Weekly Flylady Thread 5th July 2010

mummyslittleboy

Pigpen your solicitor can apply to have the date of the hearing changed wot a b******d as if you should be paying the fees he really is a tight fisted :silenced:

It is usual that no-one else is allowed in to the family courts the only courts you can go into and watch a case is the magistrates court and crown court unless it states its a closed court, Children are not permitted to go into most courts under the age of 16 unless they are a witness to a case or involved in a case or the judge has requested them there.A lot of the time they use cafcass to get a childs opinion now especially in contact apps as they can see the child and get there view without having to put them through going to court.

I hope you get it sorted pigpen he should be paying the fees himself its not like he pays for anything else.

kazwookie

All fed and watered in this house.

My cat has a swollen LHS of his face, but he is eating, and does not seem to be bothering him, so he has either been bitten by something, / got caught on a prickly bush or similar or been scrapping (which is unlikely) so I'll on watch to see what happens, I think it is bothering me more than him...if it gets worse he is off to the vets, hopefully on Monday as it is cheaper, but if it gets worse, I'll ring them tonight or tomorrow...

toottifrootti

pigpen wrote: »

[STRIKE]Post DLA forms for pinks[/STRIKE] See.. I did them!

:rotfl::T:rotfl::T
carolinejane - well done with the batch cooking - I only seem to manage that in the winter and WTG with the win:T:T:T:T

Valli wrote: »

anyway one of the condoms is bright green glow-in-the-dark...I would have hysterics (laughing) if a glowing thingy hove into view:rotfl:

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:psml- dare you to try it:p:rotfl:

kazw if it wasnt chrome and shiny they probably never noticed:rotfl: but how embarrassing - have you returned to your normal colour now?

piggers - are you not getting legal aid? - you dont have enough of an income to have to pay and he is the party at fault - I would make sure you are there - have a babysitter on standby at the courthouse (your sister?) he is unbelieveable - he is as you say trying to make your life difficult but he should know you better - squeak had better wait!!!!!!! as the others have said make sure he pays for everything he has not contributed to - make a list - i would keep quiet at the mediation so he is off guard for the trial? make out that his latest letter is nothing to you? huge (((hugs))) and all the positive vibes I can muster that it goes in your favour and he pays big time!!!!

had a quiet afternoon - went and visited my NOF.

back to my list now
toots xx

pigpen

When my friend went about her divorce I went with her and looked after her 1 year old in the foyer.. so oh might have to do that.. at least it is air conditioned so noone will boil to death!

I think it is unbelievable he has the gall to even suggest I pay the fees when he forks out nothing for these children!! I haven't asked anything from him only that it would be nice for him to make a contribution towards their trips and prom etc.. which i wouldn't find unreasonable.

I can honestly say I never thought he would abuse the children in this manner.. but I never thought he would sleep around either.. just goes to show doesn't it?!

I know he reads here as well so I hope he is suitably ashamed when he does!

kaz .. make sure puss doesn't have a dental abcess!! It might also be a sting if he is prone to bee munching!

Toots .. yes I get legal aid but the court can decide I have to pay the costs and that would negate my legal aid and I would have to pay ALL my fees and the court costs which is what he is trying to do.. BUT.. he has already told me he 'might' be being made redundant soon.. and if he is I am going for a portion of the money for the children.. 2 can play at nasty [EMAIL="tw@ts"]tw@ts[/EMAIL].. and I am better at it!

kazwookie

Toots~~yep I'm ok, I wouldn't have minded so much if I was 20 years old!! but I still fail to understand why they never knocked on the door, they have never been here before, and it is normal to knock on the front door when arriving at someones house for the 1st time, instead of walking round a large wheelie bin, undoing the lock catch on the side gate and entering the garden!!!

Pigpen~~ I don't think he has been bee munching, as he has been flobbed out all day upstairs in the draugh between the bathroom and the bedroom, he is eating, washing, purring, and rolling around upside down currently on the floor as he normally does, OH thinks he may of scratched himself with his leg, however I have pointed out he doesn't have a leg on that side for scratching!!!

Jojo_the_Tightfisted

Oh Valli.... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6EQTdbBcKO0


Well, what can I say?


The payment cleared

It's been 7 years in coming

SO: Pigpen's Ex

As you are reading this, don't worry - the CSA WILL get your bone idle carcass in the end.

Have a happy weekend.

