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Life after the pill

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  • Becles
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    I've felt better today. Cramps have settled down to bearable levels but the bleeding hasn't started yet.

    Feel great at the moment, as husband just bought me a huge bar of Fruit and Nut at the shop, and I've just scoffed the lot :o:D
    Here I go again on my own....
  • Last year OH had a vasectomy so I could come off the pill (no more kids required;) ) my periods are fine about 3 days long ,cannot use tampons for the 1st day of period and the pain is horrendous.
    I went to see the nurse and she suggested a smear (was due one anyway) it all came back negative and she said maybe I should go back on the pill!

    I now take Ibruprofen extra strength 400mg which are the only things that take the edge off the pain which I can only describe as similar to a contraction when in labour:eek:

    Have tried starflower/evening primrose etc and didn't have any effect on me
    Anyone finds a miracle cure/pill please let me know
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  • rls1973
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    irchy_mum wrote:
    Last year OH had a vasectomy so I could come off the pill (no more kids required;) ) my periods are fine about 3 days long ,cannot use tampons for the 1st day of period and the pain is horrendous.
    I went to see the nurse and she suggested a smear (was due one anyway) it all came back negative and she said maybe I should go back on the pill!

    I now take Ibruprofen extra strength 400mg which are the only things that take the edge off the pain which I can only describe as similar to a contraction when in labour:eek:

    Have tried starflower/evening primrose etc and didn't have any effect on me
    Anyone finds a miracle cure/pill please let me know
    i know i've said it before elsewhere on these boards, but...please try acupuncture, i have and its great. sometimes available through nhs too, (after begging the doctor ,going on waiting list etc obviously:rotfl: )
  • Becles wrote:
    No.

    I've got IBS, and that is worse around peroid time though. I wondered if the hormones had an effect on my bowel :confused:

    I don't know about the IBS but i get IBS as part of the fibro, i would mention it to your doc though when you next go.
  • Eels100
    Eels100 Posts: 984 Forumite
    Becles wrote:
    I've got IBS, and that is worse around peroid time though. I wondered if the hormones had an effect on my bowel :confused:
    Undoubtedly they do. I virtually always suffer from an upset tummy around the time of my period pains, and I have heard of others who become constipated. And don't even talk to me about the wind ... :eek:
  • Becles
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    I've phoned the docs, and got an appointment with the nice male doctor on Thursday morning. Quite surprised, as you normally have to wait at least a week to see anyone at our docs!
    Here I go again on my own....
  • Becles
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    Saw doctor and he was lovely and sympathtic.

    He said the period problems are normal and it can take a while for some womens bodys to settle down to normal. I haven't got the symptoms for infection or anything untoward, so he suggested seeing how I go over the next few months.

    He said they can't refer me to the infertility specialist at the hospital until we've been trying for a year, so he said just keep trying and go back to see him as a couple after 12 months if nothing has happened.

    Period is due today, but hasn't arrived yet. Not getting my hopes up just in case, but will do a test in a few days if it hasn't arrived.
    Here I go again on my own....
  • If you get really bad cramps, I found the only way to take the edge off was 800mg ibuprofen and some mefenamic acid (marketed as Ponstan/Ponstel; only available on prescription). Sometimes even that wouldn't work for me, but the mefenamic acid kept me from suicide over the years - if I hadn't been able to have that I simply wouldn't have wanted to live.
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  • black-saturn
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    I used to get very bad cramps until I'd had children and they stopped. A hot water bottle on the area used to help me a lot.
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  • madauri
    madauri Posts: 636 Forumite
    I can't imagine myself with a hot bottle in the office! :D But I'll try that at home next time, should help a little, thank you.

    My doctor prescribed mefenamic acid on Monday. He says it's great. Let's see...
    'They can tak' oour lives but they cannae tak' oour troousers!'
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