Hypno's reminder that she is doing ok, actually!

Buffythedebtslayer

You are fabulous Hypno you really are xxx

hypno06

ZTD wrote: »

It is virtually all down to your grit, determination and hard work - and (to be fair) that of your (X)OH.

Oh yes, I fully accept that it has been hard work for both of us. Ultimately, we paid the price as there will always be an element of the debt stress that contributed to our marriage break down, but he is now debt free, and I will be in the next few months, so in a financial way, for both of us it will have paid off. I hope that doesn't sound flippant in any way - I know that "life" is so much more than finances but for us, as for many on these boards, the finances have been all consuming for such a long time.

Our jobs will be to move forward without getting back into debt, and learning from the big price we have both paid in order to make the most of our futures.

Buffythedebtslayer

Doesn't sound flippant. I think its hard to move on fully or make all the changes you want with the debt as a reminder to a different time. Once that has gone it will be like having a clean slate? I have recently finally let myself dream about what might happen next now I am not peering round a mountain of debt

xxx

beanielou

So agree Buffy xx

angelaf_3

So pleased for you Hypno. You have worked so hard and held your nerve on so many occasions. You Rock.

beanielou

Hope you are all organised for the cleaner.
Sleep well x

InaPickle

Hey Hypno, I've been absent of late but WELL DONE on the insurance payout (in terms of drawing a line under it and gettng some money to help debt bust): it must be a weight and a half off your mind. :beer:

Souk08

hypno06 wrote: »

Our jobs will be to move forward without getting back into debt QUOTE]

Think that stands for lots of us lady. I will NEVER go back to how I was before. I just couldn't and it would stick in my throat to even go near certain things/places. WELL DONE AGAIN!

hypno06

Beanie, I have just written her a note telling her where everything is and leaving contact numbers etc. I hope it all works out for us as it will be a real help to me....in practical terms and in terms of my mental wellbeing too!

pickle, yes, another line drawn is good.

Now off to bed for an early night - am shattered!

Sleep well all xx

hypno06

Souk08 wrote: »

think that stands for lots of us lady. I will NEVER go back to how I was before. I just couldn't and it would stick in my throat to even go near certain things/places. WELL DONE AGAIN!

Yes, all the years of being on this site have certainly taught me a whole lot of stuff that is priceless. And if I haven't formed good habits by now, then I probably never will!!