Dont know what to think :(

Mupette

messedup1 wrote: »

Thanks for everyones repiles muppette i am not a troll . I wont be asking for any more advice if this is how people treat others on this forum but thanks to others who have given me there time

I am sorry i got it wrong, and when wrong i do apologise.

Don't keep away because of what i said, these has been a spate of trolls on here saying the most god awful things that have happened to them.

I was wrong, and I don't normally call newbies trolls.

My real advise as you are saying you are genuine, is that you need to think of your children and your safety, and think about whether you want to put your children through that kinda of verbal abuse when your old man has too much to drink.

Best wishes.

inkie

He has clearly overstepped the mark. You trusted him with sensitive information about yourself, adn he has broken that trust. How can you carry on in relationship where trust is broken and he has intentionally hurt you - and created a situation where things have been revealed to your children that they did not need to know about their mum?
I am afraid i would be telling him to leave.

VK-2008

the answer is simple

its called

DOMESTIC ABUSE emotionally

he is abusing his trust in you

get rid of him before its gets worse

if it happens once it will happen again

*Louise*

When did this happen exactly?

I am assuming it wasn't today so how has he been since the incident?

I ask because if he has been extremely remorseful and asking for your forgiveness my advice would be to talk it through and find out why he said those things (esp in front of the children!)

If he has ignored what he has done then I would be very angry and would be strongly considering whether he is worth your time

sassy_one

haven't any advice, I just wanted to say that I am sorry to read your lost.

It is quite obvious, this man isn't for you and I think you should tell him to leave.