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Weekly Flylady Thread 19th July 2010

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  • Mumto5
    Mumto5 Posts: 1,838 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Hello
    Someone has recommended I come on here for a boot up the butt!!!. My house is a mess and I dont know where to start. Ive recently been diagnosed with depression after walking out of a violent and controlled marriage and needless to say after years of someone else pulling the strings I am finding it hard to get motivated. When I was married my house was always spotless (it had to be otherwise the consequences werent very nice) I feel like im rebelling but im just being a lazy cow. Can you lovely ladies help me get my life (and home) back please?

    Here's your tree :xmastree:so you get noticed.

    JoJo - Well done on your OU course. You are an inspiration to me.

    GunsandBanjos - Hope you had a lovely holiday. It's taken me a few days to get back on the lists as I'm still in rosy-eyed holiday mode.

    Anyone for HHC at 11?
  • Craftyscholar
    Craftyscholar Posts: 3,403 Forumite
    Hello
    Someone has recommended I come on here for a boot up the butt!!!. My house is a mess and I dont know where to start. Ive recently been diagnosed with depression after walking out of a violent and controlled marriage and needless to say after years of someone else pulling the strings I am finding it hard to get motivated. When I was married my house was always spotless (it had to be otherwise the consequences werent very nice) I feel like im rebelling but im just being a lazy cow. Can you lovely ladies help me get my life (and home) back please?
    Welcome.

    Actually some of it may be rebellion and by the sound of it hardly surprising, but what you do now is for you so that you have a home you are comfortable in.

    Here is a :xmastree: so toots our official meeter and greeter(or whoever is trying to sub for her) will see you.
  • honeybun16
    honeybun16 Posts: 139 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    ok well first day and so far

    Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One
    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe kitchen surfaces[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Sweep and mop the floors[/STRIKE]
    Level Two
    [STRIKE]Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if necessary)[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Scrub the sink and shine the taps![/STRIKE]
    Level Three
    Wipe over the sockets and switches
    Wipe and replace all those small appliances.. kettle, toaster etc
    Clean fridge and see what needs using first


    Extras
    HHI
    Sort through a cupboard or drawer.. I bet loads can be flung!
    Clean oven if it really needs it.. or just do the hob..
    Dust and deweb blinds/curtains!

    gonna try and sort out some bits in the kids rooms next, feels great to be doing this
    2 adults 4 children Eldest 14 yrs old youngest 1yr old,
    Total Credit July £38K Aug £37K Sept £37K Oct £33K Nov £26K Dec £60K May £56K Nov £52K Apr £21K :eek:
    What most people need to learn in life is how to love people and use things instead of using people and loving things
  • Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One

    [STRIKE]Clear and wipe kitchen surfaces[/STRIKE]
    Sweep and mop the floors (cant see these yet!! Work in progress)
    Level Two
    Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if necessary)
    [STRIKE]scrub cupboards[/STRIKE], appliances and kickboards!
    Scrub the sink and shine the taps!
    Level Three
    [STRIKE]Wipe over the sockets and switches[/STRIKE]
    [STRIKE]Wipe and replace all those small appliances.. kettle, toaster etc [/STRIKE]
    Clean fridge and see what needs using first
    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Sort through a cupboard or drawer.. I bet loads can be flung!
    3. Clean oven if it really needs it.. or just do the hob..
    4. Dust and deweb blinds/curtains!
    Sealed Pot Challenge member #982
    In 2012 I pledge to:- Save £1 a day, meal plan, be more organised, have NSDs, set myself a budget AND STICK TO IT, throw all loose change into Sealed Pot and not open it till 29th November.:money:
  • did my 2 HHC. My kitchen is done, apart from mopping the floor. I'll do that just before the school run. :D

    welcome to the new people! Take it easy, don't rush into it. I've finished my kitchen cos I've been flying for a while now. x

    I still have my bedroom drawers to sort. Yuk.

    Am currently watching The Bold & The Beautiful while the baby is asleep & decluttering a packet of cheddars!

    Lisa
  • toottifrootti
    toottifrootti Posts: 6,427 Forumite
    Morning all

    its raining here so I am not best pleased - the gardener couldnt get the garden done - I have washing ready to hang out that i might just need for hospital and I have to go to the post office at some point so it had better clear up a bit!!!

    well there's a whole lot of new posters -PuddleGlum, Honeybun16, cmazza, Mooloo, DaisyDaisy66, xxfibeexx, life in turmoil, welcome to you all - i will be sending you each a pm just shortly - just do what you can and dont worry about what hasnt been done - it all comes around again very soon!

    welcome back to those that have been MIA - you have been missed!

