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Keeping_Motivated

Also have you been to his house...I'm super paranoid...make sure he isn't married If he can't stay out all night and can't commit sometimes married men do this kind of thing :o

Hope I've not upset you just wanted you to keep your wits about you because a similar thing happened to my friend and he could explain anyway everything all his reasons where very plausible so she never suspected a thing but turned out he was married and we all could have kicked ourselves because once we knew (her and us friends) we couldn't believe we hadn't realised :cool:

pinkladyof66

tigzem wrote: »

I think from what you've said ie all the texts/emails you're exchanging that he does want to come back (and stay) just keep on reminding him what a good thing he has with you and maybe concentrate on blowing something else off rather than his socks!!!!!!

Ben Ben may have already blown off more than she could CHEW !!!! LOL
:rotfl:

Keeping_Motivated

benbenandme wrote: »

Already have planned one, spoke to another single mate last night and she has been dating a couple of guys so havent seen her for a few weeks, so we've arranged a night out over the bank holiday weekend to catch up on the gossip, compare notes and see who else is out and about

Good girl and make sure he knows about it and make it sound more exciting than it is jealousy will keep him on his toes.....but be very subtle mind

Independence while attentive will be attractive :A

benbenandme

Nope, haven't been there KM, good point, but having nosied back a long way on his f/b profile I reckon he's not married

Keeping_Motivated

All of the above while I advise don't play games and be yourself you are doing a pretty good job so far so keep up what you are already doing...bet your head is spining now lol and I bet you wish you hadn't asked for advice or mentioned the blowing comment now :rotfl:

benbenandme

Lol you lot There were definitely no complaints in that area
Just received my good morning text from him

Keeping_Motivated

benbenandme wrote: »

Nope, haven't been there KM, good point, but having nosied back a long way on his f/b profile I reckon he's not married

Good but maybe you could engineer going to his one time so its not all one sided Still paranoid? Me? What are you saying

benbenandme

Yeah I think I may do that KM, maybe its cos he wouldnt want me staying over though?

Keeping_Motivated

Mmm maybe but I would still try and engineer a visit somehow..you've nothing to hide so he's been to yours..should be no reason why you can't go to his?

benbenandme

I guess so, may suggest he cooks dinner for me But then dont want to be pushy either :cool: Maybe wait and see when we're next arranging something and mention it then?