MSE Parents Club Part 13

SusanC_2

Becles wrote: »

Charlotte has decided she would like a baby brother and she is going to call him Trifle :rotfl:She also wants to be a princess who flies helicopters when she grows up.

I'm glad Alice isn't the only one into having a baby sibling. I'm not sure who's worse at names though - Alice thinks "Baby brother" is a good name for a baby sister.

SusanC_2

BeenieCat wrote: »

But if he gave up his flat and everything to be with me that'd prove he does care and we only ever used to argue cos i said he didn't,.

So confusing... I'm seriously thinking about it i have a future in my head and he's in it, but i don't know if i'm just dreaming. He's always been in my future, it's as if i've been waiting for him to sort his head out and come back. Sad i know, but i've never managed to shake it off even though i've tried to move on and plan my life without him in it. Just don't know if he'd put enough effort to start making up for not being there for me and that's where we'd fail. Argh i dunno, he always does this, throws a spanner in the works when i don't expect it :mad:

Obviously you still have feelings for him but are they for who he is now or he was/who you thought he was? Also after all the things he's done, do you really think you can trust him? Would you honestly be happy with him or is it just that being with him sounds better than being on your own with all this stupid noise stuff going on?

Krystaltips

Welcome Becci

Just called my Mum, Brother sent her a text while she was at work but said he'll ring her after visiting... She said "So what's he named him?" Not because he didn't tell her... Just so that I could pronounce it for her loL!

Also, Hubby was talking to FIL earlier and mentioned the baby's name... His Dad had a real reaction to something so 'unusual' bodes well for if we have another girl anyway...

aless02

Welcome Becci! There's a few of us in London and its surrounds. Whereabouts are you located? Jennynoo & I live in Streatham (but I'm currently in the USA on holiday).

Been kinda keeping up. Having a down day as we were out and about all day yesterday, so Finn didn't get any proper naps and only managed to catch a few minutes in the car here and there - which was really hard on him, poor thing. So we're staying in most of the day to catch up on sleep as it's only going to get busier from here before the wedding on Saturday. DH is off hiking and I WAS babysitting my soon-to-be step-nephew but thankfully he was taken off my hands before too long - he's quite a handful!!

Oh and a new definite favorite food around here is beef. We don't generally buy non-minced beef on our strict grocery budget, so this week was the first time Finn got to try any! oh and he LOVES the Jumperoo we're borrowing...makes me wished I gotten one of those rather than a L&G but oh well.

Am enjoying free reign over their 52" telly though .

Ooo, I keep forgetting to ask BFers for advice/whatnot. One of my nipples has been paining off and on for several weeks now...I thought I had a milk blister but now there's not even the telltale white spot - it just hurts! The pain is random sometimes throughout the day, and definitely during/after feeds from that side. Last night I was kept awake for 1.5 hrs after feeding in the night with pain pangs. Help? It's not thrush, I'm pretty sure, unless it's asymptomatic. No swelling, lumps, or discoloration either.

searching_me

hello .. havent caught up yet just saw beenie post .......

just thought id say my 2 cent ....... ARE YOU MAD!!!! now most the hard works done he wants to come crawling back?? .. if you take him back you are the doormat he thinks you are .. sorry i would say the same thing to any of my friends .. actually think i have .. but a lepoard doesnt change their spots ..

been a crap unfair day so im not exactly in the best mood but i wont hear of any of my friends having the mick taken out of them x

Millie's_Mum

Evening all, El ate a washing up sponge after tea tonight, looking forward to seeing that come out the other end!

Also SJ has delivered me a cheeky order of cupcakes tonight and Millie declared her the best cakemaker in the world ever!(even though she hasn't actually tasted one yet)

Beenie NNNNNNOOOOOOOO!

Becles Trifle sounds like a fab name to me.

got-it-spend-it

^^^^What SM said, Beenie. You have come so far and done so brilliantly. I can totally understand why you feel it would be better with the ex, but you know deep down it wouldn't. As SM says, a leopard doesn't change its spots. I would totally take SJ to Michael Macintyre if I were you, she makes cakes!

Aless- no BFing advice I'm afraid but it sounds ouchy. Is there a BFing helpline where you are that you could call? Are you all set for the wedding?

Krystal- do you have names in mind?

searching_me

ooooooooooo one more comment beenie ...

an ex is an ex for a reason .. and its usually never good x

Becciboobah

@ Aless - I'm in Thamesmead, in between Woolwich and Abbeywood, I know Streatham kinda, a couple of friends live in Balham.

Thanks, I've been reading through the previous posts to get a feel for the place!

I will get up to speed....oh and Beenie - exactly as above an ex is an ex for a reason....sooner be single than with someone who makes you miserable

aless02

GISI, thanks. Just doing a bit of research and it may be thrush after all...hmmmmm, weird.

Hi to everyone else , only been reading bits and pieces, so haven't absorbed a lot to comment on! Except for this: Beenie, nononononononononono, STAY AWAY.