    Jojo well done on the Diploma and good luck with the next part.
    natty good luck with the assessment honey - I am pleased T is going with you to keep you in order!!!:rotfl:
    AnW'sMum will leave it until later to call back as we both have busy day.

    Hope you all have a productive day and week - remember you will never know when i am going to pop in and check up on you so you had better be good:rotfl:

    Thanks for all you kind wishes - fingers crossed that its a better week than last time.

    back later
    toots xx
    Peace will be mine
    could do better - must try harder
    Live each day as if its your last
    DFW Nerd #1000 Proud to be dealing with my debts

  • ALIBOBSY
    ALIBOBSY Posts: 4,527 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    edited 19 July 2010 at 11:57AM
    Ok back to the grindstone, baby number 4 arrived on her due date (28th May). We have done some sorting and decorating since so house not too bad, but need to get back into a regular routine again so going to try flying again.

    Good luck with the new one pigpen, my little one managed perfect timing she came at lunch time on the friday before half term, so had time between initial contractions to get kids off to school and toddler to mums, before setting off to hospital. Then a whole week off before launching into the school run with a baby in toe lol.

    Emptied dryer and wacked another lot on as looks too cloudy to risk outdoors at mo (already rained twice this morning). WM already on and done the shopping this morning and put it all away.

    Here's my tree in case I've slipped off the list (should have as baby is 6 wks old)
    :xmastree:

    ali x

    Monday - Kitchen and Dining Room
    Level One

    Clear and wipe kitchen surfaces
    Sweep and mop the floors
    Level Two
    Wipe dining table.. (clean table cloth if necessary)
    scrub cupboards, appliances and kickboards!
    Scrub the sink (clear the pots off and put away first) and shine the taps!
    Level Three
    Wipe over the sockets and switches
    Wipe and replace all those small appliances.. kettle, toaster etc
    Clean fridge and see what needs using first
    clean out coffe maker
    Extras
    1. HHI
    2. Sort through a cupboard or drawer.. I bet loads can be flung!
    3. Clean oven if it really needs it.. or just do the hob..
    4. Dust and deweb blinds/curtains!
    "Overthinking every little thing
    Acknowledge the bell you cant unring"

  • greenbee
    greenbee Posts: 18,094 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    Still clearing up the aftermath of yesterday's lunch - DW emptied and reloaded. Cleaning cloths hanging on the line. Kitchen drawers rearranged to accommodate extra cutlery I've acquired. Laundry sorted by CBA to put it on (might wait till I've been for a walk or run later today anyway). Nail polish removed. Team conference call done... Just trying to get rid of the remnants of a migraine so I can concentrate on work.

    Kitchen isn't too bad as I did it pretty thoroughly in preparation for guests, so should be able to get it all done relatively easily later on. Hob is a bit sticky as I poached apricots for lunch, and as always, they overflowed :o but they were delicious :D

    Welcome to all the newbies, and thanks to flylady central command for the hard work.
  • carolinejane_2
    carolinejane_2 Posts: 1,556 Forumite
    Morning Everyone

    Thanks to the team for the thread again :) 3 weeks into this now and it really has motivated me to get my house out of chaos and back to order. Its so nice opening a newly decluttered cupboard and feel smug :D

    Had a short day today which is nice so have a bit of time to do my list although some of it will be classed as work flying I guess
    So today I need to:

    Quick wash and dry of the ebay items sold at the weekend
    Send above items
    Send cheque sitting on my desk
    Sort some stuff out for my marketing man
    Go through emails and declutter
    Send one birthday card and deliver another
    Clean patio doors inside
    Declutter drawers in the dining room
    Tidy kitchen
    Hoover down

    Ok that will do for now I think
    Thanks again
    CJ
  • gunsandbanjos
    gunsandbanjos Posts: 12,246 Forumite
    PPI Party Pooper
    I have emptied, cleaned and binned the rubbish from all my wall units in the kitchen:T 2 bin bags full of crap and gibble from 7 cupboards:eek: That is a disgrace:o They have been cleaned and only stuff that i need has been replaced. I do however now have a sore neck/shoulders so going to have a wee break and maybe a bacon sandwich and a cup of tea.

    Thanks mumto5, we had a fab holiday. Went with my hubby and daughter and my parents. Weather was beautiful, if a little too hot for DD, perfect for me though, i like the sun:D It was 30 in the shade! Hope you had a lovely holiday too:)
    The trouble with the world is that the stupid are cocksure and the intelligent are full of doubt.
    Bertrand Russell
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