorry no time to type but read all your posts. just dropping in to say hello

maire1

Hi there!

Not much to report here! Am 6dpo and symptomless, which I think is normal!

Just wanted to show my face!

SBDTA x

QQuaver

RebekahR wrote: »

He already said he only got with her to have a baby as it was his last chance. Waaaaaaaaah you started me off again lol.

:shocked:
Your poor sister:( and all of your family:(

Icey77 wrote: »

My DH was a star as usual, keeping me calm and helping me run about sorting things out.

Glad your sister was OK:o

On the PG front, well. I think I am due to ovulate this week, DH is on late shifts so is "booked" for BD tonight, tomorrow and Friday.

Good luck!:j And drink plenty of water so you'll have lovely cm to help the swimmers to the eggy:)

cleomolly wrote: »

:hello: everyone. sorry no time to type but read all your posts. just dropping in to say hello

Hello there!:wave:
Do you still think you haven't ov'd?

maire1 wrote: »

Not much to report here! Am 6dpo and symptomless, which I think is normal!

Just wanted to show my face!

Hi there! Good to see you:wave:
Your bean could be implanting about now, good luck:)

QQuaver

Testing list

Wed 11th May - svjenni
Mon 12th Never - Lemon Tree


May graduates - Winner of April BFP predictions (8)
:TBB1984, QQuaver, Bigzippy, BezzyK & KellyG :T


MoneySavingMamma TTC#2 since mc 03/11 BFP 04/05/11:j
Mimi Arc en ciel (27) TTC#2 since 02/11 BFP 04/05/11:j
Calamityclaire TTC #1 since 09/10 BFP 05/05/11:j
colli (30) TTC#1 since 12/10 BFP 10/05/11:j


May BFP predictions
kellyg - 7
fannyanna - 7 (incl self)
Fellpony - 8 (incl self)
Cleomolly - 8
lisa26 - 8
mrsvicx - 8 (incl self)
Smash7 - 9 (incl self)
Tinksy - 9
GemmaE - 9
BB1984 - 9
Bezzyk - 9
QQuaver - 10
emmylou83 - 10
Bigzippy - 10
Euronorris - 11

QQuaver

Team Sticky!

CD99 x_charlie_x - ?DPO:cool:
CD86 ilovecushions* - ?DPO:cool:
CD61 Derby - 47DPO:cool:
CD31 4nnabella - 19DPO:cool:
CD27 emmylou - ?DPO:cool:
CD38 Katenut - ?DPO:cool:
CD37 svjenni - ?DPO:cool:
CD28 lisa26* - ?DPO:cool:
CD26 shell820810 - ?DPO:cool:
CD26 mrs_dave - ?DPO:cool:
CD21 Loopylaura - ?DPO:cool:
CD25 TwigPig* - 11DPO:cool:
CD21 mrsvicx* - 6DPO:cool:
CD33 keza - 6DPO:cool:
CD22 Maire - 5DPO:cool:
CD27 GG* - 5DPO:cool:
CD23 Gizmogiz* - 4DPO:cool:
CD18 mozzyc - 4DPO:cool:
CD18 Tinksy* - 3DPO:cool:
CD83 Cleomolly - Awaiting ov:o
CD53 Bigzippy - Awaitign ov:o
CD21 Smash7 - Awaiting ov:o
CD20 Fellpony - Awaiting ov:o
CD20 newyearnewstart - Awaiting ov:o
CD20 BB1984 - Awaiting ov:o
CD20 vesper - Awaiting ov:o
CD18 divorcingjack - Awaiting ov:o
CD17 countrybum - Awaiting ov:o
CD16 praline - Awaiting ov:o
CD14 kellyg - Awaiting ov:o
CD14 Darkphaery - Awaiting ov:o
CD13 emsbet - Awaiting ov:o
CD13 Euronorris - Awaiting ov:o
CD12 RebekahR - Awaiting ov:o
CD12 Icey77* - Awaiting ov:o
CD10 Must try harder* - Awaiting ov:o
CD6 Jen151* - Awaiting ov:o
CD4 QQuaver* - Awaiting ov:o
CD4 fannyanna - Awaiting ov:o
CD4 Bezzyk - Awaiting ov:o


Those with * uses Preseed/Conceive Plus on occasions:)

emmylou83_2

Hey all
I`ve been good, been to the gym this morning, and cut the hedge in the front garden! Go me!!!
Cd 27 here, last month was a 26 day cycle, and before that i`ve always been 28days. So, again, not sure what is going on! Have AF cramps this month, but last month had nothing at all. If its coming, then i`d rather it just got on with it as if i do have my operation next week, i really dont want Af hanging around
Lisa...that cake is amazing! If you dont already, then you really should think about making some cakes to sell!
Icey, glad your sis is ok xx
have a good day everyone! xx

RebekahR

Gee all I can think about is having a baby! Day noon and night! Just got out the shower - lots of dreaming. There I was in the shower with my new born on the floor in the bathroom watching me ... most likely screaming for the next feed! LOL. I need help ... Now it's getting closer the desire and excitement has really racked up as has the nerves.