MSE Parents Club Part 13

searching_me

stay angry its fuel for the fire darlin ... it is unfair what is happening to you but you just got to hold out hope that it will work out and until then you call or visit the council every day .. you contact the local mp and whoever you have to til they see it your way xxxx

BeenieCat

Funny thing is, i turned the computer off and was about to go to bed, and for some STUPID reason i came back online and wasted an hour looking of facebook at utter crap....... If i'd just gone to bed i wouldn't have seen it and life wouldn't have got any worse!!

I am just one little weak person, i don't feel strong enough to have TWO little people needing me and depending on every example i set for them to become real grown up people one day, AND all this !!!!!! hating every second of my dire life in this dire shithole AND i want my ex to be a lovely nice man again and come and help me but he won't. Maybe he is right and i am in this mess because i deserve it!!!

And i can't get out of here til i decorate and i can't see how i can possibly do this when Amber is soooooooo demanding and can barely keep up with the general housework let alone do all this. I *think* my brain may explode.

searching_me

breathe ... your a great person and the reason you should be and are strong is because of your kids theyre what get you through everyday even if they do push your buttons .. dont let these people win you're better then them .. wish i could come and help you x

SugarSpun

Beenie go and see the council. Insist on seeing the person above your case worker, take a copy of the screen shot and tell them you've received another credible threat to your safety (this including the threat from your ex, and remind them that your HO said that it didn't matter if you moved because he's abusive and he'll find you) and you need to be moved. Take Amber.

Inform your MP as well.

You're strong enough to look after your little ones, but you have to start by being strong enough to look after yourself. You can do it.

got-it-spend-it

I agree with Sugar, Beenie. It's time to get your MP involved as you have been treated appallingly by the HO. Please keep in mind that the way you have been treated has been unacceptable and you deserve far, far better. You have been the victim of domestic violence, you have two young children and they have a responsibility towards you and A and C. You have been so amazingly strong so far, you just need to keep up the momentum to get the move you deserve.

got-it-spend-it

Is it good or bad that I just looked at the M&S sale and realised I already had a few of the baby boy items for H, bought at car boot sales?!

gill_81uk

Beenie - I just wanted to say that I'm full of admiration for how you cope. I can't wait to hand T over when DH comes in and my mum has described him as an 'easy baby' lol. You're obviously doing a fab job , your DS sounds like such a sweet, caring boy. Hang in there, and follow some of the good advice above x

jillie1974

beenie...
nothing too add except i totally agree with everyone else's comments. you need to go to the housing office and speak to a supervisor.

Somnium

Choppy - Thanks for sharing those pics there so lovely :S I think the plate is a fab idea

My_Fathers_Daughter wrote: »

Right - stupid question for Jillie, Sami and anyone else on Frontierville


Can anybody see my son? I have moved everything around and I haven't got a clue where he is. I need him to finish a task

I totally only read the last part of this post and had a total :eek: moment, until I re read the first line lol.

JM - Jake is so sweet to his lil sis

Jillie - poor cat but funny K

Beenie - studid cow! Poor DS thats so mean. Anyhoo big hugs for you and your not all those horrible things and you do not deserve it. Please take this as a well meaning kick up the bum!

Well T didnt sleep too badly proped on her v pillow, she was breathing very noisily tho with her lil stuffed up nose. Five am rubbed some morer snuffle baby on her chest and saline drops administered and she dropped back off till 8am Off out today to get our new exhaust checked as its only a few weeks old and already started rattling, gonna walk into town with MIL while thats been done, see if I can find any sale bargains.

My_Fathers_Daughter

Beenie - I have nothing to add, Sugar has it covered. Take copies of all your letters and anything else you have with you. Time to make a fuss.

Does your MP do clinics? Or maybe go to citizens advice and see if they will help support you with the HO?