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Alisonpennypincher

Ah BB, only a quick post- meant to be plahying trains, but just wanted to say that he does not deserve you, although at least he was honest with you.

Keep that chin up, if your looking down you'll never bump into Mr right!

X

benbenandme

So we went to the park with dad, the dog, ds and the football, had a walk round there then went down to the clifftop where we played footie again. Ds managed to fall over twice and was absolutely caked in mud by the time we got home, so all his clothes are now going round and round in the washing machine, including his duffle coat, not sure how that will look when it comes out but it was the only option

Well the fresh air has helped blow the cobwebs away and clear the mind again, I am disappionted with coffee guy as we did seem to click instantly, but what will be will be So, half an hour of mooching on here, then off to WW for another weigh-in, pick ds up from mums (he wanted to go back there for a bit instead of coming to ww), then plan the next weeks campaign in operation utterly fab

benbenandme

Back from WW, another 1lb lost this week, bringing me up to 11.5lbs in total :T :T I bought the new WW magazine and have just read it in the bath

I've also had some more messages back and forth and basically he feels bad that I was misled, he would like us to remain mates which is cool, 2 out of 3 of my closest male friends were people I met on internet dating sites, so another one won't do any harm, and who knows, it may not work out with her anyway

I have done some thinking in the bath and I am still pretty surprised at how much I liked him. I think its partly that I liked him as a person but also that I liked having someone like me again? So, the plan is to carry on with operation fabulous, keep losing the weight and getting more confidence, ready for when another Mr Right comes my way

I have also decided to treat myself to some nice soap and glory smellies from Boots, am assuming I've got some maintenance money coming my way sooner or later

superpup

I can't believe how disappointed I am but I guess he could have easily dated both of you for a while and credit to him that he was honest.
His loss anyhow. I think there's someone much, much better for you around the corner and he'll be kicking himself. Xxx

benbenandme

Hmm, am wondering if its just a polite way of saying he's not interested, just seen him online on pof :cool:

superpup

benbenandme wrote: »

Hmm, am wondering if its just a polite way of saying he's not interested, just seen him online on pof :cool:

Nah, you don't spend hours with someone you're not into. He's either on there cos that's where he speaks to this 'piece' or he's a player with a conscience and realised you're too nice to mess around, which you are. X

Smart_Mart

superpup wrote: »

Nah, you don't spend hours with someone you're not into. He's either on there cos that's where he speaks to this 'piece' or he's a player with a conscience and realised you're too nice to mess around, which you are. X

Sorry to butt in here, superpup, but if she's an old friend who he's just hooked up with again and they've been "seeing" each other, I doubt he needs to log in to POF to speak to her. Surely they'd have each others email addresses or mobile numbers by now.

Sorry, BB, I'm disappointed too. You are a great catch for someone and will meet Mr Right some time, good luck. At least it's a little bit of fun looking for him!!:D

superpup

Smart_Mart wrote: »

Sorry to butt in here, superpup, but if she's an old friend who he's just hooked up with again and they've been "seeing" each other, I doubt he needs to log in to POF to speak to her. Surely they'd have each others email addresses or mobile numbers by now.

Sorry, BB, I'm disappointed too. You are a great catch for someone and will meet Mr Right some time, good luck. At least it's a little bit of fun looking for him!!:D

Good point well made but people are weird. You don't know if the other girl is still in a relationship with someone else and wants to avoid using her phone, etc. Either way, our girl is now totally free and available for mr perfect when he pops along very soon!

Smart_Mart

superpup wrote: »

Good point well made but people are weird. You don't know if the other girl is still in a relationship with someone else and wants to avoid using her phone, etc. Either way, our girl is now totally free and available for mr perfect when he pops along very soon!

Fair point, pup. BB is gorgeous and will have no problem finding a suitor.... he's just got to like trains and buses, that's all!!

benbenandme

Hee hee, am glad you lot are so sure I'll find someone, I don't feel it at all !! But hey, keep plugging away at the weightloss etc and it has surely all got to help?? It still doesn't make a huge amount of sense to me but then I never have been much cop where men are concerned have I??

Am just off to set myself some targets in op. utterly fab to take me up to the Easter hols