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The giving up/cutting down alcohol support thread Part 8!

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  • Morning
    Sim, stay on the the top of the mountain, don't feel you have to climb, it's the only state of mind that keeps me going sometimes. Once you've accepted that you've made a decision, don't doubt it.

    SSG, hope you are okay after a little shut eye.

    Me I'm on 8 and although I'm sleeping well I'm incredibly tired.

    One day left at work and off for 4 days.
    DC.
    "Some people walk in the rain... others just get wet... " - Roger Miller
  • Morning Sim,

    Glad you are still sober it's better than the alternative isn't it....

    Am still a bit bleary eyed but I will be fine!

    Found it difficult switching off last night what with how late it was etc..

    Needs must though, and i wanted to be going where I am going today, so this is how it was arranged, would've been better to get away sharper last night though!

    How are you doing?

    Have you decided what you are going to do re your finances yet?

    SSG

    XX
    :):)
  • Morning DC,

    How are things?

    Good for you off for 4 days, you'll be looking forward to the end of today then!

    I am off for 2 then back on the weekend, but today should fly as it's a busy branch I am going to, I will also be finished for 4pm sharp so hopefully will be home and in jammies by about 6ish....

    Will be great to get a long lie tomorrow :D

    SSG

    XX
    :):)
  • Well, thats me ready to rock ( in a manner of speaking )

    Off to work now, hope everyone has a great day!!!

    SSG

    XX
    :):)
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    Morning
    Sim, stay on the the top of the mountain, don't feel you have to climb, it's the only state of mind that keeps me going sometimes. Once you've accepted that you've made a decision, don't doubt it.

    SSG, hope you are okay after a little shut eye.

    Me I'm on 8 and although I'm sleeping well I'm incredibly tired.

    One day left at work and off for 4 days.

    Good Morning DC,

    I love your attitude. Can I borrow that mantra please?!

    You've got it one. I can't afford to doubt myself anymore (the depression / anxiety / booze wasn't helping me trust myself at all).

    Anyway, I'm gonna go for it, and apply for the Budgeting Loan from the DWP as that will solve my most pressing predicament.

    I'm then going to find a job :cool:

    Congrats on your 8 days sobriety DC.

    Enjoy your day, and then really enjoy your time off!
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    Morning Sim,

    Glad you are still sober it's better than the alternative isn't it....

    Am still a bit bleary eyed but I will be fine!

    Found it difficult switching off last night what with how late it was etc..

    Needs must though, and i wanted to be going where I am going today, so this is how it was arranged, would've been better to get away sharper last night though!

    How are you doing?

    Have you decided what you are going to do re your finances yet?

    SSG

    XX

    Good Morning SSG.

    I know what you mean about finding it hard to switch off.

    You're doing brilliantly though.

    I'm doing ok thanks. I've decided that I'm going to get myself well, and not depend on my Girlfriend anymore. I asked her for more help late last night online, and I deeply regret it. She said no, and now I'm glad she said no. It's not fair on her, and it's not fair on me.

    Re my first debt (PayDay loan), I'm going to try and 'convert' it into a DWP loan (Social Fund - Budgeting Loan). At least that gets rid of it / any extra large sized charges. Just hoping I'm eligible... and if not, I'll try something else :)

    Going to call up the DWP at 9am.

    Have a good one at work x
  • BUG*ER I've just spent 10mins typing and it's disappeared into the ether somewhere! So here goes again.

    Good morning each and every one of you out there.

    Well I made it last night although I admit it was a struggle. I started a new book but couldn't seem to concentrate.

    Anyway DB Please put me down for 6 AFDs. Thats 2 in a row and I'm going for a hat trick today.

    Gien Glad you pulled through yesterday despite the bells. Please put me down for 2. I know I'm 8 hours behind so my penance is to extend my own deadline to midnight Thursday.

    SSG Get some of that coffee into you. I've just finished my 4th and last full strength filter. Go easy on the cigs their really not good for you. There I go again pot kettle black. As my dad used to say ''do as I say not as I do''

    Sim Try and keep strong and please make sure you keep that appointment with your doctor this morning.

    Jo Hope you'r ok. Any news on the laptop?

    Everyone else Hope you are all well, keep trying and never say never.
    I try to keep up with all the posts but the pages keep adding up and my muddled brain can't keep up with everything.

    Bye for now

    RN
    Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.
    (Mark Twain)
  • SimIsOnTheUp
    SimIsOnTheUp Posts: 1,370 Forumite
    randomname wrote: »
    BUG*ER I've just spent 10mins typing and it's disappeared into the ether somewhere! So here goes again.

    Good morning each and every one of you out there.

    Well I made it last night although I admit it was a struggle. I started a new book but couldn't seem to concentrate.

    Anyway DB Please put me down for 6 AFDs. Thats 2 in a row and I'm going for a hat trick today.

    Gien Glad you pulled through yesterday despite the bells. Please put me down for 2. I know I'm 8 hours behind so my penance is to extend my own deadline to midnight Thursday.

    SSG Get some of that coffee into you. I've just finished my 4th and last full strength filter. Go easy on the cigs their really not good for you. There I go again pot kettle black. As my dad used to say ''do as I say not as I do''

    Sim Try and keep strong and please make sure you keep that appointment with your doctor this morning.

    Jo Hope you'r ok. Any news on the laptop?

    Everyone else Hope you are all well, keep trying and never say never.
    I try to keep up with all the posts but the pages keep adding up and my muddled brain can't keep up with everything.

    Bye for now

    RN

    Good Morning RN,

    Good on ya for 6 days sober.

    My Doc's appt was yesterday. Didn't go, as felt so low I couldn't get up. I did call Doc's and let them know I wasn't going.

    Will be making another appt today, for asap.

    Enjoy your day :)
  • Sorry, Sim I misunderstood re appt. The dreaded Booze is really sapping but I am feeling a bit stronger now. Take heart, I've been at it for the best part of 40 years and this forum is really helping. I even did 4 weeks at the Priory clinic. Did me no good at all. Now I feel I want it for myself, sobriety that is, as opposed to wanting it to satisfy others.

    Keep logging on mate and make sure you hang on to your internet access. Hope youe distress loan negotiations are successful.

    RN
    Of all the things I've lost, I miss my mind the most.
    (Mark Twain)
  • honeybear_2
    honeybear_2 Posts: 3,914 Forumite
    Morning :)

    Just poured away what wine I had left over & am going to try for an AF day

    bearhugs
    @ LBM = £15,872.65, now £10,819.82
    AF Jan = 7/? Feb = 5/14 Mar = 14/20 Apr = 6/14 May = 2/14 June 2/14 July 0/TF Aug 1/TFv Sept 6/TF Oct 4/7
    "NEVER DOUBT YOUR OWN QUALITY"
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