[sticks two fingers up and blows a raspberry]

longtermlurker_2

Friday - Bathroom and Study/Pc Area
Level One
[STRIKE]Clear and clean the floors in these rooms
Air the rooms.. Clean the radiators in these rooms
[/STRIKE]Level Two
[STRIKE]Clean baths/shower, toilets, don't forget under the rim! and sinks
[/STRIKE]Clear any clutter from desk His desk his job
Dust PC and desk and wipe off those cup rings!! Same applies
[STRIKE]Wipe keyboard, house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc[/STRIKE]
Level Three
[STRIKE]Wash your bathroom mats, nets, clean blind/curtains etc whatever needs cleaning.
[/STRIKE]Wipe down tiles in bathroom.. and delete 10 dead/unused links from your favourites!
Clean shower screen/curtain if you have one/if required
[STRIKE]Collect any stray laundry from upstairs.
[/STRIKE]

Looks good in there now:D

Had a hectic day, DS at a party and boys filming an advert it was good fun but it did drag on.

Hope everyone is ok and enjoying the sunshine.

hex2

JoJo - loving the converse (I have the sky blue ones), and taking slight hope that one day the CSA may pay us the £2.5k they agreed to pay in compensation for maladministration back in February.

I did the loos, washed uniforms, our bedding and most of the kitchen. DH did the DR table and made the TV aerial work again. Does anything else matter?

deeply envious of Greenbee and the spa day.....

pigpen

Jojo_the_Tightfisted wrote: »

SO: Pigpen's Ex

As you are reading this, don't worry - the CSA WILL get your bone idle carcass in the end.

Have a happy weekend.

[sticks two fingers up and blows a raspberry]

LOL.. he isn't bone idle.. just dislikes his children.

I'm bone idle but their wellbeing and providing the best I can for them is my number 1 priority!

Superb news that your payment cleared

have you spent it 25 times over yet?

toottifrootti

a little more progress..............

Monday ~ Kitchen and Dining Area
Level One
Sweep, vacuum and mop floors
Wipe table replacing cloth if necessary..
Level Two
Sort your medicine cupboard.. do you need to stock up on anything?
Level Three
Wipe units and large appliances.. don't forget kickboards!
Empty and clean out the fridge.
Clean door seals, and filters on the appliances .. run through a clean cycle if you've not done one in a while
Extras

1. Defrost the freezer if that needs doing.. shouldn't take long in this weather!

Tuesday - Living Room, Hall
Level 1
Remove clutter
Level 2
Dusting, even if around everything
Clean windows and all glass.
Level 3
15 minutes sort of the junk in the hall
Extras
Wednesday - anywhere
Level One
Clear away anything that isn't in it's place, clothes, toys, books etc
Level Two
Dusting.. all those shelves and flat fluffy surfaces!! Don’t forget the light shade and curtain pole!!!
Level Three
Clean 2 windows
Extras

1. Find 5 things to ebay/freecycle
2. Wipe the radiators, skirtings and window & door frames!
3. HHI

Thursday ~ Bedroom

Level One
Level Two
Level Three
Remove some dust mammoths and wipe over the paintwork
Extras

1. 15 minutes filing!
   
2. Clean the windows
3. 15 minutes sort out of the hall gibble.. see if you can find something to rehome!

Friday - Bathroom and Study/Pc Area

Level One
Clean the radiators in these rooms
Level Two
Clean baths/shower, toilets, don't forget under the rim! and sinks
Clear any clutter from desk
Dust PC and desk and wipe off those cup rings!!
Wipe keyboard, house phone, sockets, switches and mouse etc
Level Three
Wipe down tiles in bathroom..
Extras

• Wipe the paintwork in these rooms
• shine the taps and descaled the shower head!
• Wash the windows in these rooms.. and shine the mirrors

Monday
Tuesday
Wednesday
HHc filing
fill box for auction
Thursday
HHC filing/paperwork
Friday
Saturday
[STRIKE]water garden if nec
visit NOF [/STRIKE]
Sunday
Church
water garden if nec

Whenever...........

1. clean freezer
   
2. filing
3. organise spreadsheets - C & birthday presents - WIP - need to fill it in
4. debtbusting!.. see if you can alter any of these payments to free up some cash!
5. Defluff behind the radiators.. and wipe the fronts so they look nice - 5
6. Gather insurance documents*
7. [STRIKE]Gather guarantees/instruction booklets*[/STRIKE]
8. Gather important papers *(put all 3 together in one accessible file)
9. Passport - fill in form, take to PO and submit - (need £85)
10. ebay to get the money for painters bill/ maybe new curtains and pole, heater for LR, tumble dryer, trip switch repair/ debts /passport £85/outside plumbing repairs, dividing fence
11. Wash light pull strings! (Painting with neat bleach works then rinse in a jug of water)
12. Sort through CD/DVD shelves.. dust and fling any that are no longer of use!
    
13. Wash the vacuum cleaner innards and filters.. do not reassemble until completely dry!!
14. get rid of old paint from shed

No more than 20 things on my list allowed:p
head down and batter on again

toots xx