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Daughter leaves colleg & benefits dropped

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  • DaisyFlower
    DaisyFlower Posts: 2,677 Forumite
    I agree re working full time if the youngest is 13 rather than 3 months. In a few years time your daughter will leave school and may not want to go to college - if you cant cope with the loss of benefits now what will you do then when you lose them all?
  • Awen
    Awen Posts: 11 Forumite
    Thank you for all your replies, I was asking for benefit advice on this thread not advice on going back to work full time!
    I choose not to yet as I don't believe in leaving children all day long in the school holidays, and before you ask there is no childcare available where I live or have family support.
    But I will look into that in a few years time, sorry if you don't agree with me but thats how I feel.

    Eldest has started working part time now....
  • Hammyman
    Hammyman Posts: 9,913 Forumite
    Awen wrote: »
    But I will look into that in a few years time, sorry if you don't agree with me but thats how I feel.

    Good luck with that - the government have already said they're lowering the age which a parent can be expected to be able to look after a child without being expected to find work and it is way lower than 13. In short, if you don't look for work expect to have your benefits sanctioned.
  • Indie_Kid
    Indie_Kid Posts: 23,097 Forumite
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    Hammyman wrote: »
    Good luck with that - the government have already said they're lowering the age which a parent can be expected to be able to look after a child without being expected to find work and it is way lower than 13. In short, if you don't look for work expect to have your benefits sanctioned.

    That's for single parents on income support.
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  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    Awen wrote: »
    Thank you for all your replies, I was asking for benefit advice on this thread not advice on going back to work full time!
    I choose not to yet as I don't believe in leaving children all day long in the school holidays, and before you ask there is no childcare available where I live or have family support.
    But I will look into that in a few years time, sorry if you don't agree with me but thats how I feel.

    Eldest has started working part time now....
    Children good grief one is 13 and the other is 19 time to cut the apron strings.
    *SIGH*
    :D
  • dmg24
    dmg24 Posts: 33,920 Forumite
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    Awen wrote: »
    Thank you for all your replies, I was asking for benefit advice on this thread not advice on going back to work full time!
    I choose not to yet as I don't believe in leaving children all day long in the school holidays, and before you ask there is no childcare available where I live or have family support.
    But I will look into that in a few years time, sorry if you don't agree with me but thats how I feel.

    Eldest has started working part time now....

    It never fails to amaze me how many people have absolutely no childcare options!
    Gone ... or have I?
  • Hammyman
    Hammyman Posts: 9,913 Forumite
    sh1305 wrote: »
    That's for single parents on income support.

    Oh aye, so it is. So she gets Child Tax Credit and would get childcare paid for. I'm quite sure that grandma and grandad would love to see their granddaughter for a week as well..
  • annas1974
    annas1974 Posts: 34 Forumite
    today I was shock, because someboy that I work with is leving because she is better off in benefit.
    Since she has started working her council tax and rent have gone up. the think she is living in this country for 16 years and she has not bothered to improve her English.
  • DX2
    DX2 Posts: 8,275 Forumite
    annas1974 wrote: »
    today I was shock, because someboy that I work with is leving because she is better off in benefit.
    Since she has started working her council tax and rent have gone up. the think she is living in this country for 16 years and she has not bothered to improve her English.
    :rotfl:oh the irony
    *SIGH*
    :D
  • lynzpower
    lynzpower Posts: 25,311 Forumite
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    dmg24 wrote: »
    It never fails to amaze me how many people have absolutely no childcare options!

    Why?

    If I had a child now, Id have to pay to have the child looked after.

    Everyone I know would!!
    :beer: Well aint funny how its the little things in life that mean the most? Not where you live, the car you drive or the price tag on your clothes.
    Theres no dollar sign on piece of mind
    This Ive come to know...
    So if you agree have a drink with me, raise your glasses for a toast :beer:
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