Ladies & Gentlemen, please fasten your seatbelts ...

Keeping_Motivated

Yeah do it casual rather than direct..no rush I suppose just something to keep in mind eh? Maybe next time he suggest meeting up you could say ok shall we go to mine or yours? See what his reaction is...that way its not a direct asking to go to his. If he doesn't bite will subtle then maybe more direct as time goes on lol

renegade

Benben Puppet and string comes to my mine with you and this fella.You can't make anyone love/like you, why should he chose he has a charmed lifestyle at the moment! Keeps your wits about you, don't become a second string to his bow.

benbenandme

Reading this all back I get your point Renegade, but I *think* I'm being careful, he's been honest about his situation, I don't know whether I want anything more than sex anyway, just want to be the one in control of that decision

Alisonpennypincher

benbenandme wrote: »

So oh wise ones, wheres my advice?? Most of you have partners, how d'ya keep 'em??

Ball and chain :rotfl:

So glad you are having fun with this, just enjoy it for what it is, sounds like he is already coming back for more so you don't need to do too much else.

Have a great day in the sunshine, do you think this is summer?

benbenandme

Hi Alison, yep I do think it is tbh, the last couple of years we have had a lovely May/June and then July/August has never got going really, thats why I've made sure we've been out and about enjoying every bit of it this last couple of weeks

Right, think I need to track down that list I made and concentrate on mundane everyday stuff again to take my mind off my new found sex life :rotfl::rotfl:

Alisonpennypincher

Can always rely on the British summer time to be rubbish eh?!

Hey ho, like you, we are making the most of the sunshine whilst we can.

But first, we (me and DS) have an easter cowboy hat to make, as an easter bonnet is just way too girly! ;o)

Have fun!

benbenandme

This afternoon I have been trying to get on top of the banking again as I haven't tracked it yet again this month Anyway, it seems as though I still have £114 left to last til payday (next friday). That sounds good but I need petrol which will be about £30, and then we also have a trip to Legoland within that and a street party to contribute towards. Easter stuff is sorted. I have £40 to pay to Next but that will come out of the csa money, the rest of which hasn't been added to the budget yet so will probably be added to the car maintenace fund (service and mot is due soon) and some may go into the mortgage pot

benbenandme

Just been for a walk / scooter down the beach, it was absolutely gorgeous down there, no breeze, just lovely Home now, time to get tea then baths then an early night as we're off to Legoland again tomorrow with some friends who also have merlin passes

Smart_Mart

pinkladyof66 wrote: »

I am sure there are some SMART guys out there who could offer you some real good advice !!!! Come on guys give it to BENBEN !!!

Not sure whether it was meant for me but believe me, I'm the last person who should be offering relationship advice for BB.

Buffythedebtslayer

oooooooo exciting!

*waits for next installment*

very pleased BB and am glad you are having fun xxxxx