MSE Pregnancy Club 19

DueMarch11

Metranil_Vavin wrote: »

March I'm with you on the grumpy vibe, although it's my OH that has put me in a mood.

I woke up in some pain, so got up and made us both a cup of tea, fed cats etc. I was in a perfectly good mood and we were chatting about something inane (a film) and he suddenly was just really rude to me. I told him to watch his tone of voice, cue much silence. He has said sorry and has gone for a run now, but he's just pi55ed me off.

Do you know we haven't BD'd in months and months. He seems to have absolutely zero interest in it (and by default me I guess). Not that I particularly feel like hanging from the chandeliers myself at the moment, but it would be nice to feel a bit attractive now and then.

I'm not that fat and ugly!

Myth no 10035 - men are obsessed with sex..well mine isn't anyway.

Meh.

Shal we stick our fingers up to them and go shopping lol. ALthough I would have to bring DD along so it wouldnt be therapeutic at all

I just feel like I need a friend, think its cos OH has gone out all day, my best mate has peed me off (only wants to spend time with her bloke at weekends, they have been together 18 months THAT should be wearing off by now) and my mum lives miles away

I WANT MY MUM!!!

Oh great now my eyes are brimming, damn hormones.

Metranil_Vavin

I'll be your 'friend on the end of a keyboard' March!

I just had (another) cry myself so don't worry about the whole tears thing...that's 3 days in a row I've cried..not like me at all.

I choose to wait till OH is not around as I'd just get an abrupt 'what are you crying for?', with little empathy or understanding.

The only time I'm really allowed to have a good cry is if there is something tangible to cry about that he can see.

Guess that's where we're different from men. Unless you happen to be lucky and have one of those very understanding, sensitive one's

gratefulforhelp_2

coops228 wrote: »

Oh MV, major Hugs!! I can sympathys with the work thing. Been for my appraisal this evening and was called prickly!! :mad: Grrr. I am lovely most of the time but someone didn't like the "tone" of an e-mail I sent!!!

That is such a dumb thing to say and so unproveable.

MV maybe its time to jump your bloke, you are gorgeous, at least from the neck down, haven't seen your face!! Maybe he is confused by constantly BDing when ttc and then nothing much now, time to jump him. Then go shopping:rotfl:

duemarch honey will we do instead of your ma? Tell us all about it.
Maybe time for new friends anyway, sometimes old friends before parenthood can't cope that we are now parents.

Metranil_Vavin

gratefulforhelp wrote: »

That is such a dumb thing to say and so unproveable.

MV maybe its time to jump your bloke, you are gorgeous, at least from the neck down, haven't seen your face!! Maybe he is confused by constantly BDing when ttc and then nothing much now, time to jump him. Then go shopping:rotfl:

duemarch honey will we do instead of your ma? Tell us all about it.
Maybe time for new friends anyway, sometimes old friends before parenthood can't cope that we are now parents.

Thanks Grateful, but to be honest the thought of being rejected is a bit too much for me in my fragile state

I did used to be a bit of a hottie..not so much now though :rotfl:

gratefulforhelp_2

Would he dare??!! My Dh wouldn't, unless he had a very very good excuse, or he was def sulking.

ema_o

Morning peeps!

I hadn't thought to count my work days left till now but I have about 100, boo!!

So shattered today. Oh put on the event last night, there are proper cliffhangers at the end of the episodes so we ended up watching all 3 'till 1 am!! Oops, think I'm going for an early night tonight!

Am still in bed but have to blitz the house (well all 3 rooms we are living in) this morning now the builders are gone! Would be ok, but we'll have the plasterer in a couple more weeks so will be back to chaos and mess again boo!!

Paws I am thinking of you Hun, hope the tests come back with good results for you, must be awful just waiting for them xx

Twoflower ((hugs)) you sound like you are staying strong but come and vent as much as you need xx

I think I felt baby move . I was in bed and kept having a sensation like going over a humpback bridge, very light but it was there. Started to feel a bit seasick lol!

Sorry, struggling to remember who wrote what but hugs and have a good Saturday everyone, and come on with those babies you at the top of the list, wanna see some baby pics xx

Leopardlady

Hey all, sorry about annoying OHs, mine has just left for his Sat morning bike ride, so nearly three hours without him around. He is very very stressed at the moment and kept me up half the night with his snoring!!!

We have decided that i need to get out of his way so i am jumping on a train for an hour to see my parents and staying there a couple of days, they want me to stay to have the baby, but i want to come home in time Will have to wait and see what the baby wants to do i suppose.

On the crying thing, i have been unable to stop myself crying most days at the moment, and feel like i want to cry most of the time, hormones are a nightmare, and i hate not being in control of my feelings! Another Oh well, hopefully will get easier once bean pops out?

Hope you all have a good day and Labour vibes to all those in bold!! some little babies would bump me right up the list!!!!!

Hugs to all who need them.

CL

MV & March I hope the OHs get their act together. It's tough enough without your OH making it more difficult. Luckily mine couldn't possibly be any better. Although I feel bad even saying that when so many people have so much to put up with.

ema_o

Ooh, 7 posts while I was typing!! I'm too slow on my phone!!

Hugs duemarch and MV. Xx

CL

Do you think being hormonal and crying has something to do with whether you are having a boy or a girl? Pre-pregnancy I would have been prone to an occasional cry, but I haven't cried once during the whole pregnancy and I'm due in 2 weeks. It's a bit weird. A work colleague died this week (young of cancer) and I felt really sad, but didn't cry at all. Normally I'd have been blubbing the whole day in work.