is this normal for a 15 year old boy??

COCO-POPS_3

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Sagz_2

Have you tried talking to him about it?

lauren_1

In a nut shell, NO. It isnt normal, any normal but nosy 15 year old would of put them back and not left them to be found.

74jax

I can't comment on the 'is this normal' question, but wondered what he said he was doing with them when you asked the first time you noticed this. Did he mind/object to the lock being put on the door?

vixarooni

I wouldnt say it was normal, but my friend tried on his sisters corset once so maybe teenagers do go through a facination phase or womanly items?

busiscoming2

I really think you have got to discuss this with him. The fact he has taken the items , not returned them or even hidden them from you makes me think he it waiting for you to start the conversation.

Has he always taken things from your room without asking, even when he was younger? For me the fact he seems to have no respect for other peoples belongings and privacy worries me.

lauren_1

Get your self a lockable toolbox for your toys.

I could be jumping the gun a hell of a lot but if he has certain 'cross dressing' desires I would throw him a new set of lacy underwear and tell him to keep his mitts of yours and buy his own from now on. We are in a age where its perfectly ok to be open with experimentation and sexuality.

busiscoming2

lauren_1 wrote: »

Get your self a lockable toolbox for your toys.

I could be jumping the gun a hell of a lot but if he has certain 'cross dressing' desires I would throw him a new set of lacy underwear and tell him to keep his mitts of yours and buy his own from now on. We are in a age where its perfectly ok to be open with experimentation and sexuality.

I cant understand where the tampons come into it, or the sex toys for that matter. Unless he has a transgender issue.

lauren_1

busiscoming2 wrote: »

I cant understand where the tampons come into it, or the sex toys for that matter. Unless he has a transgender issue.

That is a possibility, or it could just be a case of 'what the hell are these?'
Depends really on what sex toy it was and where it's meant to go, lol

*max*

I could understand the lingerie thing...but tampons?? And he may have wanted a look at the toys...but to actually take them??

You need a chat with him. While it's perfectly normal to experiment at his age, it's NOT acceptable to 1/take things from your bedroom and 2/touch VERY personal items belonging to someone else.
TBH, most teenage boys - whilst secretly intrigued maybe - would be totally grossed out by seeing their mum's vibrator! Let alone actually stealing it.:cool:

Indie_Kid

COCO-POPS wrote: »

tried talking to him about it, but he gets really agressive and says he dosent know why he did it
sometimes he denies doing it at all
coco-pops

Has your partner (if you have one) or his father tried talking to him?